Males With High Bodycounts Are More Likely To Cheat &/Or Have Failed Monog Relationships

[ill_will82]

I don't get the point in asking someone their body count. If anything, Do ppl expect every person they meet to provide an honest answer?

Men lie, Women lie.

My thing is if you're that concerned about someone sexual history and thinking about getting involved talk about getting tested beforehand.

 

[Nemesis]

What do you think about the statement in op? Do you agree/disagree? Why/whynot?


Background questions: What is your real body count and what is your age?Are you/were you a cheater?
Has a woman ever asked you about your body count?Were you honest about it? why/why not?
If you lied, did you lie higher or lower than the actual number? Why?

disagree .....Im 36, body count is high

Im not a cheater , but when I was in my teens and early twenties I was... generally when Im single I fukk around a lot and when Im with someone I stay faithful

women tend to assume I have a high body count "I can tell you've slept with a lot of women" used to get that shyt a lot..... I used to lie but now I just tell the truth .... I used to lower it to a realistic figure....

my relationships for the most part have been good... for every woman Ive slept with there were three that I could have slept with but didnt because of various reasons...


numbers aint really the story ...... the man you need to be careful of is the dude that has NEVER turned down a woman .... If he has had the opportunity to have sex with only five women and he slept with every single one of them.... thats the dude you need to be aware of

i dont consider myself a womaniser or a ladies man because I dont obsess about women or sex and to be honest when it comes to pursuing women Ive always been lazy, im not jumping through hoops for anyone .....

Ive always been more motivated chasing money to be honest, that was always my Achilles heel

 

[Elle Seven]

I asked my husband when we were dating. The number was very high. It amazed me and saddened me at the same time.

Unlike what some folks here have offered, it did not secretly make me happy though.

 

[El Coupeacabra]

Lmao @ the title change

I expect men to lie higher and women to lie lower.

Kinda sounds like you did it for your own feelings though, not hers.

It's good to hear you're not a hoe though.

Lol nah it was a really emotional conversation where she was like "I feel like I should tell you that I've been with a few guys."

And I was like fukk She finna tell me she fukked all my breaux

And she said "4 different guys" and we was both but then I was like wait Four???



shyt I been with 5 you good baby girl

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Knew a dude with an exceptionally high body count and he cheated heavy during his marriage.

Maybe she forced him to marry
Choose better on who you marry brettas

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I asked my husband when we were dating. The number was very high. It amazed me and saddened me at the same time.

Unlike what some folks here have offered, it did not secretly make me happy though.

U married him tho

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I asked my husband when we were dating. The number was very high. It amazed me and saddened me at the same time.

Unlike what some folks here have offered, it did not secretly make me happy though.

Would u rather for him to be a virgin ?
It's good that he has sex.experience
No homo

 

[Giselle]

200+

Yes, I'm a Dirrty Dikk Nikka.

Thanks for answering. Can you answer the rest of the background questions in the op? Also, do you think you'd ever get married and stop cheating? How often do you get std tested?

Knew a dude with an exceptionally high body count and he cheated heavy during his marriage.

Not surprising. Idk why they even get married, they know they're going to cheat.

I asked my husband when we were dating. The number was very high. It amazed me and saddened me at the same time.

Unlike what some folks here have offered, it did not secretly make me happy though.

Oh, wow!
Do you think he made it higher bc he thought it would be more desirable to you? Do you think that he has ever cheated on you?Has he told you or have you ever asked about him cheating on women before being with you?

 

[El Coupeacabra]

I asked my husband when we were dating. The number was very high. It amazed me and saddened me at the same time.

Unlike what some folks here have offered, it did not secretly make me happy though.

I feel you but...you married him, so imma assume that he knows what he's doing...(nahmean?)

What I wonder though...is if his bodycount was exceptionally low (say you were number 2 or 3) but he was disappointing in bed, would that somehow be better?

I see a lot of women hating on brehs with high bodycounts but I see even more women clown brehs who are inexperienced and/or unskilled at sex

 

[Elle Seven]

Lol, true.

But because of his body count, I felt very insecure of my ability to be "enough" for him. On the same token, he was fukking women, it seemed, who like fukking just as many people as he did. So, again, I couldn't understand my appeal to him because I was (am) a square.

 

[Giselle]

disagree .....Im 36, body count is high

Im not a cheater , but when I was in my teens and early twenties I was... generally when Im single I fukk around a lot and when Im with someone I stay faithful

women tend to assume I have a high body count "I can tell you've slept with a lot of women" used to get that shyt a lot..... I used to lie but now I just tell the truth .... I used to lower it to a realistic figure....

my relationships for the most part have been good... for every woman Ive slept with there were three that I could have slept with but didnt because of various reasons...


numbers aint really the story ...... the man you need to be careful of is the dude that has NEVER turned down a woman .... If he has had the opportunity to have sex with only five women and he slept with every single one of them.... thats the dude you need to be aware of

i dont consider myself a womaniser or a ladies man because I dont obsess about women or sex and to be honest when it comes to pursuing women Ive always been lazy, im not jumping through hoops for anyone .....

Ive always been more motivated chasing money to be honest, that was always my Achilles heel

What is your bodycount though? I doubt it is that high if you do not pursue women.

What were those "various reasons"?

The bold if my point, usually guys who have high body counts do not usually turn women down, that is how their body counts got so high.NEVER isn't realistic. Ofcourse most guys are going to reject women who are not that attractive to them.

Aren't you the guy from the flop tidal thread btw? It's still flopping.

 

[Doobie Doo]

The most important question is the second one which you did not answer. I am guessing that I know why too, bc you have never been in a long term monog relationship without cheating. All you probably do is sleep around like lots of people these day. You more than likely do not know how to have one, just like the rest of them bc of all of the sleeping around, which is why people are getting married older or never at all. & then if/when they do get married, over half end in divorce bc of cheating.

Can you answer the rest of the questions on the op, pls?

What is the point of you asking me a question and then making up a completely false story of my life to justify a completely false answer? None of the shyt you wrote about me is true and you are coming off as a liar.

 

[Giselle]

I see a lot of women hating on brehs with high bodycounts but I see even more women clown brehs who are inexperienced and/or unskilled at sex

I've seen this too on lsa. Some are nice about it and are willing to tell the guy what they want, but others question the guy's sexuality and "manhood", which is stupid imo. I haven't heard much about it irl though, only on social medias. I think most women irl say they would be ok with it even if they don't mean it.

What is the point of you asking me a question and then making up a completely false story of my life to justify a completely false answer? I can honestly tell you I don't want to have a serious convo with someone who is a habitual liar telling lies on me.

You purposely avoided the question twice, just like you are deflecting now. Bye!

 

[Elle Seven]

Thanks for answering. Can you answer the rest of the background questions in the op? Also, do you think you'd ever get married and stop cheating? How often do you get std tested?



Not surprising. Idk why they even get married, they know they're going to cheat.

Oh, wow!
Do you think he made it higher bc he thought it would be more desirable to you? Do you think that he has ever cheated on you?Has he told you or have you ever asked about him cheating on women before being with you?

I don't think he made it higher on purpose because it would have served no purpose; the number scared me, not aroused me. He was the 2nd person I'd been intimate with. According to his count, I was the 151st See what I mean?

I don't believe he has cheated. It's weird to explain. When he was single, according to him, he had these "rules". He had no problem fukking someone but wouldn't kiss anyone but a girlfriend. I'm not even sure he was giving all these women his real info. He has had only 4 other relationships I know of, and he was completely candid in them. In those, he didn't cheat. It was like he flipped a switch. He was either full hoe or fully committed.

 

[The Mad Titan]

A extremely high body count shows that something is off. hell a high body count shows something off, but that can steam from a number of things outside of just being thotful.

I'd say a extremely high body count from a person would have increased chances of them stepping out or cheating.


At the same time it could also mean that they are over that and the person they married has something that random hookups didn't offer.