Male on Male Sexual Assault/ Harrassment

What Should She Do?

  • Don't say anything, if the guy wanted it reported he would have reported it

    Votes: 7 36.8%
  • Ask the the victim if he wants to report it

    Votes: 6 31.6%
  • Report it

    Votes: 6 31.6%

  • Total voters
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Silkk

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I feel the same way. She said dude will hover around other young gay men as well but it never crossed her mind that he was on that type of shyt.
How you saw the vid and no one else did? If there are cameras everywhere then that means there should be a security/audit team that monitors the footage.

Sounds like they not doing their job well. Forward that shyt to them anonymously.
 

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How you saw the vid and no one else did? If there are cameras everywhere then that means there should be a security/audit team that monitors the footage.

Sounds like they not doing their job well. Forward that shyt to them anonymously.
Or worse they did and know she did too and did nothing and they are prepping the flutes for her and the sick fukk.
 

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I feel like the only reason his actions are being questioned is because the victim is male and gay but to me it shouldn't matter. Wrong is wrong.

See... sadly, some gay guys think that its okay to be toxic as long as its to other gay people and a good number of gay folks isolate themselves into the gay space so you outside of it, never hear about the toxic shytshow. Weird shyt. Sadly, too many gay guys that will do another gay man dirty then turn around and play victim when confronted or checked on their behavior for example kevin spacey. Some narcissistic/sociopathic shyt basically but theyll make themselves out to be a victim. Sometimes these toxic clowns pull that shyt to people outside the gay space and they get whats coming to them.

My point is you got folks not being 100, not taking accountability for their shyt but want other people to be 100. Its a two way street. Some of these gay folks be doing the homophobes work to their own better than the homophobes do and theyll swear never take accountability. Dont believe the bullshyt the gay community tries to make yall believe, for real.
 
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Or worse they did and know she did too and did nothing and they are prepping the flutes for her and the sick fukk.
She wouldn’t be at fault unless she saw them in a way she wasn’t supposed to. I thought she meant somebody recorded it on their phone in person.

Starting to sound more like somebody watching the surveillance may have videotaped and then circulated it. :patrice:
 

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How you saw the vid and no one else did? If there are cameras everywhere then that means there should be a security/audit team that monitors the footage.

Sounds like they not doing their job well. Forward that shyt to them anonymously.
I never saw the video. This is second hand information. Most places with cameras don’t have someone watching them 24/7.
 

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So a friend of mine was telling me about this situation at her job. She's pretty upset about it but she is unsure what to do. The situation is regarding 2 homosexual male employees.

Basically 1 guy started jacking this own dikk through his clothes and then grabbed the other guys hand and forced him to touch the first guy's dikk.

The guy forced to touch wasn't visibly upset but rejected the advance and then rejected several more from the first guy which included attempted nipple grabs and arm kisses.

The second guy has not reported the incidents but it was caught on camera by my friend.

I know this thread isn't from Harlem :dame: but if you were in this situation as the one being sexually harassed/assulted how would you want this situation to be handled (whether you are gay or straight)?
This goes way beyond typical contact center fukkery, which is the baseline right behind warehouses/fulfillment centers. In what sort of hellscape do or your friend work? :picard:
 

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She wouldn’t be at fault unless she saw them in a way she wasn’t supposed to. I thought she meant somebody recorded it on their phone in person.

Starting to sound more like somebody watching the surveillance may have videotaped and then circulated it. :patrice:
If something criminal takes places on your watch and you do nothing and it is proven that you knew or that you should have known you are gonna suffer consequences too. Its one thing if they are all coworkers but she is supervising these people and standing idly by while one gets assualted. That aint flying in most if any companies in this day and age.
 

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That boy gay as hell too. No gay man is trying some shyt like that with a straight man. They already messing around and the other dude not trying to do shyt at work.
I stated that they were both gay in the OP. But just because they are gay doesn't mean the second guy is automatically having sex with him.
 

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As someone that works in HR some of the questions I have are:

Is your friend in management?

Is there a supervisor/subordinate relationship between the two men?

Is there a pattern of behavior?

If the answer is yes to any of these questions she should bump it up the chain of command and let them deal with it. If only to protect herself.

As someone that gets paid to post on The Coli:

If the answer is no to all of those questions: Mind your business.
 

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This goes way beyond typical contact center fukkery, which is the baseline right behind warehouses/fulfillment centers. In what sort of hellscape do or your friend work? :picard:
Mannn we use to fukk hoes in them warehouses.
Everything is A Go lol
 

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I stated that they were both gay in the OP. But just because they are gay doesn't mean the second guy is automatically having sex with him.
I missed that part. But Im saying that I doubt (possibly wrongly) that they werent already involved and one took his kinky shyt farther than the other wanted to at work.

Then again, Im basing that being a straight man and thinking that a man wouldnt do that with some random woman at work. He may try it with a girl he's hooking up with but not a stranger. But gay men...I cant really speak on whats normal for them I guess.
 
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