Male Loneliness Epidemic ..Any Coli Brehs Going Through This?

[Shadow King]

Loneliness as an adult is self imposed.

Just join a rec league, a hobby group, an art class , a meetup, volunteer OP, etc.

Eh, I'd say it's self-imposed as a child. As an adult it's much easier to fall into an isolated routine.

Muthaphuckas don't have any hobbies any more. nikkas sit around online all day browsing and gossiping like a sewing circle hoes. It's unmanly to not have real world hobbies and interest. It's not difficult for men to form friendships with other men it just requires you getting the fukk up out the house and finding something to do.

True friendships? Yeah it is.

How are you a father and husband but lonely? What about ppl who don't have either?

The Coli is going to get mad but a lot of family men do not like their wives and they love their children but some dynamics are more stressful than fun. Being physically around people doesn't bar you from loneliness.

A lot of men out here are living utility belts

 

[UpNext]

Brehs are very loose with the word friend in this topic. There's dudes you hoop and occasionally shoot the shyt with and there's friends. The two aren't mutually exclusive and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your casual acquaintances and there's anything wrong with being a casual acquaintance. They just aren't your friend lol.

 

[Ol’Otis]

Need more 3rd places

 

[DrexlersFade]

You going through it bytch nikka

Try reading the article remedial buck
I'm A fakkit......GMB with no kids


The epidemic affects stay at home fathers for the most part
We got plenty here

My post got more daps p*ssy no one likes you

 

[Laidbackman]

women actually make good friends if you can resist the urge to fukk them

That's because we're wired differently. Nothing new under the sun. You just said it in an immoral way.

In other words, this don't work if the girl is attractive, unless the male is married, or in a relationship, or he's gay. If he's not one of those, and the attractive girl is available, he gonna give. It may even take 5+ years. And don't be surprised if her gay friend tries to be straight one of those nights.

If you have fine sisters in your family, who kept male friends, you know this by now.

 

[HARLEM AL]

the red pillers said men have deep brotherhood but women are catty and hate each oher

guess that was cap

all my home girls still got the same friends from HS/college and they in they 30s

Get the fukk outta here. nikkas dont even change their barbers let alone their friends.


But we know whats going to happen when chicks going on trips together......................................

 

[Software]

That's because we're wired differently. Nothing new under the sun. You just said it in an immoral way.

In other words, this don't work if the girl is attractive, unless the male is married, or in a relationship, or he's gay. If he's not one of those, and the attractive girl is available, he gonna give. It may even take 5+ years.

If you have fine sisters in your family, who kept male friends, you know this by now.

The opposite is also true. As an attractive man you can't just go around being friends with other people's wives and girlfriends you either end up having them try to fukk you or have their boyfriend/husband on some jealous hating paranoid shyt

 

[Laidbackman]

The opposite is also true. As an attractive man you can't just go around being friends with other people's wives and girlfriends you either end up having them try to fukk you or have their boyfriend/husband on some jealous hating paranoid shyt

This has always been my life, even when I wasn't trying to be close to their wives or girlfriends.

 

[Shadow King]

That's because we're wired differently. Nothing new under the sun. You just said it in an immoral way.

In other words, this don't work if the girl is attractive, unless the male is married, or in a relationship, or he's gay. If he's not one of those, and the attractive girl is available, he gonna give. It may even take 5+ years. And don't be surprised if her gay friend tries to be straight one of those nights.

If you have fine sisters in your family, who kept male friends, you know this by now.

 

[AtomicUse]

I could never be a stay at home dad. that sounds TERRIBLE.

work is the way men typically get away from their family.

Don’t you WFH?

 

[Software]

Don’t you WFH?

He closes the door to his office and locks it for 8 hours

 

[kingdizzy01]

 

[Laidbackman]

The one thing that stood out about this story was, this stay-at-home dad will never have to worry about his wife up, and getting a divorce, if they've been married for 10 years or more. If she does that, she'll be paying him child support, and wound up splitting half her pension with him instead. This long spoiler may be a little off topic, but very much to do with stay-at-home husbands.

Spoiler

I knew two men exact my age, who were in this situation. Not that they weren't trying to be the breadwinners, but their careers weren't taking off in the right path fast enough. One was my best friend in my freshmen year in college, who went on to finish law school. The other was my first cousin, who started off as a fireman, then got his business degree, then got a job as a superintendent.

They both married woman with very high paying careers, who often became the breadwinners, while they became stayed-at-home husbands a lot of time during their marriages, meanwhile doing in-between jobs. My college buddy finally started making a decent salary, but by that time, they were married for about 20 years. My cousin wound up doing real estate. Not sure why he left the superintendent job, but he and his wife were also married for about 20 years by that time as well.

My cousin, and my college buddy both wound up having massive hear attacks, and suddenly passing away. My college buddy practically dropped dead in the kitchen one morning while cooking breakfast. I remember telling him several months before this happened, that he would never have to worry about his wife taking half of everything if she left. Being in law, he sounded like he knew this, and he also sounded like it felt good knowing it. I remember comparing him to our mutual college buddy, who went and got his masters. He was also married for about 20 years, except his wife quit her job years ago, making him the breadwinner, while she did a little business job at home. If she divorced him today, he'd be screwed. I saw that buddy back in June, and he sounded screwed anyway...lol.

I'm not saying there was foul-play in my cousin's sudden death, or my college buddy's sudden death, but this is one h*ll of a coincidence, with them being the only two say-at-home husbands I knew. These two individuals were irreplaceable.

I'll end by saying, I would have never wanted to have their lives...and not just because two of them wound up deceased. And they probably would have never 100% wanted to have my life either. With all said, I believe everybody should just enjoy the life they have.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

Get the fukk outta here. nikkas dont even change their barbers let alone their friends.


But we know whats going to happen when chicks going on trips together......................................

how old are u ?

lot of these young nikkas dont have friends like that in the first place. the friends they think they got will do them janky over some money or some p*ssy

 

[HARLEM AL]

how old are u ?

lot of these young nikkas dont have friends like that in the first place. the friends they think they got will do them janky over some money or some p*ssy

lies, even nerd nikkas be having friends that they are really close with.

You talking out your ass.