Nah and nah.
Decisions, decisions.
We’re there any points where things flatlined or has things always been interesting between you two?
Like any relationship there were a few rough spots. We dated for 7 years before getting married back in 2017. You just have to weigh the pros and the cons. As men, we are logical thinkers and women are emotional thinkers.
When we hit our rough spots, I made the decision that I wouldn't find a woman more custom made for me then she was. She was wife material, doesnt club, doesnt drink or smoke, an intellectual, educated, can cook wanted a family, etc.
Everything I needed in a woman. Decide if shes worth it or if you feel you can do better.
In terms of looks, my wife on her best day is a solid 8/10. But physical attraction was never my main focus like most men. If i was outchea tryna find a 10/10 with all of the aforementioned qualities, I would still be single.
Thats the difference between me and most nikkas on here. Girls have to be Meagan Good in the face and Ashanti in the body for them to even look twice. Just give me a wife. Y'all can have all that other shyt. My priorities have always been building a family and a legacy, not chasing thots.