I said that a 21-22 year old woman dating a man in his 30s is the exception not the norm.
Not saying it's the norm, but it's faaaaaaaaaaaaar from atypical. 30s guy with his shyt together, still looks relatively young can
... It's nothing.
Especially in the hood/HBCUs/non-prestigious PWIs. Many of those young chicks ain't used to much. Going to Ruby Tuesday is like going to a 5 star steakhouse.
That experience coupled with the aura of being around a older man (which triggers the daddy complex for many of 'em) = It's Over for 'em.
You don't have to believe us, tho.
Do ya thing, tho. Keep focusing on being a better you... as we all should do. You'll continue to be fine.
the absolute worst is the
28-32 age group broads
just mad 24/7
want a husband so bad
go to the gym just to sit in the steam room
these young gurls doing yoga and crossfit
just cause yo old ass ran track in highschool dont mean you can just chill and still be fine
Damn near spot on... I just adjusted the age a bit... IME, it doesn't really hit hard til about 28. From that point on, the bitterness is just
levels...
I hate when them older broads have that lil pouch gut yet wanna wear nothing but form fitting clothes
bytch look like she smuggling 3 bricks of that raw for Chapo
go out to Outback Steakhouse and she all on my plate
talmbout
"oh that looks good, I shoulda got that"
then wanna eat off my plate
shyt turns my stomach
then i just stop eating
then when i dont take all that's left over home
she saying im wasting food
greedy ass old hoe
why you got snack cakes in ya purse?
... this nicca here...
You really one 1. Y'all,
@Geoffrey_Chaucer is so authentic with this shyt, there's no way he hasn't dealt with that age bracket... consistently. Not a game outchea.
What's really killing these older women is their pride. Refusing to accept they're on a different clock than men. Thinking they have forever to meet a good man. Pursuing a "career" before a family, when a good man will help a woman with both of those.
So true. And clearly... because I'm replying to this topic this issue resonates with me. I've come across a lot of 27,28-mid 30s females that could be wife. They have the resume (well educated, luxury whip, some style, still can turn heads), HOWEVER, they failed to cultivate THEMSELVES. And yet, they want that ring sooooooooooooo bad
, but the substance is lacking and/or it takes a big as$ ice pick and a mallet and long nights of getting past the facade to get the substance and some measure of vulnerability.
I want them to get married, too. I really do. Try to give 'em some game in a respectful, friendly manner, but they wont' accept it on some
, nicca please. And then they dig in even deeper with the diva facade shyt, cutting off their noses to spit their faces for the sake of proving a point.
Now ladies, to be fair, I'm not making IT Cert money like the rest of these Coli niccas. Be sure to quote that when you quote me, OK? But if I were, you're right, I'm sure that near 6 figures or 6 figure salary would humble that age bracket really fast...
But ultimately, I have no choice but to also experiment with a lower age bracket. You forced by hand.
And years later they finally get it and humble themselves, and call your phone just to "check up on you."