Light Skinned & Mixed-Race Black Males: Talk About Your Privilege

How much of a benefit/privilege do you believe your skin has afforded you in your lifetime?

  • A Minuscule Amount of Privilege

    Votes: 14 25.5%
  • Some Privilege

    Votes: 14 25.5%
  • A Lot of Privilege

    Votes: 9 16.4%
  • Care not to Say

    Votes: 2 3.6%
  • No Priviliege

    Votes: 16 29.1%

  • Total voters
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Will Ross

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Because your statements aren't based in reality.

On paper you'd be correct. But this is America. Race is still largely viewed as a binary concept. Light folks were still included in the "black experience" whether you acknowledge that or not. Membership to extremist groups hasn't risen because the President is perceived as white. DuBois didn't have problems at Harvard because he was viewed as white.

Socially, light and mixed folks are viewed as black. If you're talking about genetic purity or whatever, good luck finding a pure ANYTHING in America.

Now the problem with calling light and mixed folks out is it invalidates their accomplishments and commitment to the whole.

That and it's kinda presumptuous to tell someone that they are or aren't black because of your inflexibility.

The issue is mixed people are being used as the main face of what is black.
When they are just a small minority
 

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Black man logic
We like all shades of women:troll: - ignore black women and only acknowledge lightskin women/pawgs/latinas
We all black brother regardless of shade:troll:- diss lightskin nikkas because he insecure,hate lightskin nikkas for no reason
Aint no difference between shades no privilege :troll:- Goes out of his way to make sure his kids dont come out darkskin like him
I aint tryna read over 5 pages of lies get the fukk outta here

I thought black women were being bitter but having spent enough time on TheColi black men have to be the most obfuscating people after white folks. The lies they tell themselves is sad.

To add: biracial women are just as black as anyone else.. :troll:But like them precisely because they don't look that black.
 

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If they don't want to be onboard with black issues, fine, Im not trying to claim ANYONE. But for those who ride 100 percent for black issues, and see THEMSELVES as black, then they should not be rejected. Malcolm X and Bob Marley were mixed, so we shouldn't even claimed them in Black History Month.

Thecoli, yall. :heh:

Malcolm X momma was white?
 

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My dad is mixed race with light eyes and curly hair and an accent..females old and young would always flirt with him..even when me and my bros were with him. It was annoying to say the least..
 

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My dad is mixed race with light eyes and curly hair and an accent..females old and young would always flirt with him..even when me and my bros were with him. It was annoying to say the least..
I've seen this on many accounts....people can deny it all they want, and we can keep this myth up of black women prefering darker skinned males...but from what I've seen, if a light near-caucasian in appearance "black" male with blue/green eyes, aquiline features (thin nose, lips etc) professes and openly declares that they "love black" women...black women of all types will fall out of the windows for him, they nearly faint at the very idea that they could be "preferred" by such a man...as opposed to the Wesley Snipes brand, which will then get completely ignored.

Trust me when I say it...they love them light-brights just as much as any black male ever did :sas1:
 

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I've seen this on many accounts....people can deny it all they want, and we can keep this myth up of black women prefering darker skinned males...but from what I've seen, if a light near-caucasian in appearance "black" male with blue/green eyes, aquiline features (thin nose, lips etc) professes and openly declares that they "love black" women...black women of all types will fall out of the windows for him, they nearly faint at the very idea that they could be "preferred" by such a man...as opposed to the Wesley Snipes brand, which will then get completely ignored.

Trust me when I say it...they love them light-brights just as much as any black male ever did :sas1:

I agree to a certain extent. My mom is dark skinned and my dad actively pursued her even though she wasn't feeling him initially lol
 

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I've seen this on many accounts....people can deny it all they want, and we can keep this myth up of black women prefering darker skinned males...but from what I've seen, if a light near-caucasian in appearance "black" male with blue/green eyes, aquiline features (thin nose, lips etc) professes and openly declares that they "love black" women...black women of all types will fall out of the windows for him, they nearly faint at the very idea that they could be "preferred" by such a man...as opposed to the Wesley Snipes brand, which will then get completely ignored.

Trust me when I say it...they love them light-brights just as much as any black male ever did :sas1:


This is why





While i agree with the POV of black women,and darker women...




I'm like :rudy: at these same hoes........... because even before i was shyt. i got hoes off features alone. and my boy who is mixed with rican .... too easy. :banderas:
 

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As far as white people go.

I had a situation recently........ actually a huge situation :sas1:


fukked up... obviously the initial contact was because im black and young and was in a certain whip. :wow:


But.... cacs are interesting.:patrice: Very interesing because I noticed over 77 Cases in 15 years and have always paid attention to these things:usure:

There is always that chance that a darker breh... wouldn't have that one cop that feel comfortable to be cool in jail.... or maybe his court plea, then later statement will be looked at a certain way

:sas2: Its the fukking truth. Just like the Bod Marley , Petertosh shyt. :usure:

Just how the black chick in my office wanna be all pro black because of J Cole...:usure:.......... she always like conscious rappers but some how Common and immortal technique are her favorites... not some other ones. She claims it's not brainwashing, but .. her track record is not looking good.
Just like how Malcolm x just had that way with people when he'd go into Churches and he wasn't even a Christian. Asians , hispanics, black people And white people .......... are fukked up off this shade shyt.


but at the end of the day...... everybody wanna be us regardless of shade. and most hate us regardless of shade. :yeshrug:
 

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I agree to a certain extent. My mom is dark skinned and my dad actively pursued her even though she wasn't feeling him initially lol

Same here.

All my brothers inherited my dad's features except me since I inherited my darker features from my mom. My dad taught me to love myself but I still saw the light skin is treated better stuff within that side of my family. :ld:
 
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