I like the way that man stands 
Lets keep it a stack. A lot of Black Women do not like productive brothas.
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This is one of the biggest issues.
People see something on a micro level and then try and attribute it to.a huge group of people (black women in this case) as if they're a monolithic group which is a way of thinking that whites etc used to hold us down with and still do to this day.
CreepyMcCreeperson
Veteran
The vacation thing alone is just crazy. It literally ruined these bytches. I had to drop my ex because of that over the top, i wanna go on vaca once every 2 months shytand mind you i make enough to do a solid 2-4 good vacas a year + a few local "staycation" trips. It's simply not good enough for these chicks blinded by the IG bullshyt.
Then she would be compatible with a man who also likes to go on vacations. My wife and I try to do a staycation every month, and fly somewhere twice a year. It could be something as simple as getting tickets to a show in another city, and getting a hotel room. It gets boring staying in all the time. Activities create memories, and more things to talk about.
-OP just wanted to shyt on Black women & didn't even bother to find a clip that backed up his nonsense.
Brolic
High Value Poster
It really is a cancer in our community. That’s all black women talk about on social media and dating sites. It’s good to travel, but traveling is not a hobby.The vacation thing alone is just crazy. It literally ruined these bytches. I had to drop my ex because of that over the top, i wanna go on vaca once every 2 months shyt
It’s one of the reasons so many brehs are struggling with dating. The average black man makes like 50k a year before taxes.
We’re expected to pay all the bills, take them on trips, and be their entertainment/fun box in an era when everything is overpriced.
Meanwhile all our grand parents and fathers had to do was take them out to eat, go to the movies, or dance at a club every once in a while.
prime
Superstar
another black women saying this is real but Coli black women are goddess simps think niqqas is bitter and angry at black women 
Man I know damn well y'all ain't use a 20 vs 1 dating video to get this agenda off.
Won’t be long before bruhs start using Hell Date to push an agenda.
Who the hell is making these
Hilarious show, it was a couple of chicks on the show I loved as a young bruh
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For real. Take internet dating shows as a monolith for all black peopleAll of a sudden nikkas are believing everything in these fake ass shows
Any reason to shyt on Black women
"I'm A Law School Graduate "
No better than the cacs at that point.
You sound like an insufferable twat. I don't know what was said exactly, but I'm sure then 3-4 dude had a valid reason for checking your ass.a lot of men don't like a productive woman. the other day in a financial based dating topic, i posted that i'm a top earner and 3-4 dudes decided to get sassy at me for it. and i'm not even trying to fukk them lol. people like what they like.
@CouldntBeMeTho blaming it on race tho
Yup
And honestly ppl need to stop watching that dumb pop the balloon show. It’s exacerbating the stupidity and giving ppl the impression that it’s funny/in good fun; well it isn’t
Ima put it like this
The Black community doesn’t know how to choose a partner nowadays. They have a laundry list of expectations - physically and characteristically and it’s really just a way to disqualify people. Why? Ppl are hurt and afraid. They seen their mamas abused, their dads wasn’t around, or their parents got divorced , they grew up poor and were subjected to shiesty human beings, they been cheated on, they been burnt, arrested, their friends got coparent drama, all kinds of fukkery. So as a defense mechanism they increase their standards but what they really doing is just making excuses for why they don’t want to date under the guise of not being able to find anyone
That’s the case for any 75-90% of the single people you see in a large, metro area. The ratio is worse for women but i digress. If you are serious about wanting marriage, especially as a man, when you find somebody who isn’t broken and who’s brain hasn’t been warped by media/social media you have to be willing to make the sacrifice to lock them down and stop gallivanting because while there are good, serious women out there they are hard to find and often chilling at home out of public view. All it takes is one person. Do your due diligence and leave everyone else in the pit/dust when you find said person
The Black community doesn’t know how to choose a partner nowadays. They have a laundry list of expectations - physically and characteristically and it’s really just a way to disqualify people. Why? Ppl are hurt and afraid. They seen their mamas abused, their dads wasn’t around, or their parents got divorced , they grew up poor and were subjected to shiesty human beings, they been cheated on, they been burnt, arrested, their friends got coparent drama, all kinds of fukkery. So as a defense mechanism they increase their standards but what they really doing is just making excuses for why they don’t want to date under the guise of not being able to find anyone
That’s the case for any 75-90% of the single people you see in a large, metro area. The ratio is worse for women but i digress. If you are serious about wanting marriage, especially as a man, when you find somebody who isn’t broken and who’s brain hasn’t been warped by media/social media you have to be willing to make the sacrifice to lock them down and stop gallivanting because while there are good, serious women out there they are hard to find and often chilling at home out of public view. All it takes is one person. Do your due diligence and leave everyone else in the pit/dust when you find said person
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