Lets keep it a stack. A lot of Black Women do not like productive brothas.

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When I was poor and didn't have much going for myself. One thing I did have is alot of women. Why? Because I put alot of time and energy into getting women,dealing with women,running game on women,satisfying women sexually.


These so called non productive men, who other men complain about women wanting, Alot of them actually put alot of time and effort into getting women to want them in some capacity. Whether it be the focus on their aesthetic,focus on their mouthpiece etc.


People like to pretend these type of men are just lucking into vagina. No,we actually specialized in it. Which is part of the reason for the lack of productivity in many cases.

It's like me complaining about NBA teams wanting Steph Curry who was putting up thousands of shots a day. But not wanting me who puts up 20 in a week.


So the men not getting women are usually the ones who are actually "non productive". At least in the field they are complaining about not finding success in. Your training for the wrong sport and wondering why the struggle:respect:.
 

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:mjlol:Yes…Let’s used a clout chasing internet dating show to generalize a group of women. I’m share you can do the same shyt with black men.
This same show features black men lineups who have much better rates of matching up. So doing the same doesn't hit the same.
 

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You nikkas need to humble yourselves and stop looking for every BW and find the one that fits you.

“How come she don’t want me man” headasses
The show is not a comedic script. The humbling is not necessary for this half. We've been getting "humbled" since The Color Purple.
 

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Do my wife and I know some professional/educated Black women that fall into this trap? Yep.

Is it overwhelming to the point I think that educated brehs are at a disadvantage? Not in my experience.

A lot of women think being 'educated' and having a good job means they are automatically a good catch. This group includes a lot of immature, narcissist, and insufferable types though.

You want a woman who is educated and has some ambition but if she doesn't display all of these, you should hop to the next one:

1. More mature than most women her age
2. Has wide ranging interests besides TV and social media (how many books has she read in the last year? if none, bush status---trust me on this)
3. Doesn't need to always be in the streets, etc.
4. Cares (beyond platitudes) about Black people, our condition, and future---and doesn't talk slick or negative about Black men/women/people or idolize other groups
5. Knows how to compromise

95% of the BS is gone if you follow this
 

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As a productive brotha why would you be looking for the common denominator of women? Of course most women aren't gonna be on that type of time. Most people in general aren't. Smash, have fun, use protection, make her use protection too, and keep it moving until you find a like-minded partner. If you meet a chick and she not supporting your goals and productivity bush her.
Your advice is great. Just added in the bolded because also need to make sure no strings can be attached, like children or disease, during your fun time.
 
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