Real talk complaining is a waste of time. Your best bet is to just avoid nikkas and hoodrats at all costs. Don't live anywhere near them. Wash your hands on the whole thing. Life is too damn short to try and save a community that's been failing for 80 years.
like i said the whole dilemma Tommy is exploiting is when black men who aren't hood of from the hood get exposed to black women.
all black women aren't hoodrats but there are a lot of hoodrats out there. if you encounter a black women between the ages of 18-35 or so there's a high probability she's gonna either be a hoodrat or have hoodrat like tendencies.
a lot of these black women are belligerent and on that whole "quick to beat a bytch ass" steeze. now if you a brother not from the hood and you continuously encounter that style of black women and continuously see that type of black women because not only are these type of black women very prevalent but they're very vocal its not gonna take long before you associate that with black women in general.
this isn't even those black women's fault. lots of them grow up poor or lower middle class. some of them grow up in the hood and many people don't come out of that environment without taking on the values of it.
i'm pretty sure if these guys encountered nothing but upper middle class and rich black women their whole impression of black women would be different. you only know what you're exposed to and as humans we generalize because its an efficient way of adapting to situations.
these black women don't necessarily aspire to be hoodrats and these guys don't aspire to date hoodrats this is just all both of them know.