Probably because a lot of times when black men have those complaints it's usually to justify their desire to date other races.
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Probably because a lot of times when black men have those complaints it's usually to justify their desire to date other races.
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
What if these complaints are from black men who only date black women? Can I get a more complete answer to my question? I'm seriously looking for straight answers.
Why are some black women not held accountable for their actions?
Why is it that the black man can not question or criticize that black woman without being called names? That's all I'm sayin
ChiefQueen
HBIC
Fair enough. Quick question : Have you ever dated a Ghanaian woman? And, if not yet would you ever date one?
I did date a Ghanaian and Nigerian woman when I was in college. I never went my way to find them, it just happened and it ended amicability.
I only dated those 2 because they were straight first generation African chicks.
American black women had not corrupted them yet...
Haven't dated a black woman ever since...but as far as I'm concerned I'm done dating African-American females too much attitude.
There is a reason why only 24% find a husband.
Considering that most of the black men doing it generalize all black women and also compare them to other races, it's hard to take them seriously and think they're really trying to give constructive criticism. And, honestly, I don't know if you're aware but men aren't really supposed to complain like women. It just makes you look like a whiner. *shrugs* don't get me wrong the women are whiners too but it just looks worse when a man does it.
And who said black women were not held accountable? Do you know how much single mothers get shamed? Go on LSA, they can't stand baby mamas and they constantly look down on women who do not get married before having children. I can post countless threads showing that.
I will give you an answer...the modern black man is raised by a black woman so he feels the need to defend her honor even if she is a ratchet ,skanky disgusting hoodrat.
I cant read Chris.B's posts directly but lol @ Black Americans and black immigrants being raised any differently in America
We all live in the same neighborhoods and face the same socioeconomic issues. Plus a lot of immigrants are 2nd generation and the connection to the home culture dilutes with each run. Yadda yadda yadda more black American woman bashing from a dude who prob has never been with one
We all live in the same neighborhoods and face the same socioeconomic issues. Plus a lot of immigrants are 2nd generation and the connection to the home culture dilutes with each run. Yadda yadda yadda more black American woman bashing from a dude who prob has never been with one
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
So basically what u are saying is that black men should not be criticizing black women because that would be considered "whining & complaining like women?"
If all youre doing to solve the problem is "discuss" it you might as well sit on your hands, keep quiet and come to grips with not being a part of the solution. All you nikkas do is talkSo basically what u are saying is that black men should not be criticizing black women because that would be considered "whining & complaining like women?"
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
what are u personally doing to "solve" the problems of the black community? Im not even criticizing black women. I clearly asked a series of questions regarding the black womans accountability as it pertains to them being criticized for their actions.
Last time i checked, this is a message board designated to discuss matters. There are MFs on here that are rippin tommy Sotamayor too, are they simply just "talkin" too?
Cat piss martini
Veteran
sistas today are fukked up because they try to emulate
how these white bytches roll.......problem is when white
women sober up after a weekend of being drunk hoes it's back to business
with work and moving forward with getting money.
sistas think it's sex and the city 24/7-365.
bytch go fry some chicken or pick up a book or something.
how these white bytches roll.......problem is when white
women sober up after a weekend of being drunk hoes it's back to business
with work and moving forward with getting money.
sistas think it's sex and the city 24/7-365.
bytch go fry some chicken or pick up a book or something.
I do a few things bruh. I talked about them before. I dont want to get into all of that because its not necessary. But my concern + actions to promote black excellence don't end with blaming all black problems on black women.
And yea its a message board. ITs meant for discussion. Nobody who is calling Tommy Sotomayor is claiming to be saving the world in doing so like the brays who constantly shyt on black women do. These nikkas are just like Tommy. They spend hours online shytting on black woman under the guise of "honesty". Then log off and live trife. So whats the end effect? The talk doesn't do anything.
Not to mention dudes wanna talk about black women all day. But the second you say "hey what about us" its
"we aint talkin about that now" "yea we trife too but its ok" yadda yadda yaddanikkas make me sick
At the end of the day talk is just talk, so lets stop pretending its more when its convenient.
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
That is my biggest issue. They don't do anything but talk. You would be hard pressed to find me complaining about black men this and black men that, but you will find me in the community helping young black men and women with issues that I know they have. Don't just talk about it, be about it.
Sierra Mist
Banned
Real talk complaining is a waste of time. Your best bet is to just avoid nikkas and hoodrats at all costs. Don't live anywhere near them. Wash your hands on the whole thing. Life is too damn short to try and save a community that's been failing for 80 years.
Cat piss martini
Veteran
I've emailed tommy many times trying to see what that dikk like with no reply so he couldnt be gay
scust