Lets be real...there isn't too much bullying, just too many bytchmade people

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Teach your kids to be a fukkin leader and not a bytch ass follower and you wont have to worry about them getting bullied or having to fight back.
 

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Well, there aren't many people telling them how to OVERCOME bullying and to be better people. Brawn alone isn't going to solve shyt. Since no one encourages person or self development anymore and handling shyt as a community, we break down and become primitive cavemen.
forreal, if somehow someone was bullying me insanely bad and I couldn't get them to stop I'd probably just bring in a knife or something and stab homie in the leg, nothing fatal, just on some you dissed pac @SunZoo shyt

I see what you're saying that adults and the community need to be responsible for removing bullies away from their victims and shaming them, fighting back against a bully really does typically help, because both of you will get suspended from school and shyt and it lets him know you aint a bytch and he'll move onto an easier target
 

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Some just aren't built for that physical, or mental intimidation though...and you usually need both, to navigate through elementary, at least if not middle school....I remember playing basketball in 4th grade, and an older fifth grader was hassling me, body checking and flagrant fouls and shyt, thinking I was a p*ssy...I threw the basketball hard as fukk at his face, bloody nose, fat lip, crying, and wailing about fukking me up, but he never did a thing. Talking too, if someone was fukking with you, and you didn't say shyt...you got looked at as a bytch. So, you'd shoot right back. Fighting was just a normal part of middle school, if you got caught....you got caught, but you didn't not fight.

Now, I'm sure if it's any different....I don't think I have that answer, but kids can be cruel and petty, that mob mentality is a motherfukker. For me, it was never like that, but I can't say for those who are really bullied, on a serious level, that if they just hit someone, it will all be better. That's what I always told my little sister, if someone bothers you, just stop it right away, fukk them up, or try. But, bullying can be so much more layered and cutting, then a confrontation on the playground, which was were most of my incidents took place.
 

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nah, people are packing heat these days and resort to gunplay when they lose the fight. Especially bullies that aren't used to losing. I call it the Vegeta complex. :russ:
But yet the gun culture is supported by the parents of the children who are now too afraid to defend themselves against other children due to retaliation. It's a sick cycle.

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Some just aren't built for that physical, or mental intimidation though...and you usually need both, to navigate through elementary, at least if not middle school....I remember playing basketball in 4th grade, and an older fifth grader was hassling me, body checking and flagrant fouls and shyt, thinking I was a p*ssy...I threw the basketball hard as fukk at his face, bloody nose, fat lip, crying, and wailing about fukking me up, but he never did a thing. Talking too, if someone was fukking with you, and you didn't say shyt...you got looked at as a bytch. So, you'd shoot right back. Fighting was just a normal part of middle school, if you got caught....you got caught, but you didn't not fight.

Now, I'm sure if it's any different....I don't think I have that answer, but kids can be cruel and petty, that mob mentality is a motherfukker. For me, it was never like that, but I can't say for those who are really bullied, on a serious level, that if they just hit someone, it will all be better. That's what I always told my little sister, if someone bothers you, just stop it right away, fukk them up, or try. But, bullying can be so much more layered and cutting, then a confrontation on the playground, which was were most of my incidents took place.
Same thing happened to me in school. A kid elbowed me and I bust his lip in front of all the other kids and the gym teacher. The gym teacher pulled me into his office like "I should suspend you but, :salute: that's part of the game."
 

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Fighting?
People use guns around here.


People want the old school way, but that ain't happening these days due to parents not raising their kids properly and are doing things selfishly.
 

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Whether you cry, call the cops, fight or shot the nikka, you still "sensitive" to the "bullying". If he had beat dude to death or shot dude to death, yall still be calling him "soft" and "homotional".

And cyber bullying is far worse than anything. ,
 

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I agree that bullying is bytchmade. The issue is that we encourage victimhood. We tell people from youth up to call a teacher, snitch, don't respond, walk away....and they become weak, passive aggressive and serve themselves up on a plate. We tell them not to hit back and not to take "offensive defensive" actions by snuffing a person if they violate their space with ill intent. Instead we should teach the practice or hitting back and not waiting to get rocked before you swing. If somebody is nose to nose, i'm telling my seeds to hit first ask questions later. We sit and tell our youth that violence isn't the answer, which is true. Yet we forget to tell them that violence is sometimes an option and a must.



A lot "victims" of "bullying" haven't bullied. They were simply acting on the cowardice taught to them. We teach people to duck before we teach them to swing.

I dont think the problem is that this society lacks violence, and the encouragement of such. Among industrial societies, we are by far the most violent, and we bombard the youth with such imagery daily. Humans are wired uniquely, and some are prone or susceptible to mentally crumbling in the face of extreme bullying...it just is what it is. This society is not too soft....
 
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