Let another man buy your girl a drink brehs

[Braman]

Share potentially embarrassing stories on the group chat brehs. My homie has the chat split on this:

So he’s meeting his girl at a bar and she gets there before him. When he gets there the guy sitting next to her is talking to her and has bought her a drink

His girl ‘introduces’ them Let her tell it, she told the dude she was waiting on her bf and he still bought the drink. They proceed to go about their date. Although, I quote, ‘dude kept looking at me with envy out the corner of his eye’

We are on the verge of making him break up with her We’re partly trolling but some of us aren’t. What says the Coli. Should we cut him some slack? Was this an understandable scenario, or did she violate

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

She violated. A taken woman shouldn't accept drinks from another man.

But then he could've just told the bartender to make a drink anyway.

 

[tuckgod]

I used to have my stick girls bring me drinks from random goober nikkas in the club and if I did girlfriends I would've had her doing it too.

 

[jesc07]

Not a big deal.

 

[Luke Cage]

If she was there with her boyfriend or waiting for her boyfriend. Shes a party of two not a party of 1.

If somebody only buys drinks for one person in the party its a violation.

If dude had bought both of them drinks it could get a pass as him being friendly.

 

[The ADD]

How serious are they? If she’s temporary who cares.

 

[Charlie Hustle]

@anotherman needs to be unbanned so he can comment on this.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

She violated. She definitely signed a lifetime supermax contract with the streets.

 

[Charlie Hustle]

If she was there with her boyfriend or waiting for her boyfriend. Shes a party of two not a party of 1.

If somebody only buys drinks for one person in the party its a violation.

If dude had bought both of them drinks it could get a pass as him being friendly.

I like the way you think

 

[jdubnyce]

Are they serious, serious?

She violated by accepting said drink while waiting for her boyfriend

She disrespected him

 

[T-K-G]

Not a major violation, that nikka just wasted his money and if your friend was really player he woulda finished drinking that shyt right in plain view of the guy before kissing his girl. Make her pay for the first round too





If she's the type who never says no to people buying things for her then she shouldn't be taken seriously anyway cuz all it's gonna take is an aggressive trick to get her to open up

Spoiler

if he met her on a dating app or that girl has a Snapchat/IG addiction he probably wifing a nutrag that loves playing the game.You can't really slide up on a solid chick who's taken like that

 

[ExodusNirvana]

She violated. A taken woman shouldn't accept drinks from another man.

But then he could've just told the bartender to make a drink anyway.

Agree.

Also some dudes don't take no for an answer and will, in an attempt to show confidence, still try to holla, and still tell the bartender to pour that drink, and what is the bartender gonna do? Not pour a drink for a paying customer?

 

[Unbothered]

Well, it goes back to what I said in my thread last month; some of you may or may not remember, but I made a statement about how things in this situation come to two things. TRUST and INSECURITIES.

Although I made that response concerning a woman having male friends while in a relationship, this can also be applied to a simple bystander being courteous to your lady in public, bar, mall, etc. A man who believes in his woman and trusts her has nothing to fear or worry about, but a man who's not too sure about his lady, let alone himself and her love for him, those insecurities will come to fruition anytime he sees her simply chatting with another man, hence why some dudes try to isolate their woman from any other man.

It's like I mentioned in that picture above, can't no man force a woman to do something she doesn't want to do, the problem with some of you guys is that you conclude that another man is capable of taking your woman from you which speaks volumes about inner insecurities that you're not good enough but somebody else is so you get pressed anytime another guy simply says hello to your lady.

 

[Ohene]

i've been in a similar situation on a first date...

the problem is this. is the girl so pressed or broke that she cant just wait for homie to come through and buy her a drink, or buy her own drink her damn self?

it's a red flag...depending on how good she is in other regards i personally think he should consider dropping her

 

[Numpsay]

Coli super insecure crew is going to be up in arms about this.

She is likely never going to see dude again a day in her life, why care?

Only a violation if they exchanged any kind of information to keep up communication.