Lala Anthony, 40, says only 22 year olds want to date her

[Secure Da Bag]

She's too old to be this naive smh....

But hell yeah a young breh like @Obreh Winfrey ain't turning her down.

Older breh like me ain't turning that down either.

I like Honey-flavored Cheerios.

 

[Theraflu]

Her DMs are probably flooded with Stephen A Smith-types.

Which is exactly where she needs to be lol Plenty of women would be happy with that lol

all this shyt is because people won’t stay in their lane. A lot of older ppl get played/used by younger people, which is why they should just be together.

But some ppl don’t mind being used if they are actually getting what they want in return so I guess it is what it is.

BINGO!

She could EASILY pull a middle aged black man like Stephen A Smith

EASILY.

She COULD pull a rich HVM but he will be 55 years old and likely a serious individual.

EASILY.

Or a black older business man BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT THAT. She wants glitz and glamour.

When in reality she needs to be aiming for this

EVEN if the man is rich he will be serious and not want her posting thot pics on IG all day but she won't do that

So she's stuck with her 'toy boys'

 

[Theraflu]

Porsha Williams 40 year old single mom of 1 just married a multi millionaire but again look at him.

Lala and her peers don't want older men. They want toy boys.

 

[Serious]

Yep. She’d have no issue finding an older, successful man if she seemed more mature.

I said before…if you’re older and established and still look good, you can pull an Amal Clooney and do the power couple thing. She got married in her 30s to a legit movie star who was looking for a woman with depth.

You have to adjust and elevate as you move through life if you want to continue attracting quality partners.

Even her BFF Kim is trying to be a lawyer ( ) and get engaged in more serious issues. She’s going to find a serious man quicker than we all probably think, because she understands how it goes: keep evolving.


Everyone thought Angelina Jolie was a beautiful psycho and she completely changed her image! Now she’s seen as more than a actress. She’s someone who is taken more seriously because of her humanitarian work.
Ciara even tightened up her image (aside from the latest music videos ) when she got with Russell Wilson and started attending events at the White House

You know too much

 

[Gloxina]

You know too much

Luv you too

Again- this is why some women don’t trip off this foolishness.

This is game that a lot of chicks don’t get. The same way men tend to switch the type of women they chase when their money changes is the same way a lady has to pay attention to different men as she gets older. That doesn’t mean you date bums as soon as you hit 40. It does mean you understand that the 40YO men who are popping are chasing the 30YOs, so you need to look ahead to the 47ish/50YO brehs who are handling business and keep themselves up. Like, the guys in my family who are late 40s/50 are still in the gym, making great money and they date women within their age range. But all of those women look good and have great careers, too.


Not a “humble brag” at all, just speaking from the perspective of women from “HV” families. You’re raised to be the “full package” so you’ll never be that woman fully dependent on a man who may suck, and so that you can attract the right kind of guy and hold his attention because you aren’t an airhead who depends on her looks.

I have successful men in my fam who make it clear they don’t date women who don’t have professional degrees, and I have successful men in my fam who have housewives who stopped after HS Lol
I’ve seen all the extremes.


Who actually thinks an attractive woman with a good attitude AND education/skills is going to have a hard problem attracting/keeping a man?! Who thinks a rational man has an issue with a beautiful AND intelligent woman birthing and rearing his children?! Lmao

The women who don’t get it are the ones who don’t understand being cute & dumb has an expiration date, or having an education&money doesn’t trump attractiveness/fitness and humility.

We all have to adjust our game. Some people are simply too self-centered, ignorant or lazy to analyze where they are and make adjustments to get their desired outcome.

Porsha was referenced above and while I do NOT like how she ended up with her hubby (way too much mess and drama), I will give her credit for eventually figuring it out and going for a different type of guy.

Again, Amal Clooney is a great example. Attractive woman with a booming career. You think she didn’t have men trying to holla at her because she was over 30 with a busy career? Naw. Babygirl literally knew what she “brought to the table” and ended up with a global star who was looking for beauty & substance.

Or even Omorosa! People talk about her attitude, but I’m sure none of the successful brehs she’s dated/currently married to have a problem with her attitude, because she knows how to treat a man. She just gives white folks hell on reality tv.
And of course I didn’t like her stint with the Trump administration, but again, that didn’t stop her from keeping it tight and securing a successful older Black man. Highly intelligent, accomplished and attractive. As long as people stay in their lane and on top of their game, they usually end up ok.


Beauty, humility & intelligence (of course traditional skills/qualities as well) is the full package you strive to be because you will almost always be taken seriously by serious men.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

I Slaimon Khan Shah have La La in my name!

La La Anthony is sohh young!

May Allaah guide La La Anthony to Islaam!

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Here's the thing.
LaLa doesn't present herself in a way that a mature dude her age would consider wife material.
With all the attention seeking and thirst trapping and no discernable depth of character--as in what do you have to offer besides your looks and body--, no solid dude her age is tryna deal with that.
The young boys just tryna hit because she single and look good. MILF or not.

This is the answer.

What legit dude wanna deal with her on a regular basis when you know there’s fukkery on the menu? Chick presents herself as someone who wants to be seen and be “more” than what she was back when she was with Melo.

She’s like 40 with a teen son. Focus on that little dude. A breh her age don’t wanna be chilling on the couch and she’s on her way to some even with her ass and titties popping out. A breh can find young hoes and put up with their bullshyt instead.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

Beauty, humility & intelligence (of course traditional skills/qualities as well) is the full package you strive to be because you will almost always be taken seriously by serious men.

Ahhh. That's what's going on.

 

[KingsOfKings]

Smh

 

[#1 pick]

Lala is beautiful but she's old and like attention too much. Who in their 30s and 40s got time for that

 

[OneManGang]

Melo just need to get his family back

 

[maxamusa]

Very pretty lady and def older than Lala so it can definitely be done.

No doubt; my pipe game has only gotten stronger I don't see why the same wouldn't apply for a brehette

 

[FaTaL]

If I’m not mistaken, she has gone on record recently saying she doesn’t ever see herself getting married again. If you put that out there, why are you surprised that only the young dudes are looking your way. Kinda makes it sound like you only want flings. If an older gentleman is looking to establish a serious relationship, leading to marriage and he knows that’s not what she’s looking for, why would he bother. The young dudes are just looking to smash and dash.

shes not giving up that alimony

 

[KidJSoul]

Standing anal.

one of the most wild of these types of comments I've ever seen

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Honestly, she overachieved. She used to be busted back in the day. I think Carmelo must’ve gone after her because he spent high school watching her on TRL and wanted her because she was a bit hit. She became cute later on though.

Of course she overachieved.

It’s not like Melo was PJ Washington of his day. Dude was a name brand player during the new gen of players that came in with LeBron. And he was a Jordan athlete.

But he locked that in too early when he prolly should’ve studied the Jeter Manuscript. Mans could’ve gotten an upper mid tier singer easily or an upper B list actress. And if he actually won while he was in NY, dude would’ve been treated like a king