ladies you ever been cheated on ? and what was your reaction to it..

[Melza]

. He looked and saw that I had his phone in my hand, instead he says, so we looking through phones?

OMG I'm seeing red just reading that response. I can't even imagine how you kept your cool. You're better than me lol.

 

[ultraflexed]

I truly love all my black sisters and after reading this thread there are some real good women in here.

I hope for all of you that your next relationship is your last and find a man that really adores you and worships the ground you walk on....there are still good quality guys out just keep your head up.

 

[LeeDoubleLee]

None of yall cheated back?

does the emotional cheat count? i never physically cheated, but with the last BF i found myself confiding in a guy friend more because i couldn't talk to my BF because he was just so apathetic to everything i said.

 

[KOOL-AID]

does the emotional cheat count? i never physically cheated, but with the last BF i found myself confiding in a guy friend more because i couldn't talk to my BF because he was just so apathetic to everything i said.

did u tell him how is nonchalant behavior made you feel?

 

[NerdNash]

does the emotional cheat count? i never physically cheated, but with the last BF i found myself confiding in a guy friend more because i couldn't talk to my BF because he was just so apathetic to everything i said.

If he wouldn't want you doing it and you still did it's cheating

 

[LeeDoubleLee]

did u tell him how is nonchalant behavior made you feel?

Of course. There was a bunch of stuff that happened that I didn't like and I told him how I felt and he acted like nothing was wrong and that he was distant because of work.

It wasn't until I found the stuff from his other girlfriend that it l made sense and I just deaded it. Clearly he didn't want me, why he was too shy to come out and say it is beyond me. The last 6 months we were together was filled with nothing but passive aggressive behavior from him and me constantly trying make it work. You can't fix a relationship when someone not only checked out but is on the next train to paradise.

 

[LeeDoubleLee]

If he wouldn't want you doing it and you still did it's cheating

Well the ex knew about the guy friend because we've been friends well before I dated him and I never hid the fact that I have male and female friends.

Whether or not my ex would have taken issue with me confiding in him I will never know. I went to my friend trying to get advice from a mans pov since my ex wouldn't address the issue or even acknowledge there was a problem. I now know it's because he was knee deep in some other broad. Oh well, live and learn I guess

 

[NerdNash]

Of course. There was a bunch of stuff that happened that I didn't like and I told him how I felt and he acted like nothing was wrong and that he was distant because of work.

It wasn't until I found the stuff from his other girlfriend that it l made sense and I just deaded it. Clearly he didn't want me, why he was too shy to come out and say it is beyond me. The last 6 months we were together was filled with nothing but passive aggressive behavior from him and me constantly trying make it work. You can't fix a relationship when someone not only checked out but is on the next train to paradise.

Kinda dealing with this right now

 

[AtomicUse]

We never locked our phones, so his phone was ringing late night from work,so I looked at his phone and that was that. So I see half a text in his notifications from Rachel. He told Rachel every thing, mind you I did not know this bytch. So I read the text messages:

Him: I'm so miserable.
Her: Wow, what's wrong?
Him: I miss my wifey
Her: Awww, what about your girlfriend(me)?
Him:She here....(Ether)

etc, I blacked out at that moment. We been together for 3 years with no warning of this shyt, this was surprising. He was sleep in my bed, so peaceful and a million things ran through my head. I wasn't trying to be on an episode of Snapped,so with all my strength I kicked him out the bed. He got up and said wtf is going on. I said who the fukk is wifey and this lean on me bytch Rachel. He looked and saw that I had his phone in my hand, instead he says, so we looking through phones? Then I said wrong answer, get your shyt and get out. He was on some, too late. I was over it when he said "She here."

Goddamn he was cold blooded.

What's he up to nowadays? Cheaters usually have happy endings.

 

[QueenSheba]

Yes and I walked away.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

not reliving that situation check back in a few mths, there are bits n pieces in my adventures in the psych hospital thread n the im officially becoming a member of #GMB thread
#GMB

 

[Meadow]

There's absolutely no point in exploring a second chance after someone has cheated once. The relationship is dead once one persons trust goes out the window.

 

[kittenheels]

Goddamn he was cold blooded.

What's he up to nowadays? Cheaters usually have happy endings.

Dont know, dont care. The last time he called, he was sobbing, i hung up. His mother calls me, I blocked her. The last time I heard from him he got into it at bar with 2 other dudes that tried to jump him..gave both of them the beats and caught a charge. Called me from jail, I hung up