ladies,,, would you be pissed if ur Man asked you to give up ur career?

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I wouldn't mind staying at home when my kids are young, actually it's preferable. I don't trust leaving kids that can't form coherent sentences in the company of others, even family.

If this were even a discussion we would have to be married.
 

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god forbid if i pass away or we get divorce i want her to be there for the kids and support them and also be able to take care of herself

This is why I can't fully support that whole "stay at home mom" thing either, if I die I want her to be able to support herself as well :yeshrug:

Besides that, I don't really like to have people depending on me.
 

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This is why I can't fully support that whole "stay at home mom" thing either, if I die I want her to be able to support herself as well :yeshrug:

Besides that, I don't really like to have people depending on me.
At some point you're going to have to be a real man with a real man mentality.

I swear this is the weakest generation of males.....
 

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This is why I can't fully support that whole "stay at home mom" thing either, if I die I want her to be able to support herself as well :yeshrug:

Besides that, I don't really like to have people depending on me.


i can get where ur coming from bout that but i be ok with it in the early years day care prices aint no joke if you dont make enough in the household so that ends up being the case where a parent stays at home

but if u make enough u could still work but ur paycheck will take a big hit as long as ur ok with it

just a matter of preference on the couple is what it all comes down too
 

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i can get where ur coming from bout that but i be ok with it in the early years day care prices aint no joke if you dont make enough in the household so that ends up being the case where a parent stays at home

but if u make enough u could still work but ur paycheck will take a big hit as long as ur ok with it

just a matter of preference on the couple is what it all comes down too

Well, when our kids were young she stayed in the house a lot more. She always had a job though. She's more flexible than I am so it wasn't a problem

I swear this is the weakest generation of males

:mjlol:

Aren't we the same age, though? How old are you?
 

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Well, when our kids were young she stayed in the house a lot more. She always had a job though. She's more flexible than I am so it wasn't a problem



:mjlol:

Aren't we the same age, though? How old are you?
Lol , I'm 30..
 
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