ladies,,, would you be pissed if ur Man asked you to give up ur career?

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don't dudes feel gross when their girlfriends treat them like a son :scusthov:
I don't want 2 moms :huhldup:
lol, she doesn't treat me like a son. We take care of eachother like partners. she always is talking about some shyt and thinking of some shyt... I listen to her talk.
i provide sex for her
i pay the bills in the house.
i kill bugs for her. i take her places.
she knows that nobody can mess with her, and she feels safe.


all that she does for me, i could get three girls from detroit to come live with me and do:yeshrug:
 

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Heck NO! I don't want my primary responsibility to be staying at home with the kids. I would prefer being a business owner and having flexibility. For instance my home girl owns her own childcare center so she's super flexibile in terms of time and she can bring her kids but it pays the bills.
stay at home mothers do a ton of work.....
if they are engaged they're probably never bored.

plus, if the kids are in school, you can spend the time getting your nails done and working out
 

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I couldn't be a stay at home mom (there is nothing wrong with it if that what the woman wants to do), but I have chosen a career with flexibility.

I also plan to get occasional help around the house. I refuse to work full time and slave around the house. I want to enjoy my family and free time.
 

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See I'd spend most of my time volunteering or developing curriculum at different schools. My baby would come home to food and a clean house not even realizing his lady was revolutionizing education everyday while he was at work. To have free time to do what you REALLY want is ideal.
 

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aint no way in hell she giving up her career i want her to succeed in life. better use my damn benefits and go to school for free and shyt.

i may be a permanent stay at home father and make good money doing it but she needs to still be independent for worse case scenario

god forbid if i pass away or we get divorce i want her to be there for the kids and support them and also be able to take care of herself
i want her to better herself same way i will do for myself to make her happy in whatever way is needed

I'm just a type of guy who wants whats best for my woman and she will get my full support as long as she keeps loving me and treating me right

i will take care of all the things at home that is my job. you go to work and school and do ur thing ma.

leave the rest to me and whatever help u need i got u

any other dudes dont like what i post i could give no fukks either :camby:

u do u and i will do me
 

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If I was married with children I would be a stay at home mother. I would never have kids with a man that would expect me to work outside of the home when we had young children, but of course all of this would have been discussed before the marriage took place.

But @Blackking in your lady's situation she would be a fool to stop working. You are not dependable. You guys are not married, you have several children with other women, you were cheating on her during the vast majority of the relationship. Aren't you already divorced from someone else? You could walk out on her at ANYTIME.
 
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on topic tho, I actually would love to be a stay at home mom and homemaker but lesbians are statistically poor so that shyt probably aint happenin :heh:
 

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I couldn't be a stay at home mom (there is nothing wrong with it if that what the woman wants to do), but I have chosen a career with flexibility.

I also plan to get occasional help around the house. I refuse to work full time and slave around the house. I want to enjoy my family and free time.
taking care of your man and possible kids can be very rewarding work.

the most rewarding work you can do:blessed:
 

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on topic tho, I actually would love to be a stay at home mom and homemaker but lesbians are statistically poor so that shyt probably aint happenin :heh:
:skip:

market a product to other fakkits...
I know for a fact that gay people love to support other gays. I know this fakkit ass nikka... he's a photographer.... half his customer base is other homos, I feel that they show support just because of a shared lifestyle.

Plus.... CAN'T you share stuff and save money?!?! if I lived with one of my nikkas, my expenses would be cut in half:wow:
 

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aint no way in hell she giving up her career i want her to succeed in life. better use my damn benefits and go to school for free and shyt.

i may be a permanent stay at home father and make good money doing it but she needs to still be independent for worse case scenario

god forbid if i pass away or we get divorce i want her to be there for the kids and support them and also be able to take care of herself
i want her to better herself same way i will do for myself to make her happy in whatever way is needed

I'm just a type of guy who wants whats best for my woman and she will get my full support as long as she keeps loving me and treating me right

i will take care of all the things at home that is my job. you go to work and school and do ur thing ma.

leave the rest to me and whatever help u need i got u

any other dudes dont like what i post i could give no fukks either :camby:

u do u and i will do me
:mjcry:

That was beautiful bruh.









Lucky for you that nikkas like me feel that fukking fukknikkas wives is played out in 2015.
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on a side note ---- my girl has a business and a job.... if I died, she would get life insurance... Plus she could start up a career if she needs to.
You're talking about you're a stay at home dad............ --- OK:heh: there's no such thing.
 

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If I was married with children I would be a stay at home mother. I would never have kids with a man that would expect me to work outside of the home when we had young children, but of course all of this would have been discussed before the marriage took place.

But @Blackking in your lady's situation she would be a fool to stop working. You are not dependable. You guys are not married, you have several children with other women, you were cheating on her during the vast majority of the relationship. Aren't you already divorced from someone else? You could walk out on her at ANYTIME.
:leon: she's considered these things...

but I cheated on others. never cheated on her though.
She claims I was trif in the beginning BUT i say we weren't official the first few months, just dating:obama:I been loyal over 1.4 years.



:sas2: But I like you're thinking. It's traditional..... and I'm traditional. Why should a woman have to work. Think about all the bullshyt a girl has to deal with just being a girl from age 3 - 18.... she should be able to enjoy life after that....

She has been hitting me with that 'we're not married, but doing married shyt speech for like 4 months. :childplease:
She doesn't know that I will be marring her within a month:sas2: i just do shyt my own way.
 
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