ladies,,, would you be pissed if ur Man asked you to give up ur career?

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:manny:I think I want my girl to quit her job.... and quit hee business.



I've been watching her and she does maddd shyt and I don't do shyt besides Normal man things. Which means nothing until something comes up. Plus I pay for house and cars.


Just in the morning she
Makes breakfast, makes my lunch, makes her lunch, gets kids ready, gets herself ready, makes me coffee (I dont even know how to make coffee), sorta cleans up a Lil bit, ...

Lol , then I finally get up outta bed and take a shower.

I get my own clothes ready But if I ever have anything that needs to be ironed....that shyt magically is ironed before I'm out the shower.


Then she goes to work.



I feel like that's too fukking much and I don't want her to get burned out so I think I want her to quit.

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bcrusaderw said:
Practice makes perfect. Hop to it. She's kind enough to take care of your b*stard children, and you have the audacity to think tell her to quit her career?
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shes had the same career for 7 years and Finally I think is thinking of a career change.. i feel this is my chance.... :blessed:
:patrice:with the right timing I can slide in and say...

"lets be partners, ... lets free YOU up some time so you can think of a career that will make YOU truly happy :usure:"



:whoa: about me making lunch. she makes a bag of stuff.. along with spoons and forks, and snacks.. lol, I wouldn't have that much detail.
Shes a natural nurture.. Like a woman should be @bcrusaderw :ufdup:
 
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Hell no! What?! You wanna be a provider for her?! Who da hell would have a problem with that?!

Dude, I've been to uni. Gotten my degrees in education and I've gotten my certs. If a dude told me today or tomorrow to quit my job cuz he got me...maaaan my boss would get the ether on site!

I wouldn't have a problem trusting a dude in that way b/c I'm in an okay position career wise to be able to find a job if it didn't work out. If I didn't have any work experience or I was new to my career or didn't have any connections, then it might be a problem.
 
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Blackking said:
shes had the same career for 7 years and Finally I think is thinking of a career change.. i feel this is my chance.... :blessed:
:patrice:with the right timing I can slide in and say...

"lets be partners, ... lets free YOU up some time so you can think of a career that will make YOU truly happy :usure:"



:whoa: about me making lunch. she makes a bag of stuff.. along with spoons and forks, and snacks.. lol, I wouldn't have that much detail.
Shes a natural nurture.. Like a woman should be @bcrusaderw :ufdup:
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Rawtid said:
LMMFAO!! Well why don't you fukking learn how to make coffee, help with breakfast, child-rearing and ironing? You want her to QUIT her job just so she can have time to do more shyt for you? smh.
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u wouldn't like to be a housewife?


I know how to do all the child rearing stuff... but I'm more direct so i believe it's easier on their mental if she does it. I'm like " get up, you're moving TOO SLOW, brush your teeth, do this do that"
... She likes to wake kids up all peacefully n shyt, lol. I wasn't raised that way:stopitslime:

Why would I learn how to make coffee if she does it....... then shorty at work does it too?:what:


with ironing and cleaning-- I don't ask her to do that.. but she started a year ago.... so i let her.
Im the type of nikka that can get comfortable and spoiled REAL QUICK.


I want her to quit her job because it's always...... down to the Min every morning with her rushing.. I just want her to focus on the house be able to relax n shyt. :sas2:
 
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bcrusaderw said:
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The type of man you're gonna end up with might as well have a p*ssy, and you know it.
because opposites attract sometimes..
me and my girl are different.
We are different. she prays in the AM, I can't get outta damn bed. She's sweet, I'm bold as fukk. she wouldnt hurt a fly, i have some bodies. shes pro women rights, i used to make it rain at the tittybar.
 
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Blackking said:
u wouldn't like to be a housewife?


I know how to do all the child rearing stuff... but I'm more direct so i believe it's easier on their mental if she does it. I'm like " get up, you're moving TOO SLOW, brush your teeth, do this do that"
... She likes to wake kids up all peacefully n shyt, lol. I wasn't raised that way:stopitslime:

Why would I learn how to make coffee if she does it....... then shorty at work does it too?:what:


with ironing and cleaning-- I don't ask her to do that.. but she started a year ago.... so i let her.
Im the type of nikka that can get comfortable and spoiled REAL QUICK.


I want her to quit her job because it's always...... down to the Min every morning with her rushing.. I just want her to focus on the house be able to relax n shyt. :sas2:
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Heck NO! I don't want my primary responsibility to be staying at home with the kids. I would prefer being a business owner and having flexibility. For instance my home girl owns her own childcare center so she's super flexibile in terms of time and she can bring her kids but it pays the bills.
 
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