Ladies: What's the NUMBER 1 reason you would end a relationship?

[Sassy]

If theyre manipulative/ emotionally or verbally abusive. Imo, those are the fukking worst because they know which buttons to push and which angle to use to get what they want from you.

If theyre a mooch. Can't stand those either.

My recent ex was both of those above, but when confronted, he played victim. Oh, and manipulators hate to be called out on their shyt.

I could go on for days, but its best if i keep it short for now.

 

[vicioustalk]

Cheating....

 

[Yinny]

I forgot

Cheating that results in a baby

Been there, embarrassing as fukk for all parties involved

 

[Samson]

I forgot

Cheating that results in a baby

Been there, embarrassing as fukk for all parties involved

So, cheating is not an automatic deal breaker?

 

[Yinny]

So, cheating is not an automatic deal breaker?

Not necessarily but it’s high up there. When I was cheated on before I took him back and gave myself a license to cheat. Leaving from cheating is easier said than done but I’m def out if he has kids with another woman/before we do.

 

[Samson]

Not necessarily but it’s high up there. When I was cheated on before I took him back and gave myself a license to cheat. Leaving from cheating is easier said than done but I’m def out if he has kids with another woman/before we do.

Savage.
So, you were just getting revenge? or was that a real relationship where you tried to be with him and cheated whenever you wanted?
You lose some moral ground there.

Leaving a cheater shouldn't be difficult; unless you rely on them financially or for a place to stay.
Also, "before we do"
Why is there cheating loopholes with you
You must be the most chilled girlfriend ever.

 

[DivaForever]

Lack of boundaries.

If he stops paying all the bills

 

[CinnaSlim]

Blatant disrespect.

 

[Ms. Quick]

Outside of the obvious mentions, cheating etc, two big things are deal breakers for me.

1. If he let's himself go, stops shaving, gets out of shape and lazy while wondering why the p*ssy is dry.

2. If I have to reach into my wallet like I'm the man... Yeah I'm gone. I don't need the money, it's the principle. Can't stand selective gender roles.

 

[L. Murphy]

Dontvsee it progressing and developing into something more...why waste your time being tied down

 

[morris]

Outside of the obvious mentions, cheating etc, two big things are deal breakers for me.

1. If he let's himself go, stops shaving, gets out of shape and lazy while wondering why the p*ssy is dry.

2. If I have to reach into my wallet like I'm the man... Yeah I'm gone. I don't need the money, it's the principle. Can't stand selective gender roles.

For #2 when is this? First date, 2nd, etc.

Dontvsee it progressing and developing into something more...why waste your time being tied down

What's the time frame?

 

[L. Murphy]

For #2 when is this? First date, 2nd, etc.



What's the time frame?

Depends but saying 6 months in barr minimum. Otherwise within the 6 months pretty much all of the above reasons apply lol

 

[morris]

Depends but saying 6 months in barr minimum. Otherwise within the 6 months pretty much all of the above reasons apply lol

Was talking to my coworker and asked her how much would she help her man achieve greatness. She said it would depend on. How much help he needed. Hard for her to answer as she is married to him.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Whether it's a new relationship or an established one, you would leave him if he was:

Too religious
unorganized
called/texted incessantly
a mama's boy
comfortable with one job
didn't like to go out
etc

Mama's boy

Dated a dude who would call his mom when we were on dates. Straight weird. His mom was a bytch too. She told him I was using him...we were both broke as shyt in college. I can't imagine what she thought I was using him for.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

If Chadwick Boseman came up to me and beckoned me over to him with a crook of his finger. I'm out.

His first cousin and I are good friends.