Ladies: What's the NUMBER 1 reason you would end a relationship?
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LeeDoubleLee
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Lack of effort-the last 2 relationships ended because then guys would do literally nothing. Might as well date myself then since it's clear they thought I wasn't worth the effort.
Yo Mama
...the sweeter the juice.
Like Big Worm sagely said:
"playing with my money is like playing with my emotions".
"playing with my money is like playing with my emotions".
And what would cause that. It's such a broad topic. And how long would you give him either to salvage the respect or earn it back?
You mean biting your tongue? I don't know you but you seem a little too string to do that.
Hmmm you're 2-2 right now. How can you avoid going three-for-three?
Did he take it from your purse or just not contribute? And for how long?
Yo Mama
...the sweeter the juice.
And what would cause that. It's such a broad topic. And how long would you give him either to salvage the respect or earn it back?
You mean biting your tongue? I don't know you but you seem a little too string to do that.
Hmmm you're 2-2 right now. How can you avoid going three-for-three?
Did he take it from your purse or just not contribute? And for how long?
Lol. I mean its something that would make me walk away.
LeeDoubleLee
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the first guy was cheating. IMO that has nothing to do with me but was a character issue on his part. he could have just said it wasnt working out and left. i would have respected that. what he did instead was stop investing in the relationship and then i found out he was cheating when i spent a weekend at his house. my dad was really sick at the time so if things were different i would have saw the red flags sooner but him not doing anything and me finding out the truth took 2 1/2 months. his father was really sick and died. i was there supporting him from start to finish even though i worked full time and was in grad school f/t IMO what he did was grimey AF.
Hmmm you're 2-2 right now. How can you avoid going three-for-three?
the second guy acted like he was busy with work which may have been true since he was trying to get this big promotion at work. then he did something really foul (like left me high and dry during an emergency, which he admitted later was foul as hell) i dropped him immediately. i didn't do anything to deserve that either. but i wasn't waiting around for him to get it together. i just left. you can't expect people to do things for you and you never reciprocate. that is selfishness.
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@LeeDoubleLee
I hinehone think you were leaving cky not to have gone furthrr with either of those selfish people.
He's out there though, just for you
I hinehone think you were leaving cky not to have gone furthrr with either of those selfish people.
He's out there though, just for you
Tiffrock
All Star
Out of that list, I have ended a relationship between mama's boy and don't go out.
My personal #1 is disloyalty/unfaithfulness. I can't tell you how sick and disgusted I am of cheaters.
But from your list (and I had to have an internal debate about this lol), I'd choose too religious followed closely by mama's boy (I admit-- I tend to get jealous & annoyed if I don't have his full attention) and constantly contacting me (I need my space and freedom; that's very big for me. Being clingy is a huge turnoff).
But from your list (and I had to have an internal debate about this lol), I'd choose too religious followed closely by mama's boy (I admit-- I tend to get jealous & annoyed if I don't have his full attention) and constantly contacting me (I need my space and freedom; that's very big for me. Being clingy is a huge turnoff).
Lying and cheating. I get it. Being honest takes a lot of courage. Hell even in a "world" where u are completely anonymous, people STILL feel the need to lie online. So I really get it.
But I make an effort to be honest in my dealings with people and there is nothing worse than a liar. You just can't get to the dimension I want to get to with someone if you too afraid to tell the truth.
But I make an effort to be honest in my dealings with people and there is nothing worse than a liar. You just can't get to the dimension I want to get to with someone if you too afraid to tell the truth.
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I would say the top three for me would be a pathological liar. Someone that lies so much that they themselves will start to believe it. Cheaters are no fun either, because anyone who cheats on someone in a relationship was obviously not committed and genuine to begin with. And momma's boys. I've never gotten along with any of my bf's moms. Ever. Never understood why, I did the mothers a favor by letting their bum ass son move in with me to mooch off of me instead of them for a couple of months. Don't have that problem anymore though.