*cracks knuckles*
First things first...
The most important step when it comes to eating p*ssy is that you have to
enjoy eating p*ssy. It is the foundation on which good-p*ssy eating is built. Similar to how when you have a girl who just sucks dikk out of obligation and you can tell... If you aren't turned on by the act of quenching your thirst on her box, you're wasting everyone's time. Don't be lame, learn to love the art of lick.
Now that we've gotten that tidbit out of the way, here is the 2nd most important thing when it comes to eating p*ssy. Do
not let the girl cum.
I know I know it sounds
but just hear me out. Eating box should be the appetizer, the prelude to the final act. It should not be how she starts and finishes her night. Forget all that nonsense about how "women can only cum from oral", it's bullshyt. It is INCREDIBLY useful, especially if the girl likes you and if you do it right, but no. The point of eating box should be to make her want... nay... NEED to get fukked by you. Eating p*ssy is an exercise in patience and timing. A contest of wills, if you will. Bring her right to the precipice, then back off, slowly. She'll hate you for it, but she'll love you more. After you've warmed it up and stroked her to orgasm a couple times, you can go back down and make her cum in your mouth, but the first orgasm of the night should not be from head.
Now that we've gotten the philosophical shyt out of the way, let's talk technique. Like the old saying goes, slow and steady wins the race. As the ladies have commented, that porn shyt is a waste of everyone's time. You need to make love to the p*ssy with your lips and tongue. Don't flick your shyt around, that's... weird... Lick slowly, but firmly. Don't be afraid to penetrate with your tongue. Fingers... that's a personal thing, ask your girl what she likes. Also, USE YOUR VOICE! Yes nikka your voice. Put your lips and tongue on the clit, then say some nasty shyt about how good she tastes in your deepest most booming voice. The vibrations will travel through your lips to her... she'll love it. If you sound like Urkel, skip this step, you need a certain frequency to pull this off. Use your strength to pin her arms or legs for a short time; women love to be taken control of.
That's all I got for now.