Ladies what do you think when people say that "women don't know what they want"?

[bcrusaderw]

Do you agree? Disagree? Why do you think people say that? Any other thoughts?


Notice that the title said ladies? That means if you don't have two X chromosomes that you can click the big red X in the upper right hand corner.

 

[Rawtid]

In terms of love/relationships, then I would have to agree.

 

[VFib]

I don't pay it any mind, As people get older, what they want changes. It's the same with these male posters, but every time they are called out on the indecisiveness and hypocrisy ....crickets.
Anyway, I only read this statement on internet forums, never in real life.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Yeah most times we are confused about what it is exactly we want. We might have a general idea and when we get it its not as we thought.
Really tho i don't think most people know what they want. I've only known a few people who have achieved exactly what they said they were gonna be in life, whether it was career wise, relationship wise or whatever.
I think we know more of what we don't want then what we do.
At leas personally for me anyway.
Plus what we want changes as we get older too. I don't think there's anything wrong with not being 100% sure what you want out of life, it's just that some people like to verbalize every thing so they come off as flaky when they change their minds.

 

[Elle Driver]

It's bullshyt. Most people who make general statements like that are projecting their own qualities onto women as a whole.

 

[Raava]

I hate generalizations. Do I know some dingy women? Yes. Do I know some stereotypical women? Yes. Do I know some women who say one thing and mean another? Yes. But I know know women who know exactly what they want and some men who are just as emotional, illogical, and flighty as women are supposed to be.

 

[Sassy]

Like the majority of shyt in real life and online, I don't pay it any mind. Nor do i care to.

 

[Spike Tarantino]

"Psssh, Women don't know what they want" = "Women don't want me"






IMHO

 

[CinnaSlim]

Simple minds can't comprehend dynamic women.

 

[Colicat]

It's really stupid...
As soon as a woman states what she wants and how she wants it, she is branded as a bossy bytch, bitter, and aggressive/masculine...

Damned if you do, damned if you don't

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

I know what I don't want

 

[Friskies]

You start out with an idea but you need to test run a few before you know the exact qualities.

 

[wet landscapes]

strongly disagree that women are especially indecisive or somehow don't have a clue about themselves

nobody knows themselves 100%, people spend their whole lives trying to fully understand themselves
also it implies that you need the magical special man that will unlock your true self

 

[Remote]

Hate it when people generalize on women but still generalize on men and other races all the time, coli brehettes/brehs

 

[bcrusaderw]

Hate it when people generalize on women but still generalize on men and other races all the time, coli brehettes/brehs

Do you ever shut the fukk up?