Ladies: So my boy's been dealing with this chik for about 3 months and....

[Mike Ock]

She is black with west Indian and she likes to boss nikkas around..and she has a child...

Symptoms of a strong black woman...

In other words tell that nikka to leave that alone...

That is a domestic violence case waiting to happen..

And he has no kids?

He should just let it go if she looking for long term

I tried to give dude so many hints.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

3 months is a long time?

In 2013? The chick better be fine AS fukk if I'm waiting more than a month/month and a half to smash. I bet she doesn't mind him spending his money on her until she's ready though

 

[Mike Ock]

In 2013? The chick better be fine AS fukk if I'm waiting more than a month/month and a half to smash. I bet she doesn't mind him spending his money on her until she's ready though

That's the sad part. She's like a strong 6.85...with a noticeable gut.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

That's the sad part. She's like a strong 6.85...with a noticeable gut.

Your boy is taking a MASSIVE L. It's his fault in the first place, he probably came off as too nice and sensitive, if you don't let a chick know that you're either fukking or leaving from the beginning she'll just string you along and let you pay for errthang

 

[AZBeauty]

In 2013? The chick better be fine AS fukk if I'm waiting more than a month/month and a half to smash. I bet she doesn't mind him spending his money on her until she's ready though

Ok, I mean 3 months seems to be just the right amount of time to REALLY start getting to know the other person. However, I been out the "game" a long time actually I never been in the game so I guess I dont know what the hell I'm talking about. Lol

 

[Raava]

It's possible, but it could be something else. Maybe she read/saw "Think Like a Man". Maybe she just wants to be cautious.

 

[Illuminatos]

Or maybe...

































































Wait for it....




















































































She's just not ready to have sex with him.

 

[mcdivit85]

My question is, what's their interaction like?

Are they hanging out all the time or just once a week/every other week?

Are they doing any type of physical play? Kissing? Touching? Oral?

Is he always paying on dates or is she breaking bread as well?

Is she doing favors for him? Cooking? Running some errands? Giving him money makers?

For the average dude, p*ssy is the end all/be all. So, if that's not happening, then no matter what, he's losing in the mind of the average dude.

BUT, even if this chick is trying to be coy, if she was breaking bread, running errands and cooking for the dude all while he lays back with other chicks on the team, then he's coming out ahead. But since it sounds like you think he's losing because he's not smashing and birds of a feather flock together, then something tells me he's paying for all the dates, running errands on her behalf and getting no type of offering/contribution. And he feels like a sucka for not smashing by now.

So, in that case, he is losing. Not because he's not smashing. But because he's getting no kind of contribution from this woman and one busted nut would make all that go away(in his mind).

Peace

 

[devizelle]

How about we not.

Oh, and I never met her. I just saw a pic and goes by what dude tells me. My other boy met her and said she was acting real funny and was trying to boss my boy(the dude thread is about) around.

My question is, what's their interaction like?

Are they hanging out all the time or just once a week/every other week?

Are they doing any type of physical play? Kissing? Touching? Oral?

Is he always paying on dates or is she breaking bread as well?

Is she doing favors for him? Cooking? Running some errands? Giving him money makers?

For the average dude, p*ssy is the end all/be all. So, if that's not happening, then no matter what, he's losing in the mind of the average dude.

BUT, even if this chick is trying to be coy, if she was breaking bread, running errands and cooking for the dude all while he lays back with other chicks on the team, then he's coming out ahead. But since it sounds like you think he's losing because he's not smashing and birds of a feather flock together, then something tells me he's paying for all the dates, running errands on her behalf and getting no type of offering/contribution. And he feels like a sucka for not smashing by now.

So, in that case, he is losing. Not because he's not smashing. But because he's getting no kind of contribution from this woman and one busted nut would make all that go away(in his mind).

Peace

Good points! She's given NO reason at all though? It's hard to believe that in 3 months they haven't talked about sex at all.

 

[ltheghost]

He needs to find a different woman. She has a kid and is making him wait three months to smash? Naw, man, he is 30 and he can do better. If she doesn't do something in the next couple of days, he needs to put her on the back burner. fukk with single moms brehs...

 

[ltheghost]

That's the sad part. She's like a strong 6.85...with a noticeable gut.

WTF!?!?!?!? HELL NAW!!! Go find someone else!! Holy shyt!!! Three months for that!?!!??! Naw!! NO!!! NO!!! LOL

 

[LebronsHairline]

She's not ready?

Did he even ask her about it?

1. she could be "celibate" (I hate that word lol)

that's all I could come up with.

3 months is a long time?

For two adults who im gonna assume are attracted to each other, yeaa thats a pretty decent amount of time.

That's the sad part. She's like a strong 6.85...with a noticeable gut.

lemme ask, is your boy smooth with the ladies? im gonna assume he isnt cause thats what hes working wit but you know him better than i do

 

[Cacs R Us]

Why don't people just fukking ask these things instead of dumbass idle speculation?

 

[King Poetic]

Throw her in the dumpster

This broad has a kid and what's to boss that nikka around like he's her child, but probably never said shyt or anything to her baby's father

i'll just leave that chick in the minors and continue with my life and if she wants to fukk then i'll think about bringing her up

 

[Ashley Banks]

Come on, you know some people like to go the celibate route for a while. Hoping it will wash away their sins.