at "prune"
Cursing - I'm sure you already use dirty words in bed... Right?
other than that, all that stuff is just different stages of the same scale. I like throwing girls around, using my commanding voice and being dominant
. Sometimes, with the right woman, I go further - light choking, light spanking, light hair-tugging. I emphasize
light because I'm a strong man and anything above that would be scary for me to do.
If you like to be dominated, you probably just need the right man to guide you into some of the things on your list - someone who could be gentle but make you feel helpless at the same time, & of course the man has to know what he's doing.
Finally, anal sex. It's not so much about the physical sensation - I prefer vaginal. But when a woman gives up her butt, it feels like you have absolute power over her. It's the final frontier and a very submissive thing to do. For someone who's naturally dominant - like me - that's a huge turn on. And it's a huge turn on for girls who like guys like me.
Again, though, you need to be with the right man for anal. Not someone who's watched too much porn and has weird ideas about sex