Ladies of the coli: How many of you think youll still be be desired 20 years from now

Aphrodite

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No you draw fukkery


I'm the heart and soul of the party...the peacemaker..

The spiritual leader
lol I easily attract men is my point.
How I speak, my body language, idk.
It just happens.
Even when I want to just be lowkey and not bothered.
 

morris

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Yes. I have a fat ass.
Aren't you a dude?

The only person I would care about desiring me is my partner. Other than that I don't think I would care. I don't really care about it now.

Like @BrokePhiBroke I just want to be happy with myself.

Being annoyed depends, I am gracious and appreciative every time someone compliments me, but some people do cross the line. I don't like being hounded and stared at.

I have seen this stated many time here. Some women say, I Like to do "enter sexual act" with my man only....but you have to like the act as a whole. I.E., if you guys ever break up, you better like doing it for the new guy.

And by the way, when you see a thing of beauty (sunset, artwork, etc.) you don't simply give it a glance, you stare in admiration and appreciation.
 

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I have seen this stated many time here. Some women say, I Like to do "enter sexual act" with my man only....but you have to like the act as a whole. I.E., if you guys ever break up, you better like doing it for the new guy.

And by the way, when you see a thing of beauty (sunset, artwork, etc.) you don't simply give it a glance, you stare in admiration and appreciation.

I don't see how that works here. Certain things someone may only will do with someone they are in a committed relationship with. When people say things like that, they want to clarify that while they do something, there are stipulations.

Staring at someone a long period of time is rude IMO if especially if you aren't going to say anything. There is a difference between a quick stare and staring to the point of making someone uncomfortable. A thing a beauty...a woman/man is a person. People have boundaries.

For example at a previous job a guy would stare at me for entire his break. Stared at me every time he saw me. It made me extremely uncomfortable. I can do without that.
 

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I don't see how that works here. Certain things someone may only will do with someone they are in a committed relationship with. When people say things like that, they want to clarify that while they do something, there are stipulations.

Staring at someone a long period of time is rude IMO if especially if you aren't going to say anything. There is a difference between a quick stare and staring to the point of making someone uncomfortable. A thing a beauty...a woman/man is a person. People have boundaries.

For example at a previous job a guy would stare at me for entire his break. Stared at me every time he saw me. It made me extremely uncomfortable. I can do without that.
I'm not into tattle tale and kid shyt, but at the world place is wild. Did you guys ever speak? Da hell you work at?

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I'm not into tattle tale and kid shyt, but at the world place is wild. Did you guys ever speak? Da hell you work at?

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We didn't work in the same department would see him in the breakroom or outside. I started speaking just saying hello since he was staring. He would speak back and keep staring. I stopped speaking and avoided him. I spoke to a friend that was a supervisor but I mean he was just staring and I wasn't trying to cause a big thing and go to HR. I just avoided him as much as possible.
 
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