Ladies, How Would You Describe A Man That Got His shyt Together?

[Juliano Soprano]

-comes from a family with both parents still together.

You realize the man can't control this right? So you saying if he come from a single parent family he don't qualify

 

[King Poetic]

fantasy world

because women themselves will still complain

end of thread

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

He's not a deadbeat & maybe a little bit of loser since he spends alot of his free time on this forum.
I'm sure 90% of the guys on this forum don't have a stable job & isn't going to university & has a car & a gorgeous Honduran girlfriend.

IT certs allows majority of use to post all day

why dont u trap him and have a kid...most females from your ethnic background tend to do this a lot
then maybe if the kid turns out to be his and not sharing he will take the relationship serious

again just a thought

 

[-DMP-]

malc does it again

-DMP-

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You realize the man can't control this right? So you saying if he come from a single parent family he don't qualify

She is right

In my case I only date females that come from 2parent house

They call that pawging these days

 

[LezJepzin]

At this point in my life
- some sort of financial security and mobility as well as an understanding of saving/investing (gotta have career/financial prospects/goals/achievements/aspirations)
- solid understanding of who they are, they aren't still trying to figure out the basics, we're all always learning things about ourselves, but at a certain point you have to understand and be happy withwho you are at your core
- sense of social, civil, communal, or political responsibility (volunteers time or money to support causes he believes in, shows concern for others, knowledge of US and/or world issues)
- man of his word, and gentleman, and respectful of commitments i.e. respects the woman he's with, not still trying to be a player when he's supposed to be in a relationship, honest, treats his woman like a lady
- no drama - no DUI's, arrests, drug issues, baby mama drama (prefer no kids but of he has a kid, there can be no drama with the mom or a messy BM who's trying to sabotage the new relationship)
- college degree (yes, this is a requirement for me...unless he's diddy lol)
- has an idea what he wants from life and is working toward it (could be better health, marriage, home ownership, starting a business, seeing 100 countries, etc)

Must take this list wherever you go too huh?

 

[BellaVenus]

IT certs allows majority of use to post all day

why dont u trap him and have a kid...most females from your ethnic background tend to do this a lot
then maybe if the kid turns out to be his and not sharing he will take the relationship serious

again just a thought

He spends his days selling computers & sending them to the manufacturer to be fixed.
He doesn't have access to the internet where he works. They slave him all day with no breaks.
Even when he has his degree he'll most likely spend days building & taking computers apart rather than posting on the coli.
He's very serious about his work & I respect him for that.


& WHY IN THE HELL would I give up my body for someone that isn't all that promising. I care way more about my career & bettering myself then depending on any man & trapping him hoping that he'd stay with me.
Girls these days need to realize that that shyt doesn't work. Guys can leave & they will.

Focus on bettering your self, focus on your degree & your career & then after all of that you can perhaps find a good man, get married, have a family & etc.

I love Rob but I don't love him to the point where i'd sabotage my own life & body.

Sorry, not sorry.

 

[Reckless]

Our relationship has always been public on this forum.
Rob & I are "The Couple" of the coli. & if we had a baby then that baby will be The Coli's "First Baby".

maybe technically, but I think Sohh produced a few babies

and where the fukk is this nicca Rob to defend himself?

 

[-G$-]

maybe technically, but I think Sohh produced a few babies

and where the fukk is this nicca Rob to defend himself?

think?

 

[Rawtid]

maybe technically, but I think Sohh produced a few babies

and where the fukk is this nicca Rob to defend himself?

This isn't sohh.

 

[flusterose]

I dont care if he travels. Hell, I went to the UK by myself(he stayed home with the dog lol) and i traveled internationally before i met him. He didnt get a passport until we started dating. I had my own money(and my parents) before we met so i dont need his money. It's a nice supplement though. lol

 

[ikbm]

whatever happened to respecting your relationships...why is ol girl airring out personal shyt like this
we dont need to hear this shyt
you don't talk down to someone you supposedly care about to internet nikkas

 

[Reckless]

At this point in my life
- some sort of financial security and mobility as well as an understanding of saving/investing (gotta have career/financial prospects/goals/achievements/aspirations)
- solid understanding of who they are, they aren't still trying to figure out the basics, we're all always learning things about ourselves, but at a certain point you have to understand and be happy withwho you are at your core
- sense of social, civil, communal, or political responsibility (volunteers time or money to support causes he believes in, shows concern for others, knowledge of US and/or world issues)
- man of his word, and gentleman, and respectful of commitments i.e. respects the woman he's with, not still trying to be a player when he's supposed to be in a relationship, honest, treats his woman like a lady
- no drama - no DUI's, arrests, drug issues, baby mama drama (prefer no kids but of he has a kid, there can be no drama with the mom or a messy BM who's trying to sabotage the new relationship)
- college degree (yes, this is a requirement for me...unless he's diddy lol)
- has an idea what he wants from life and is working toward it (could be better health, marriage, home ownership, starting a business, seeing 100 countries, etc)

 

[Reckless]

think?

lol. well one couple with two, and who knows how many at this point...sure i forgot the others

This isn't sohh.

yeah i know, thats why i said technically

 

[BellaVenus]

whatever happened to respecting your relationships...why is ol girl airring out personal shyt like this
we dont need to hear this shyt
you don't talk down to someone you supposedly care about to internet nikkas

Why do you care what I decided to put online Jared?
You went out of your way to respond.
Have I offended the drug-addict?

Sorry, not sorry.