Ladies, How Would You Describe A Man That Got His shyt Together?

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No he pushed me across it by the way he's being brainwashed by this forum. He needs a reality check, & so do the rest of you that generalize women yet discredit your mother.

He even calls his little sister a whore... Clearly HE crossed the line.
LMFAO :dead:

At this point in my life
- some sort of financial security and mobility as well as an understanding of saving/investing (gotta have career/financial prospects/goals/achievements/aspirations)
- solid understanding of who they are, they aren't still trying to figure out the basics, we're all always learning things about ourselves, but at a certain point you have to understand and be happy withwho you are at your core
- sense of social, civil, communal, or political responsibility (volunteers time or money to support causes he believes in, shows concern for others, knowledge of US and/or world issues)
- man of his word, and gentleman, and respectful of commitments i.e. respects the woman he's with, not still trying to be a player when he's supposed to be in a relationship, honest, treats his woman like a lady
- no drama - no DUI's, arrests, drug issues, baby mama drama (prefer no kids but of he has a kid, there can be no drama with the mom or a messy BM who's trying to sabotage the new relationship)
- college degree (yes, this is a requirement for me...unless he's diddy lol)
- has an idea what he wants from life and is working toward it (could be better health, marriage, home ownership, starting a business, seeing 100 countries, etc)
Holla if you need me :takedat:

Yall leave Dozen alone.

@dora_da_destroyer stop bullshytting, I got mad single friends that meet your criteria

Let my wife play wingman
I'd wife Dozen with the quickness. :ohlawd: Reckless is out the picture now and he got baggage. :shaq:
 
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Thats not true. And they arent demands, they are standards.

I have my own and if someone doesn't meet them then they can pop a squat in the bushes or chase the next chick :manny:

My thing is, if I am a certain place in life and have attained certain things then so should you.

If your my age and you are unemployed, living at home and not in school, dont have a car, not thinking about his future, broke as fukk, ect we have ZERO to talk about or in common. If you arent trying to do anything with your life or have zero goals then why would I or any chick wanna be bothered? The dikk is NEVER that good. :manny:


Than you aren't whats wrong with this conversation...no one asked woman to go boo up Bobby BumASS. But it blows my mind that the closer people get to 30, the more requirement they have... It's like, I'm 30+, I give up find love. I want a sponsor.

Most single women over 30 are crazy bitter...
 

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Than you aren't whats wrong with this conversation...no one asked woman to go boo up Bobby BumASS. But it blows my mind that the closer people get to 30, the more requirement they have... It's like, I'm 30+, I give up find love. I want a sponsor.

Most single women over 30 are crazy bitter...

Truths.
 

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have a professional degree md/jd/MBA or are working on it. Marriage/family oriented. Cannot have issues with women. Meaning no mommy issues, daddy issues, he man women haters, or have a long list of women he's previously slept with that I know about. Should have a spiritual life, preferably Christian. No atheists or agnostics, I want to raise my children Christian. Good leadership potential, ambitious with demonstrated progress toward his goals. No children, in good shape, kindness, respect for himself and others, and honesty. Good social skills, should have his own friends, life, interests, etc.

But yeah, that's what I'm looking for.

A family of brainwashed simpletons! Pass down lies from generation to generation brehs! :blessed:
 

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if you have a vehicle, cell phone, 75 dollars, 2 nice outfits, can hold a convo ... and can at least pretend to not live at 'home' then you can fck most women. at least once.
 
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A family of brainwashed simpletons! Pass down lies from generation to generation brehs! :blessed:
Do I mock or dismiss your beliefs? Completely unnecessary and very immature. most of the agnostics/atheists I'm friends with are pretty chill and generally respectful of other's beliefs because they understand not everyone sees things the way they do. But my friends are intelligent, well-educated and pretty open-minded so.... :rudy:
 
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