Ladies, How Would You Describe A Man That Got His shyt Together?

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lol, ok. But how do you know right away? Are you like, "My name is so n so... is Jesus your lord n savior?"

Most black women just assume... plus I will go to church if invited. Also, my 2nd university was liberty - got christian counseling certs n shyt. And if there's a guy you like that you get along with... you will probably date him and try to convince him...
Lol no I won't. This Muslim guy tried to get at me a couple wks ago, it came up in our phone conversation. I had a few problems with him tho, he was judge mental and extremely homophobic. But I told him I couldn't work with him for religious reasons because I felt like that was the reason he was most likely to accept.

But no I don't assume anything and that's why I ask lots and lots of questions. Guys like talking about themselves so it's not really a problem.

I mean for me, I try to dead things before my feelings get involved heavily. And that for anything I feel super strongly abt. Trying to have sex too soon, personality issues, whatever because I can love anybody honestly. That's just my personality. So I cut ties quick.
 

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you were shytting on him hr ago..all of sudden he is mr romeo

does he have a 401k? how old is he?

I simply said that he spends wayyy too much of his free time on here. & that I don't like the fact that he generalizes women which is greatly influenced by this site. :comeon:

Quit telling :duck:
& who said he was Mr. Romeo?

Love how you assume things that are completely opposite of the truth. I thought you said you hated liars? :usure:
 

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Smoking weed doesn't equate to drug issues...now if you re a pothead in the same way someone could be a alcoholic, then yea, that s a problem

I said volunteering or giving money (or goods) that's not hard to do....I do it so does most of my peer group
Investing, I do it
Saving, I do it
No arrests, I've never been and that was in reference to people who consistently are getting arrested/DUI's....
College degre, I have that and an mba, all of my friends went to college and most have graduate degrees
100 countries, read my nikka I said that could be a life goal, I'm at 32, so travel, yep, I do it

I didn't list anything that I don't do myself, those are the norm for me and my peers, IDGAF what ALL Americans are doing, I just know what the norm is for the people I surround myself with and what I'd consider as "having your life together".

I guess you all on your Dean, and I ain't on mine....:yeshrug:
 

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Lol no I won't. This Muslim guy tried to get at me a couple wks ago, it came up in our phone conversation. I had a few problems with him tho, he was judge mental and extremely homophobic. But I told him I couldn't work with him for religious reasons because I felt like that was the reason he was most likely to accept.

But no I don't assume anything and that's why I ask lots and lots of questions. Guys like talking about themselves so it's not really a problem.

I mean for me, I try to dead things before my feelings get involved heavily. And that for anything I feel super strongly abt. Trying to have sex too soon, personality issues, whatever because I can love anybody honestly. That's just my personality. So I cut ties quick.
The men you met are swagless and reveal too much information too soon. Also they are probably impatient.

I hope you never run into a real man that will engage you the right way... you may lose yourself.
 

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I simply said that he spends wayyy too much of his free time on here. & that I don't like the fact that he generalizes women which is greatly influenced by this site. :comeon:

Quit telling :duck:
& who said he was Mr. Romeo?

Love how you assume things that are completely opposite of the truth. I thought you said you hated liars? :usure:

is he a HS graduate..?.
so this bum nikka is living free at your place and just smashing while you out making all the money and he doesnt have to put a ring on it


to be honest he is winning
 

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You forgot puffin on Dro...
:shaq:

FOH...You realize their have been Presidents of the United States and Fortune 500 CEO's that don't meet your list...

That is why you are reaching...

100 countries?!?! REACH

Volunteering: 29% of Americans REACH
Investing 54% of Americans REACH
6 Month Emegency Saving 25% of Americans REACH
No Arrest or Drug Issues...but you smoke? REACH
College Degree 30%...REACH

The math doesn't add up luv...sorry. You either going to be extremely lucky, settle, or...

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how much you wanna bet that @dora_da_destroyer is single....
 
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The men you met are swagless and reveal too much information too soon. Also they are probably impatient.

I hope you never run into a real man that will engage you the right way... you may lose yourself.
Haha. False. But continue to believe that if it makes you feel better. Not my problem.
 

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is he a HS graduate..?.
so this bum nikka is living free at your place and just smashing while you out making all the money and he doesnt have to put a ring on it


to be honest he is winning

LMAOOO ok now you're trolling :troll:

I was a bit slow but now I caught on.
I'll play along though..

Yes, he is a "bum nikka" that is not paying rent & just smashing while not putting a ring on it.
He also brings girls over and smashed them in my face while having me clean all of the floors with a child's toothbrush. He then makes me bathe him & change his clothes... even wipe his ass when he finished taking a shyt. & he makes me wipe his shyt with the money that I make. :shaq:
 
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