KOBE; Letter to My Younger Self

Bilz

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I completely disagree with the second part. I've seen families (including my own) that were super close but once the parents die and inheritance enters the equation all of a sudden the family fractures over how the money is split. At their core most people are selfish and about their own well being.
Well money can definitely fracture relationships if either side (or both) are struggling. But I left that part out because we are talking about some adults who already had money and were in their early to mid 40's by the time Kobe got paid. At that age, you aren't changing much. Kobe seems to suggest they were spoiled by his generosity but I can't believe that is what fukked things up. If they are jealous or whatever of his money, no amount of time or slow playing would change that. It's one or both sides being stubborn about a lot of stupid shyt that causes a relationship to fracture like that.
 

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Well money can definitely fracture relationships if either side (or both) are struggling. But I left that part out because we are talking about some adults who already had money and were in their early to mid 40's by the time Kobe got paid. At that age, you aren't changing much. Kobe seems to suggest they were spoiled by his generosity but I can't believe that is what fukked things up. If they are jealous or whatever of his money, no amount of time or slow playing would change that. It's one or both sides being stubborn about a lot of stupid shyt that causes a relationship to fracture like that.
Sense of entitlement. Yes they had money but they weren't elite. They saw Kobe as the meal ticket, the golden goose, much like poor people. Only difference is they weren't poor. No one feels the need to give to people who have.
 

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Well they apparently didn't support him getting married with no prenup. That's what I'm saying though, there was already a strained relationship there.

If people truly care about you, money doesn't get in the middle. When money splits families up, they were fukked up to begin with.

Kobe met a brown CaC on the set of a rap video.:comeon:She was 16 years old at the time...:sas1:...2 years later he trying to wife this chick...despite still being a kid himself...with his whole life ahead of him :what: Kobe Parents refused to attend that wedding cuz they knew Kobe was being extorted by a Salsa bytch and her Mexican Family :gladbron: Cuz she was 16 when he hit and by law it was stat Rape...:gladbron: She get like 75 mill and 3 mansions the second they divorce so he staying put...:youngsabo: And mind you...he did all of this with no Prenupt in place when he first married her :lupe: Who's idea you think that was ? :youngsabo:
 

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Kobe met a brown CaC on the set of a rap video.:comeon:She was 16 years old at the time...:sas1:...2 years later he trying to wife this chick...despite still being a kid himself...with his whole life ahead of him :what: Kobe Parents refused to attend that wedding cuz they knew Kobe was being extorted by a Salsa bytch and her Mexican Family :gladbron: Cuz she was 16 when he hit and by law it was stat Rape...:gladbron: She get like 75 mill and 3 mansions the second they divorce so he staying put...:youngsabo: And mind you...he did all of this with no Prenupt in place when he first married her :lupe: Who's idea you think that was ? :youngsabo:

She's extorting him when she can benefit more by divorcing him?

Yea, Kobe is staying put and locked in a marriage he doesn't want to be in which is why they celebrated their 16th year of marriage and expecting a daughter in fall.

Some of you live in la la land.
 

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Sense of entitlement. Yes they had money but they weren't elite. They saw Kobe as the meal ticket, the golden goose, much like poor people. Only difference is they weren't poor. No one feels the need to give to people who have.
While this is all speculation, it goes along with what I'm saying that simply giving them less wouldn't change anything. If they just saw him as a meal ticket, that means they don't respect him and were either incapable or unwilling to have a real relationship with him, whether it was because of jealousy, disagreement with his life choices, overall inability to get along, or whatever.

We are talking about grown ass adults. If we are going with the story that they are just mad because the gifts they received aren't lavish enough, how the fukk can we say that if he had simply stonewalled them, they would have become reasonable people who would yearn for his love and presence and forget all about the money?
 

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Kobe met a brown CaC on the set of a rap video.:comeon:She was 16 years old at the time...:sas1:...2 years later he trying to wife this chick...despite still being a kid himself...with his whole life ahead of him :what: Kobe Parents refused to attend that wedding cuz they knew Kobe was being extorted by a Salsa bytch and her Mexican Family :gladbron: Cuz she was 16 when he hit and by law it was stat Rape...:gladbron: She get like 75 mill and 3 mansions the second they divorce so he staying put...:youngsabo: And mind you...he did all of this with no Prenupt in place when he first married her :lupe: Who's idea you think that was ? :youngsabo:





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She's extorting him when she can benefit more by divorcing him?

Yea, Kobe is staying put and locked in a marriage he doesn't want to be in which is why they celebrated their 16th year of marriage and expecting a daughter in fall.

Some of you live in la la land.
Restarted the child support clock :troll:
 

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Great letter but I would've left the parents part out.
This. Its actually goid advuse
They'll still have "independence & growth".....that shyt comes naturally.


They'll just be able to handle it more gracefully if they're financially stable.
Breh, that's a naive way of looking at dropping a bag on your family if they never had nothing.

There's a reason there aren't a bunch of generations of rich black (and half black) kids of athletes running around after major sports have been paying black men millions for atleast three decades
 

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Kobe's actually right. The Coli's hate for him overrides all logic though.

Literally every financial book/website/article highly discourages rich people giving away money.

They become dependent on you and expect for you to give to them and no matter what you give, it's never enough because you're Lebron James and you're worth $500 million but, only giving them $1 million.

Literally EVERYONE discourages it.

If you know more than 99% of all financial advisers, then hey :manny:
you must not know where you're at :pachaha:
 
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