Kids Truly Are a Gift and a Curse

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The general populous is just not informed on the weight of bringing children into the world, but the modern nations rely on a workforce in order to thrive, it's why you see countries getting desperate with immigration as their population replacement numbers dwindle. So we need workers to maintain the economy, thus little incentives towards producing an educated population that will, as we note in other developed countries, steer away from manual labor and entry work to move towards entrepreneurship, office jobs, and professional careers.


Just note the difference in rearing between each tax bracket, the rich rear their kids to employ the other kids, or rear them towards professional careers, such as academics, law, medicine, etc, careers that have historically excluded the lower and even middle class due to the underlying requirements both financial and social that are extremely beneficial when pursuing such fields.

So the average worker in America is less likely to pursue education, less likely to be politically active, less likely to be politically informed, less likely to acquire ownership, less likely to be financially responsible. It's a cycle that is seemingly never ending without a significant intervention, don't fall for the outliers that make it out, they are outliers. Social mobility in America is trash, thus, one is more likely to remain in the tax bracket they were born into, as opposed to leaving it and moving upwards.


Simply put, you aren't supposed to think opposite, nations make more sense when you look at everyone participating as numbers or cogs in the machine. The average human is too keep their head down distracted with work and rearing, in survival mode, the pleasantries that you can partake in, consumerism, that's there so you leap from a building or decide to get serious about structural reform.


And I'm not suggesting a cabal of controllers, it's just the way things have fallen into place and what has become normalized, what it would take to change this is the majority recognizing their leverage in the system, but like I said, that same group is also the least, statistically, to do anything about it.






Can you afford a tutor? Unless your kid is going to a private school, the classrooms are big, they only suit kids that were reared to seek knowledge, the rest just float on and eventually graduate lacking an understanding in vital areas.

Ironically this plays into what I was describing above. How many here have kids not doing so well in school? What do you do about it? Go examine the academic approach for rearing between tax brackets, another startling discovery.
He doesn't need a tutor he's lazy. Come home watching TV. Can't even do homework with the TV on and he's got hours to get it done. His mind is fractured between the fun of being a kid and responsibilities to the household in the form of schoolwork.


Boy thinks because he knows a little Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu hes to cool for the grind. He's lost his Gat damn mind.

My daughter in contrast likes to show how all her work is done probably just to hate on him.

He's gonna be Sick when she's on the iPad and he's watching her play Roblox
 

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He doesn't need a tutor he's lazy. Come home watching TV. Can't even do homework with the TV on and he's got hours to get it done. Hos mind is fractured between the fun of being a kid and responsibilities to the household in the form of schoolwork
If it were me, I would hire a professional in the area to take a look at the situation and offer scientifically backed advice specific to the needs of your child, another thing that costs money and time.
 

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If it were me, I would hire a professional in the area to take a look at the situation and offer scientifically backed advice specific to the needs of your child, another thing that costs money and time.
That sounds like a waste of money in our household because when shyt starts getting taken away, results get met. Early!!!!
 

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Something to consider, no one under the age of 25 could ever make a responsible decision towards having children, your brain hasn't reached maturity in the area crucial towards making that kind of decision responsibly, couple that with the lack of information given to people about responsible rearing... Take a guess at which tax brackets are more likely to have children early. The cycle...
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hope your young 1 don't post on here. that shyt would break his heart. I was young when I bred my first one. Manned TF up and got it done AND some :blessed:

He’s 13 so that’s highly unlikely but even so…what part exactly would “break his heart”?

He knows his mom was a teen when he came into the world. Unfortunately, he was also there for the trial and error and mistakes I made along the way. I’d wish I was older so that I could have shielded both of us from that life. He deserved more than what a 19 year old making $7.00 an hour could offer. :yeshrug:
 

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I can’t wait to complain about this type of stuff one day :blessed:. I’m ready. Now I’ll say the prayer “ God I’ve seen what you’ve done for other folks “ from the outside looking in you’ve got made it. Then I’m reminded of the 2 year old twins that came into the health center and tested positive for the flu . Yuck. I hate germs and I can’t stand drool. I adore kids but I’m not ready for war just yet.
 

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This girl at my job is always calling in or working from home cause her kid is sick. Hell she wasn't in today.



shyt got me fed up. Parental discrimination sounded silly to me for a long time but I can see a muhfukka like me in management hittin the :camby: on applicants
 

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He’s 13 so that’s highly unlikely but even so…what part exactly would “break his heart”?

He knows his mom was a teen when he came into the world. Unfortunately, he was also there for the trial and error and mistakes I made along the way. I’d wish I was older so that I could have shielded both of us from that life. He deserved more than what a 19 year old making $7.00 an hour could offer. :yeshrug:

The whole thing. you basically talked out both sides of your mouth. My mother did the same thing and that shyt cut DEEP. It translates to us as "if I had a do over I woulda..." how you think that makes us feel? shyt supposed to happen for a reason. Lowkey there was resentment there too...not sure about your case. But things like "trial and error mistakes". nah fukk all that. fukk what he desevered he had no say in that. You and his pops gave him what he got. Sorry but I can relate and that struck a nerve.
 
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