right but we're black people b. so intraracially speaking you actually believe that black men have historically deemed black women to be inferior, useless, and beneath them?
and then on top of that black men created laws to subjugate black women?
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right but we're black people b. so intraracially speaking you actually believe that black men have historically deemed black women to be inferior, useless, and beneath them?
and then on top of that black men created laws to subjugate black women?
Naw he ain't and what he said is true! bytch ass hater disease flows through a lot of cats on this website. Seen it all in my career. Offer a cat job and advice to improve his financial well being and a fair share of those cats will hate you for it!
KS might be a bit zesty but his points are valid! Cats have to look in the mirror and ask why they suck at life. Why are they 30 plus and have not figured out this thing the game of life! A lot of cats fall on here fall into that category. Cats can call him zesty all they want.
But it's late in the game and all they have to do is look up at the score on the game clock and they can they are losing at the game called life! KS is pointing this out.
I think all men in all cultures have struggled with thinking women are inferior, useless or beneath them. Traditionally, African cultures have had healthier understandings of gender roles in spite of a few . Many of our historical cultures had matriarchies and entire lineages of queens. Birth control actually originated in ancient Egypt and they were one of the most progressive societies in the ancient world. Many ancient West African kingdoms had entire female business guilds and I won’t even get into the Kandakes in East African kingdom of Kush.
Actually, a similar pattern can even be seen in ancient middle Eastern culture prior to Judeo-Christian and Islamic influence. Same can be seen in ancient Asian cultures, and Indigenous cultures as well. Contrary to popular belief, the earliest ancient societies were highly respectful of women and egalitarian. We came to this “get back in the kitchen, bytches is useless shyt” relatively late in the history of humanity. Why? Bc the might is right paradigm isn’t sustainable. I dunno why we too stubborn or stupid to see that.
Europeans were primarily the ones who struggled with gender issues because they had strong gay cultures in Ancient Greece and Rome and in nomadic cultures. A little of that trickled into Christianity with the elimination of the feminine divine and emphasis on father/son/holy spirit. Once these religions spread, the cultures they influenced became increasingly unhealthy in their gender relations.
The extent to which we as a people have been forcefully inducted into white people’s flawed latent homosexual “Iz da man, I’m better” gender relationships means that black men and blank women picked up many of those unhealthy ideas. Black males are the most progressive of all races imo but still struggle in some areas and several decades of misogyny in hip hop, glorification of pimp culture, fukk deez bytches culture hasn’t helped.
As for the last statement about creating laws, you don’t have to be a ruler or have absolute power to exert control over others, oppress them, attack them, mistreat them, hold toxic ideas about them which negatively influence your relationship with them. Anybody can bully so the idea that black men need the same level of power that white men have before they can be held accountable for some of the harmful attitudes they have towards their own women is ridiculous. Power is relative. I’m not the president of the U.S. I have virtually no power, but if I have children, does that preclude me from having the ability to abuse them?
Similarly, blk women are one of the most powerless groups in America but some of their behaviors contribute to the oppression of themselves and blk men.
So I never understood that line of reasoning. In fact in some cases, lack of access to power creates the need in some to abuse others.
So yeah. There are some Blk men who absolutely have bought into harmful ideas about their own women and adopted white people’s issues and some have viewed abuse of their own women as a stepping stone to success in a white world. Kinda like Heaven Scamuels. Nothing is more popular than making a blk chick cry. It’s like a right of passage for fame in Hollywood.No dark butts! Amirite
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It’s crazy because the reason he’s so famous is because of the imbalance over the years in favor of women. Many men have the “ let’s just shut up to keep the peace “ mindset. But its only a bandaid to relationship problems. Years of Tyler perry, talk shows, constantly saying black men are colorist, sexist, cheat, abuse, and go to jail and all women need to know their worth and level up media content has run its course. Eventually this was gonna happen.
You would’ve never heard this 5 years ago except maybe zo Williams Corey Holcomb and old Patrice O’Neal videos.
Kevin Samuels contradicts himself sometimes and can be over the top but his advice is solid and holds up long term. Lose weight, get therapy, learn to be an asset to a mans life, be inspirational and supportive to get wifed up or at least increase the quality of men you date.
A lot of women live in a fantasy and part of making improvements in your life is to face the truth. A lot of women need to face the truth before they can truly level up. Men usually get hit with truth much earlier in life.
even as a man in my 30s I’ve learned a few things from watching his content.
You would’ve never heard this 5 years ago except maybe zo Williams Corey Holcomb and old Patrice O’Neal videos.
Kevin Samuels contradicts himself sometimes and can be over the top but his advice is solid and holds up long term. Lose weight, get therapy, learn to be an asset to a mans life, be inspirational and supportive to get wifed up or at least increase the quality of men you date.
A lot of women live in a fantasy and part of making improvements in your life is to face the truth. A lot of women need to face the truth before they can truly level up. Men usually get hit with truth much earlier in life.
even as a man in my 30s I’ve learned a few things from watching his content.
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I can't wait. The one thing I find so interesting about this shyt is KS is a legitimate sales/debate breh.
That's literally his lane. I've yet to hear him lose a debate about anything. He may not have "won" but he's never lost on making his point.
Mainstream sensational media doesn't seem to stand a chance putting him on any interview platform cuz breh will smoke it out
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His haters on IG says he controls and manipulates young black women and talks over and cuts off the older black women who real life experiences to back up their viewpoints. That isn't true. Kevin has given great advice to older black women and he has cut off young black women.
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true plus we always say black men need to get on the same page and pull together. but then you also get alot of people who say you a fatherless nikka when they think black are on one accord. its weird. even though i dont think listening to kevin/tariq or any of these youtube dudes are gonna start a revolution.lol
white males dont face this criticism as much. its looked as normal for them to be on the same page whether right or wrong.