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One of my biggest takeaways from his content is that the old trope that women are great communicators is pure garbage

Once you see the pattern you can’t unsee it. Everything is shifty. Vague. Unable to be pinned down or defined. When that does not work the changing of the subject or asking a question instead of answering. Or crude insults.


Kevin’s ability to immediately sniff it out and give no wiggle room for bullshyt really had me thinking. Women are very poor communicators. They talk alot but once you ask 3 or 4 questions deep their horseshyt tends to fall apart fairly easily
I agree with everything else but the bolded is spot on. I use to think I was crazy when I grew up talking to my homegirls. As I got older I realized they were almost always on some bullshyt:laff:
 

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This is wrong. Anyone living in the north east area can attest to this.


White, asian, and Latina professional women stay thotting it up into their 30s
Yeah but they still figure out not be baby mommas, as they are married more often than Black women. White is the majority so obviously they will be more baby mommas, but black American women lead the way as single parents more than any other minority. It's really a shyt show.
 

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Nah, he was right. When you talk about dating modern American women, your money has to do a lot of talking. Just the way it is.

70k can't provide you a lifestyle that can attract you a decent woman that will whole-heartly submit to you, unless you in a small town or poor town.

Deep down most women don't want to work or feel like they have to work for ever. For them to truly eel safe with you, you have to be able to take care of everything if she's falls. She may continue to work, but she would love to have that failsafe option to not have to if it came down to it.
Real shyt here...a lot of modern men don't understand how women want a full provider. Some divestors who found a white or non black man to pay all the bills feels that black men are too much into the 50/50 relationship shyt and all we provide is struggle love.

Women not gonna fully submit if they gotta provide as well.
 

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Real shyt here...a lot of modern men don't understand how women want a full provider. Some divestors who found a white or non black man to pay all the bills feels that black men are too much into the 50/50 relationship shyt and all we provide is struggle love.

Women not gonna fully submit if they gotta provide as well.


I think most men have no problem paying for everything but that attitude and entitlement is a huge turnoff. Don’t tell me what you’re not gonna do.

“ I’ll never act right for a man who won’t pay for everything”. You don’t want your woman to struggle but you don’t want a stripper/customer relationship where she waits for you to put the money on the table before the clothes come off. Lol
 

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I think most men have no problem paying for everything but that attitude and entitlement is a huge turnoff. Don’t tell me what you’re not gonna do.

“ I’ll never act right for a man who won’t pay for everything”. You don’t want your woman to struggle but you don’t want a stripper/customer relationship where she waits for you to put the money on the table before the clothes come off. Lol
I agree with last paragraph but some men simply can't pay for everything. Every man doesn't make 6 figs like men on this site claim to be (everyone act like they are 6 figs/6 certs/6 ft+/6 pack/6+ inches). Some men don't make enough to be a 100% provider.
 

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I agree with everything else but the bolded is spot on. I use to think I was crazy when I grew up talking to my homegirls. As I got older I realized they were almost always on some bullshyt:laff:
It damn near gets annoying having convo if it isnt about something happing in the present or elementary pop culture.
 

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I agree with last paragraph but some men simply can't pay for everything. Every man doesn't make 6 figs like men on this site claim to be (everyone act like they are 6 figs/6 certs/6 ft+/6 pack/6+ inches). Some men don't make enough to be a 100% provider.

Why are we talking about every man when it comes to HVM.

We have a participation trophy culture where people do not want to accept classism is real no matter how much they fight it.
 

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One thing I never agreed with kevin samuels on was working those 60+ hour work weeks. I said you’ll work yourself into a early grave doing that shyt. You should use your time as effectively as possible but that Red Bull sleep 4 hours a day grind 24/7 will kill you. I also realized this busting my ass in the military.

I learned that from talking to older black men who did nothing but work and provide for their families in the 80s and 90s. Most of them just felt like a walking atm to their wives and even kids. Other than the once a year vacation to Disney world many black men worked and dealt with a lot of bullshyt without much appreciation.

Work smarter, use time effectively, and know what’s the end game for all this work you are doing.
Hard to do depending on what job you have. I fukking hated those 60 hour work weeks in accounting. I switched to being a Treasurer and I can't fukking believe the difference. I never work late and it's less work, but I get paid 20k more. I have two full time remote jobs and rarely go over 40 hours a week.

I encourage all black men if they don't open their own business to find a job that pays great with less stress. Brothers out there making all this money and can't enjoy it because they work all the time. fukk that shyt two times! :pachaha:
 

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The biggest thing I like about Kevin

He never let go on questioning these broads like these Kendra Gs and other copycats

He be like

Kevin: do have kids?

Women: yes

Kevin: how many 2,3,4, etc

Women: 3 by 3 different men

Kevin::francis::camby: there’s no hope for u, why u didn’t married any of the other baby daddies

Women: they was no good and I was young at the time

Kevin: u was 23 not 13,15 years old.. that wasn’t young u a grown adult. Also u ok with having kids without marriage

Women: huh umm huh

Kevin: mam.. do your baby daddies make over $100k?

Women: no

Kevin: I’m sorry to tell u , no man who’s making over 100k, let alone 60k is looking for a woman with 3 kids by 3 different men and u didn’t require a ring before u gave them a baby

KEVIN BE NAILING THAT shyt
Yes this is the perfect script he would say every time. They hated it because accountability and the truth is like kryptonite to the majority of modern American Black Women. Like that old bitter bytch Vivica Fox happy that he died. Her life is a train wreck.
 
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