Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[HARLEM AL]

Breh, I have a question:

What is a provider? I hear women say that they want a man who can provide. What does that really mean and can you define it without saying cliche statements.

Is being a provider based on gender, meaning I never hear women who are gay/bi dating other women ask their other women to be providers, the provider tag seems to always be placed on men.

When did this statement become the go to saying in our community? Did our grandmothers, great-grandmothers say that they were looking for providers?


I ask a few ladies, what is it meant when they say that they want a man to be the provider, they stated that, the man should provide stability, protection and take care of the bills. the cliche answers.

Who determines who is the provider was my follow-up question, what qualifies this man as a provider? I got crickets, a bunch of cliche statements, pretty much saying that the man has to provide protection, stability, and take care of the bills

Then I asked, can a woman be a provider? and when does a man stop being a provider? They stated, yea a woman can provide, then I asked, why you never hear men say that they are looking for a woman to provide then? I got the "dayum I never thought about it in that way "laugh" that chick do when they don't have an answer or seem to be stuck, then the whole "what"
"what you talking about" then I repeated what the chicks said, you said that women can be providers, and I asked you why is it that men state that they want a woman to provide?

Again, giggles and laughs, then I asked, if two women date each other, both are fems, who is the provider in the relationship? Lol, at this point, I got the nonsense answer, well, they both can be providers, then I asked, what are they providing, I went back to my original question, what are both providing? Can they measure that in the relationship.


I then went straight to the gut, why can't women just say that they want a man to make more money than them, and to fund the lifestyle that they see others having. Will it come as them being gold diggers, so placing the "provider" tag on the request and want lessens the gold-digging aspect? or is it just a cliche statement/cool to say that you want a provider?

Again what the hell is a provider

Being a provider means paying for everything and she keeps her money to do whatever the fukk they want with their money. And the kicker is, its only for men to do.

And dont get it twisted some chicks are gay for play. Them Dike chicks are some of the biggest tricks known to man. The problem is a lot of them are possessive as shyt lmaooooo

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

To answer your question in a forthcoming way
Men have always been seen as the “provider”
We can take it back to the cave man era(if those studies are true)
As men we are innately drawn to making sure the people we love are taken care of
But on the flip side (and to think outside the box)
Many ideals and traditions we hold dear today were all marketing schemes sold to us by companies
Ie: Debeers
So one could reckon that “provider” mentality is a social construct like everything else
Just like how people redefined chivalry and it’s true meaning
There’s also a scripture about this(I could be wrong it’s been eons since I read whatever edition bible we are on)
Created as a social guideline to keep the masses in check
One could even argue it’s a tenet to capitalism/consumerism
We have always seen that men went off to work/war
Women stayed home to nurture and teach
Then feminism/women’s suffrage was introduce
Now every rational man is for women having their own autonomy and freedoms
Nobody is against this but the blatant contradictions/picking and choosing is where most men get
Full circle your argument about who is a “provider”
You want your own money and ability to make decisions until it comes to your own pockets
So your POV would be correct in assessment
We are living in an entirely different world with blurred gender roles
Why not get rid of them period
The caveat is our natures won’t allow it
We still have animal dna in our bodies
No matter what anybody says
Science will always prevail rational thinking
The male species will always instinctively want to protect and provide
We can’t run from that cross we bear
We can try and try but if it’s for people we really care about than it is what it is

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Breh, I have a question:

What is a provider? I hear women say that they want a man who can provide.

For modern day women it's a human ATM, no debit card required to withdraw funds.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

As soon as I hear "alternative lifestyle" ...

Spoiler

 

[Ahadi]

Being a provider means paying for everything and she keeps her money to do whatever the fukk they want with their money. And the kicker is, its only for men to do.

And dont get it twisted some chicks are gay for play. Them Dike chicks are some of the biggest tricks known to man. The problem is a lot of them are possessive as shyt lmaooooo

Yup.

The previous generation of women told em.

“Always keep your stash, cause he can just up and leave you”

Which is why in my dynamic, she’s gona be contributing something. Stocks, investments, whatever. Not for girls trips, or other BS.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Yup.

The previous generation of women told em.

“Always keep your stash, cause he can just up and leave you”

Which is why in my dynamic, she’s gona be contributing something. Stocks, investments, whatever. Not for girls trips, or other BS.

Which is funny but thats exactly what they do. Most of the time its the woman that leaves.

 

[richaveli83]

Only manosphere nikka I watch now is oshay if he’s in my suggestions…otherwise I don’t watch kev and more unless he doing mens week.

I don’t consider the lead attorney manosphere but I watch him heavy tho

Man I really wish he would do men's week at least once a month or men's night once a week.

 

[richaveli83]

Another finesser sexologist, but her angle is promoting alternative lifestyles for herself and women with a simp husband. She’s 35 and he’s 28.



Kev might be using his money to book these ppl instead of paying for production.

Edit:

She made a vid about colorism issues with Black Panther. GTFO

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I'll tell you brehs something. I had the opportunity to travel to Sousa, Dominican Republic this past weekend and I am here to tell all you brehs, GO OVER THERE.

I had the time of my life, experienced some great food and great women, very peaceful and relaxing. The thing that I brought back with me, yes, the women are over there "working" and it's many of them, from the clerks in the grocery stores, the bank tellers, waitress at the restaurants, regular everyday women etc, you can pretty much have any woman at your leisure that you want, but the thing that separated them from the women over here was their femininity, cooperation, gentleness. Yea they were working per say, but not at any time I felt rushed, ran into any attitude, stuck-up-ness, entitlement, none of that was present, nor did I see a fat out of shape woman over there, if I had to say, I'd say maybe 2. I was waited on, I was the 'center' of attention.

I say all this to say that I got the sense of how your Kevin Durants, your P.Diddys, Futures, the James Hardens and many other brehs that have that status over here in the West, are able to pick and deal with whatever kind of woman that they want, that they don't have to put up with the nonsense that many Western women carry, and if they do run into a woman with attitude or a woman who is not cooperating, they can dismiss that woman and get another one that's badder and who is willing to listen. That peace or aura or peace that I experienced over there was amazing.
I get it.

No games being played with dealing with the women there, I didn't have to try and get the women over there to like me (I am an ok looking dude, which helped), but none of that was done over there, and again, I know they are "workers" but just cutting through all the BS, red tape, was something I had never experienced and brehs, that shyt is a stress reliever to be able to get the woman that you want without jumping through hoops.

It was at times, and so simple, Me just walking, and seeing a beautiful woman that caught my attention, waving the woman over to come to me, she came, baddie, nothing under an 8, pulling my phone out and asking them to put their name and number in my phone, and them texting me that they wanna spend time with me.
I didn't have to hold long conversations, I didn't have to go on 2-3 dates or any of that nonsense to get what I wanted, and then when I got tired of the woman or if I saw another woman that I wanted, I could go and get/obtain her for my own pleasure.

It was a situation where another breh that was out there, we are in a restaurant, the breh is sitting a table across from me, he's with a baddie, baddie, (I wanted her) she was rubbing on his shoulders gently, not on some worship shyt, but just appreciative of him and that he picked her to spend time with, translating the information in English for the breh, she poured his water glass, kept it filled, wiped his mouth when he had crumbs around it, handed him napkins, he would tell her what he wanted from the waiter, she translated the info in Spanish.

Now I'm sitting there just smiling ear to ear, with joy, seeing the peace on the breh face, saying to myself, that dude may not ever get this at his own home back in the WEST, but he's getting it now. I'm happy for breh.
I got up and went over and gave the breh a dap and went back to my table to enjoy my meal and company I had with me.

Brehs I say all that to say again, Do yourself a favor and go there and experience that peace.

I think that trip has really hurt me in a way, because I know that peace can be achieved. A breh that posted, said he has gotten it with his wife, peace to you breh. brehs can get it over here, but you have to have patience

Even if it's for a weekend or 4 days, that peace and that experience is worth it. I met many brehs, older and middle age brehs, who said that they take trips there 4-9 times out a year.

 

[Rayzah]

I'll tell you brehs something. I had the opportunity to travel to Sousa, Dominican Republic this past weekend and I am here to tell all you brehs, GO OVER THERE.

I had the time of my life, experienced some great food and great women, very peaceful and relaxing. The thing that I brought back with me, yes, the women are over there "working" and it's many of them, from the clerks in the grocery stores, the bank tellers, waitress at the restaurants, regular everyday women etc, you can pretty much have any woman at your leisure that you want, but the thing that separated them from the women over here was their femininity, cooperation, gentleness. Yea they were working per say, but not at any time I felt rushed, ran into any attitude, stuck-up-ness, entitlement, none of that was present, nor did I see a fat out of shape woman over there, if I had to say, I'd say maybe 2. I was waited on, I was the 'center' of attention.

I say all this to say that I got the sense of how your Kevin Durants, your P.Diddys, Futures, the James Hardens and many other brehs that have that status over here in the West, are able to pick and deal with whatever kind of woman that they want, that they don't have to put up with the nonsense that many Western women carry, and if they do run into a woman with attitude or a woman who is not cooperating, they can dismiss that woman and get another one that's badder and who is willing to listen. That peace or aura or peace that I experienced over there was amazing.
I get it.

No games being played with dealing with the women there, I didn't have to try and get the women over there to like me (I am an ok looking dude, which helped), but none of that was done over there, and again, I know they are "workers" but just cutting through all the BS, red tape, was something I had never experienced and brehs, that shyt is a stress reliever to be able to get the woman that you want without jumping through hoops.

It was at times, and so simple, Me just walking, and seeing a beautiful woman that caught my attention, waving the woman over to come to me, she came, baddie, nothing under an 8, pulling my phone out and asking them to put their name and number in my phone, and them texting me that they wanna spend time with me.
I didn't have to hold long conversations, I didn't have to go on 2-3 dates or any of that nonsense to get what I wanted, and then when I got tired of the woman or if I saw another woman that I wanted, I could go and get/obtain her for my own pleasure.

It was a situation where another breh that was out there, we are in a restaurant, the breh is sitting a table across from me, he's with a baddie, baddie, (I wanted her) she was rubbing on his shoulders gently, not on some worship shyt, but just appreciative of him and that he picked her to spend time with, translating the information in English for the breh, she poured his water glass, kept it filled, wiped his mouth when he had crumbs around it, handed him napkins, he would tell her what he wanted from the waiter, she translated the info in Spanish.

Now I'm sitting there just smiling ear to ear, with joy, seeing the peace on the breh face, saying to myself, that dude may not ever get this at his own home back in the WEST, but he's getting it now. I'm happy for breh.
I got up and went over and gave the breh a dap and went back to my table to enjoy my meal and company I had with me.

Brehs I say all that to say again, Do yourself a favor and go there and experience that peace.

I think that trip has really hurt me in a way, because I know that peace can be achieved. A breh that posted, said he has gotten it with his wife, peace to you breh. brehs can get it over here, but you have to have patience

Even if it's for a weekend or 4 days, that peace and that experience is worth it. I met many brehs, older and middle age brehs, who said that they take trips there 4-9 times out a year.

If you ever make it to rio or Colombia then you will never come back

 

[HARLEM AL]

I'll tell you brehs something. I had the opportunity to travel to Sousa, Dominican Republic this past weekend and I am here to tell all you brehs, GO OVER THERE.

I had the time of my life, experienced some great food and great women, very peaceful and relaxing. The thing that I brought back with me, yes, the women are over there "working" and it's many of them, from the clerks in the grocery stores, the bank tellers, waitress at the restaurants, regular everyday women etc, you can pretty much have any woman at your leisure that you want, but the thing that separated them from the women over here was their femininity, cooperation, gentleness. Yea they were working per say, but not at any time I felt rushed, ran into any attitude, stuck-up-ness, entitlement, none of that was present, nor did I see a fat out of shape woman over there, if I had to say, I'd say maybe 2. I was waited on, I was the 'center' of attention.

I say all this to say that I got the sense of how your Kevin Durants, your P.Diddys, Futures, the James Hardens and many other brehs that have that status over here in the West, are able to pick and deal with whatever kind of woman that they want, that they don't have to put up with the nonsense that many Western women carry, and if they do run into a woman with attitude or a woman who is not cooperating, they can dismiss that woman and get another one that's badder and who is willing to listen. That peace or aura or peace that I experienced over there was amazing.
I get it.

No games being played with dealing with the women there, I didn't have to try and get the women over there to like me (I am an ok looking dude, which helped), but none of that was done over there, and again, I know they are "workers" but just cutting through all the BS, red tape, was something I had never experienced and brehs, that shyt is a stress reliever to be able to get the woman that you want without jumping through hoops.

It was at times, and so simple, Me just walking, and seeing a beautiful woman that caught my attention, waving the woman over to come to me, she came, baddie, nothing under an 8, pulling my phone out and asking them to put their name and number in my phone, and them texting me that they wanna spend time with me.
I didn't have to hold long conversations, I didn't have to go on 2-3 dates or any of that nonsense to get what I wanted, and then when I got tired of the woman or if I saw another woman that I wanted, I could go and get/obtain her for my own pleasure.

It was a situation where another breh that was out there, we are in a restaurant, the breh is sitting a table across from me, he's with a baddie, baddie, (I wanted her) she was rubbing on his shoulders gently, not on some worship shyt, but just appreciative of him and that he picked her to spend time with, translating the information in English for the breh, she poured his water glass, kept it filled, wiped his mouth when he had crumbs around it, handed him napkins, he would tell her what he wanted from the waiter, she translated the info in Spanish.

Now I'm sitting there just smiling ear to ear, with joy, seeing the peace on the breh face, saying to myself, that dude may not ever get this at his own home back in the WEST, but he's getting it now. I'm happy for breh.
I got up and went over and gave the breh a dap and went back to my table to enjoy my meal and company I had with me.

Brehs I say all that to say again, Do yourself a favor and go there and experience that peace.

I think that trip has really hurt me in a way, because I know that peace can be achieved. A breh that posted, said he has gotten it with his wife, peace to you breh. brehs can get it over here, but you have to have patience

Even if it's for a weekend or 4 days, that peace and that experience is worth it. I met many brehs, older and middle age brehs, who said that they take trips there 4-9 times out a year.

I was in Puerto Plata last week. I had the pleasure of chaperoning a few 24-26 year old dudes with my Homie. Pure fukkery lmaooooo. But that aside shyt was beautiful and I know exactly what you are talking about.

 

[SNG]

I'll tell you brehs something. I had the opportunity to travel to Sousa, Dominican Republic this past weekend and I am here to tell all you brehs, GO OVER THERE.

I had the time of my life, experienced some great food and great women, very peaceful and relaxing. The thing that I brought back with me, yes, the women are over there "working" and it's many of them, from the clerks in the grocery stores, the bank tellers, waitress at the restaurants, regular everyday women etc, you can pretty much have any woman at your leisure that you want, but the thing that separated them from the women over here was their femininity, cooperation, gentleness. Yea they were working per say, but not at any time I felt rushed, ran into any attitude, stuck-up-ness, entitlement, none of that was present, nor did I see a fat out of shape woman over there, if I had to say, I'd say maybe 2. I was waited on, I was the 'center' of attention.

I say all this to say that I got the sense of how your Kevin Durants, your P.Diddys, Futures, the James Hardens and many other brehs that have that status over here in the West, are able to pick and deal with whatever kind of woman that they want, that they don't have to put up with the nonsense that many Western women carry, and if they do run into a woman with attitude or a woman who is not cooperating, they can dismiss that woman and get another one that's badder and who is willing to listen. That peace or aura or peace that I experienced over there was amazing.
I get it.

No games being played with dealing with the women there, I didn't have to try and get the women over there to like me (I am an ok looking dude, which helped), but none of that was done over there, and again, I know they are "workers" but just cutting through all the BS, red tape, was something I had never experienced and brehs, that shyt is a stress reliever to be able to get the woman that you want without jumping through hoops.

It was at times, and so simple, Me just walking, and seeing a beautiful woman that caught my attention, waving the woman over to come to me, she came, baddie, nothing under an 8, pulling my phone out and asking them to put their name and number in my phone, and them texting me that they wanna spend time with me.
I didn't have to hold long conversations, I didn't have to go on 2-3 dates or any of that nonsense to get what I wanted, and then when I got tired of the woman or if I saw another woman that I wanted, I could go and get/obtain her for my own pleasure.

It was a situation where another breh that was out there, we are in a restaurant, the breh is sitting a table across from me, he's with a baddie, baddie, (I wanted her) she was rubbing on his shoulders gently, not on some worship shyt, but just appreciative of him and that he picked her to spend time with, translating the information in English for the breh, she poured his water glass, kept it filled, wiped his mouth when he had crumbs around it, handed him napkins, he would tell her what he wanted from the waiter, she translated the info in Spanish.

Now I'm sitting there just smiling ear to ear, with joy, seeing the peace on the breh face, saying to myself, that dude may not ever get this at his own home back in the WEST, but he's getting it now. I'm happy for breh.
I got up and went over and gave the breh a dap and went back to my table to enjoy my meal and company I had with me.

Brehs I say all that to say again, Do yourself a favor and go there and experience that peace.

I think that trip has really hurt me in a way, because I know that peace can be achieved. A breh that posted, said he has gotten it with his wife, peace to you breh. brehs can get it over here, but you have to have patience

Even if it's for a weekend or 4 days, that peace and that experience is worth it. I met many brehs, older and middle age brehs, who said that they take trips there 4-9 times out a year.

I went there a few years back and within less then 24hrs I smashed a dominican chick at the resort (no pay) It was a a student that was in culinery class from the resort. Dominican is paradise for alot of nikkaz and you know how women feel when they get approached by men. Me and my boy met these two girls that were from Canada and we had to get them to pretend to be our girlfriends just so these women wouldn't pull up. Also we had a driver down there so we asked him to take as to club to go dancing and this nikka ended up taking us to a strip club. Me and my homie were the only two nikkaz in there and like 10 chicks swarmed us touching my face grabbing my dikk I was like ok we gotta get the fukk outta here nikka felt violated. All the chicks were fine ass shyt though. p*ssy is cheap there too if you want to pay nikka could have gotten into a threesome for 70$ USD. But at my resort you couldn't bring back locals. Otherwise that would have been deal of the century. If you on some incel shyt I highly advise to take a trip down there.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I was in Puerto Plata last week. I had the pleasure of chaperoning a few 24-26 year old dudes with my Homie. Pure fukkery lmaooooo. But that aside shyt was beautiful and I know exactly what you are talking about.

I bet it was pure fukkery lmaooo, yea breh it's beautiful

 

[NO-BadAzz]

I went there a few years back and within less then 24hrs I smashed a dominican chick at the resort (no pay) It was a a student that was in culinery class from the resort. Dominican is paradise for alot of nikkaz and you know how women feel when they get approached by men. Me and my boy met these two girls that were from Canada and we had to get them to pretend to be our girlfriends just so these women wouldn't pull up. Also we had a driver down there so we asked him to take as to club to go dancing and this nikka ended up taking us to a strip club. Me and my homie were the only two nikkaz in there and like 10 chicks swarmed us touching my face grabbing my dikk I was like ok we gotta get the fukk outta here nikka felt violated. All the chicks were fine ass shyt though. p*ssy is cheap there too if you want to pay nikka could have gotten into a threesome for 70$ USD. But at my resort you couldn't bring back locals. Otherwise that would have been deal of the century. If you on some incel shyt I highly advise to take a trip down there.

I didn't get a chance to even experience the beach nor any of the clubs


I just went to that big ass cafeteria place along the strip, that has the TVs, and long table set up on the outside of the place


It was women on top of women there

 

[NO-BadAzz]

If you ever make it to rio or Colombia then you will never come back

Which place is the best out of the 3? Sousa, Rio, or Colombia?