Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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This is sad, but it’s the truth.

Man, the more I have conversations with my married father the more grim it starts to become for me. My father recently told me of how she tried to take things in her own hands when it came to my baby brother, and disregard everything he was trying to teach. Went and got him a credit card, and he was trying to shield my brother from that and have him build his credit. What ended up happening was he had to bail the both of them out and pay to fix shyt. He told me how at that moment he just wanted to leave the house and never return. That opened up my eyes a ton, so I felt you when you said sane black men end up getting driven to insanity. Man, I don’t want that, but society has made it to where you can’t tell people anything.

He has protected my mother from all of what this world brings, and she tried to go against it because she felt bad for my brother and wanted him to have some spending money

the biggest thing is seeing how sooooo many Black men have died early working themselves to literal death for folks who forget them once the life insurance check clears. I personally said enough is enough. I rather it all burn down on my terms than to not learn from what the men before me went through. Folks keep thinking this is about getting sex and incels and nah, them cats are non factors. The brehs who have their ish together and who could literally get married within a month are the ones saying it aint even worth it. We dealing with folks tooooo damaged PLUS laws that are insane. I joked about it but we damn near entering the phase where well to do men will just get surrogates like Ronaldo for kids and just maintain girlfriends.
 

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Catching up, watching the IG show, that chick that's going back to 'active duty' the 22 year old is so sad, such a sad individual. All men, should stay away from her. Every man should avoid this lady, nothing positive is going to be added to a man's life. Watching that shyt was just sad to the core.

The Louisiana chick, 3 kids, 3 different fathers, smh. Talking about she doesn't want to settle for middle class, smh. Parents were middle class, she grew up in this middle class life-style, but that's not good enough for her. 2 of her children fathers are bums in her words, don't know what's going on with that situation, smh, the other one is doing ok, apparently, Woman, aint nothing upper class about you, your mind is fukked up. People think networking with other folks will bring them instant money. That's another thing that's trendy in our black community, this whole "networking" slogan.

"networking" this shyt is crippling our community. When do they think "networking" pays off? I just be smh when I hear women, men too, speak that whole "get out there and network" that shyt is so crippling. I hate hearing that shyt.


This some sad ass shyt that we are seeing. Just sad

I bolded the part I did because that is EXACTLY how New Orleans women are.

The wild thing is during the 80s and early 90s it was toooooooons of God fearing respectable blue collar brehs with no kids, trying to step in and be step dads to women who only used them for their utility. So many women I've been with had stories of some cool breh that would come around when they were kids and wanted to move then and their mom in and so and so, and mom would always self sabotage things. We are at the point of no return, this is why I'm like brehs need to protect themselves and brace for what is up ahead because we are in the time of judgement now for decisions made. Instead of choosing their man they choose the devil and this is the result. Not even trying to go on a religious tangent but those are the best analogies I can put towards what we are up against.

You notice all these fake femininity coaches are all single? lol We are at the point of no return.

Super facts. nothing to add here.

the biggest thing is seeing how sooooo many Black men have died early working themselves to literal death for folks who forget them once the life insurance check clears. I personally said enough is enough. I rather it all burn down on my terms than to not learn from what the men before me went through. Folks keep thinking this is about getting sex and incels and nah, them cats are non factors. The brehs who have their ish together and who could literally get married within a month are the ones saying it aint even worth it. We dealing with folks tooooo damaged PLUS laws that are insane. I joked about it but we damn near entering the phase where well to do men will just get surrogates like Ronaldo for kids and just maintain girlfriends.

bruh. like, soon as they get the benefits, the pension or inheritance they don't care about us anymore. I never hear BW speak positively or lovingly about their husbands and that bothers me.
 

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Trying to get black men and women married
Is what the community needs
Telling women to get therapy
Is what the community needs
Asking women why they don’t want blue collared men of character(which was good for their mommas, aunties, grandmas and big mommas)
Is what the community needs
Trying to unlearn all the toxic shyt both men and women learned about relationships from previous generations
Is what the community needs
Asking women to be fit
Is what the community needs
Getting women to understand it’s a lonely existence out here past a certain age
Them degrees will not keep her warm, protect her or her children
Is what the community needs
A black woman was saying everything he was saying in the 80s and 90s
And the community called her crazy
Even In Living Color made fun of her
Ms.Iyanla tried(sensational or not) to help black women
And she gave up because they came for her throat
Monique
Same thing
So people telling the truth to woman is that dangerous that you want people to negate the m safe
Sir, respectfully you are full of shyt
You are just like the predator weirdo nikkas and goofy bytches that permeate this forum
You only want it one way
All the onus on men which he had years of shows getting in their ass
He sticks up for black women when nonblacks try to pull that culture shyt(outside that Arab bytch)
All your posts are disingenuous and more hypocritical than KS
This really tells me none of you goofies have elders in your life
Or they hen picked bytch nikkas and emotional terrorist bytches that taught you to tuck tell and be a bytch nikka yourself
And if you are a woman
I feel sorry for you because when it starts getting real out here and you keep this man hate shyt going with the dumb shyt you typing
Ain’t no one going to save you
They will be worried about the women that actually love and need them
That’s the whole point of his show
When the bullets start flying
Famine hits
You ain’t going to have no one but yourself
People not going to stop to help you
It’s called self preservation
And women don’t get it
I wasn’t going to type a dissertation for your dumb ass
My apologies
But you really are a shyt poster
I just felt compelled to write before my daughter’s volleyball game
This forum really is trash
I’m cool on reading all this breh… I see the end tho because of my reply. This forum is trash because nikkaz like you follow low character men like him. Bottom line
 

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Trying to get black people married and caring about black relationships by going back and forth with bottom of the barrel women every night
:mjlol:

Kev is entertainment and nothing more, all them damn emotional rants breh be going on like kev is a savior for the black community.
These nikkaz are outside they fukkin minds
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I bolded the part I did because that is EXACTLY how New Orleans women are.



Super facts. nothing to add here.



bruh. like, soon as they get the benefits, the pension or inheritance they don't care about us anymore. I never hear BW speak positively or lovingly about their husbands and that bothers me.

you always hear folks talk about granny but never grand dad yet folks gathering for thanksgiving at (or selling) the house he built.
 

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Kevin Samuels exposed himself as a wealth whore "go a long to get along" corporate ass kisser type a while back with his comments about accept hairstyle for black men in corporate America. Of course a lot of what he says about women not accepting responsibility is true though.
 

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Kevin Samuels exposed himself as a wealth whore "go a long to get along" corporate ass kisser type a while back with his comments about accept hairstyle for black men in corporate America. Of course a lot of what he says about women not accepting responsibility is true though.

See, if you want to get into the corporate world, you have to act like them and look like them. if a guy in sweats and a guy in a suit go to a bank for the same loan with the same background, the guy in the suit is getting the loan because he looks more serious and focused.
 

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See, if you want to get into the corporate world, you have to act like them and look like them. if a guy in sweats and a guy in a suit go to a bank for the same loan with the same background, the guy in the suit is getting the loan because he looks more serious and focused.

Gotta speak the language sometimes. A form of code switching.
 

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See, if you want to get into the corporate world, you have to act like them and look like them. if a guy in sweats and a guy in a suit go to a bank for the same loan with the same background, the guy in the suit is getting the loan because he looks more serious and focused.


Of course, but I'm sure all of us have encountered a older black person in corporate America that cares a little too much about cacs perceive us.



Kevin Samuels obviously is that type of guy.
 

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the biggest thing is seeing how sooooo many Black men have died early working themselves to literal death for folks who forget them once the life insurance check clears. I personally said enough is enough. I rather it all burn down on my terms than to not learn from what the men before me went through. Folks keep thinking this is about getting sex and incels and nah, them cats are non factors. The brehs who have their ish together and who could literally get married within a month are the ones saying it aint even worth it. We dealing with folks tooooo damaged PLUS laws that are insane. I joked about it but we damn near entering the phase where well to do men will just get surrogates like Ronaldo for kids and just maintain girlfriends.
Yea, I feel this. I tell ppl this, hell, I’ve even told my child’s mother and she’s acknowledged it; I could get married at any time I want. When you have your shyt together and got the resources, that isn’t hard. Getting sex or female companionship isn’t hard at all. It’s almost become a game. I want marriage, but I refuse to do it on anything but my terms. I know too many men who have been Superman, not get their appreciation and just due. That happy wife happy life shyt, nah, it ain’t going down like that. There will be some compromise or I’m not doing it at all, and I’m content with that lol

They be confused when they ask me what it is I want and I say peace and cooperation. They say they can provide that, but when I get to know them and ask questions, the actions don’t show that. I take myself out of the equation once I see that
 

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Yea, I feel this. I tell ppl this, hell, I’ve even told my child’s mother and she’s acknowledged it; I could get married at any time I want. When you have your shyt together and got the resources, that isn’t hard. Getting sex or female companionship isn’t hard at all. It’s almost become a game. I want marriage, but I refuse to do it on anything but my terms. I know too many men who have been Superman, not get their appreciation and just due. That happy wife happy life shyt, nah, it ain’t going down like that. There will be some compromise or I’m not doing it at all, and I’m content with that lol

They be confused when they ask me what it is I want and I say peace and cooperation. They say they can provide that, but when I get to know them and ask questions, the actions don’t show that. I take myself out of the equation once I see that

exactly lol. I used to be militant but man after seeing what Black men got for their sacrifices I'm just like man brothers need to do what makes them happy and on their terms. I want to see more black men genuinely happy opposed to living in a struggle in a world that doesn't love them. I've said it and others have said it but the only woman who will give you unconditional love is ya mama, and once she gone thats that. Nothing wrong with conditional love but Black men get held to the conditions yet our counterpart want no conditions lol, yet look at the divorce numbers (we get left for not meeting the conditions of our wife, yet often times we stuck around with our conditions not being met in order to keep the family in tact while being miserable).
 
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I was watching some of his IG live earlier with the woman with 3 kids, 3 different fathers. It's beyond me how a woman in her situation still has her head in the clouds. Talking about, "I wanna be a boss chick, be my own boss, live by the beach, retire at 60, make a lot of money, real estate this, real estate that, entrepreneur, online boutique, items coming in...." This is babble that you expect from a 21-28 year old with no kids.

It's like it still hasn't hit her yet. Woman, you have 3 kids from 3 different men. Your life is over. Your focus should be those kids, your focus should be giving them the most normal and loving upbringing you can possibly provide for them because god knows they have a fukked up family orientation. When those kids get older they will start to look at mommy funny style, like why we all look different and got different daddies? That's what you should be getting ready to explain to your kids when they get older.

Start looking for some average man that does construction and AC repairs and lock his ass down like your life depends on it! God dayumn. And she said, "I'm here to learn" woman, the Kevin Samuels IG live is not the place to learn. The place and time to learn was at 18-20 years old.

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exactly lol. I used to be militant but man after seeing what Black men got for their sacrifices I'm just like man brothers need to do what makes them happy and on their terms. I want to see more black men genuinely happy opposed to living in a struggle in a world that doesn't love them. I've said it and others have said it but the only woman who will give you unconditional love is ya mama, and once she gone thats that. Nothing wrong with conditional love but Black men get held to the conditions yet our counterpart want no conditions lol, yet look at the divorce numbers (we get left for not meeting the conditions of our wife, yet often times we stuck around with our conditions not being met in order to keep the family in tact while being miserable).
I know so many brehs our age, that I graduated with who have great positions, make great money, who are all doing the same. It just ain’t worth it now. Got the world at our fingertips, and it just doesn’t make sense to add on anything or anyone that’s going to disrupt that. Get money, build an empire, and try the marriage thing at a later time. If it doesn’t happen, it’s cool. That is one thing that some of us are taking from these young brehs. Choose happiness
 

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I was watching some of his IG live earlier with the woman with 3 kids, 3 different fathers. It's beyond me how a woman in her situation still has her head in the clouds. Talking about, "I wanna be a boss chick, be my own boss, live by the beach, retire at 60, make a lot of money, real estate this, real estate that, entrepreneur, online boutique, items coming in...." This is babble that you expect from a 21-28 year old with no kids.

It's like it still hasn't hit her yet. Woman, you have 3 kids from 3 different men. Your life is over. Your focus should be those kids, your focus should be giving them the most normal and loving upbringing you can possibly provide for them because god knows they have a fukked up family orientation. When those kids get older they will start to look at mommy funny style, like why we all look different and got different daddies? That's what you should be getting ready to explain to your kids when they get older.

Start looking for some average man that does construction and AC repairs and lock his ass down like your life depends on it! God dayumn. And she said, "I'm here to learn" woman, the Kevin Samuels IG live is not the place to learn. The place and time to learn was at 18-20 years old.

:why:

Again, this is how these new orleans women are. They will be anywhere from 25 to 40, with 2-4 kids, thinking that the world is their oyster. find you a decent breh, lock him down, and do everything you can to keep him and APPRECIATE HIM.

They don't wanna do that though. They want the celeb/social media lifestyle from a rapper/thug turned good who happens to be a millionaire. Not realizing if you take 100 women there MIGHT be 1 or 2 of them who are rich spoiled housewives and they're typically not 5'4 250 pounds.
 
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