some of us like fit women. Who you smash and who you marry especially if you want multiple kids are not the same. Hence the concept of a woman having “room to grow” into her post kid bodu
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some of us like fit women. Who you smash and who you marry especially if you want multiple kids are not the same. Hence the concept of a woman having “room to grow” into her post kid bodu
Brolic
High Value Poster
Most black women want to get married. The problem is they over estimate they’re SMV and they’re looking for a man who doesn’t exist, so they won’t get married.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
He went off on that Diva shorty. Saw it coming a mile away.
Context is king. That's by race and we're talking newlyweds.According to that link;
They are talking about 670,000 new marriages. Once you break it down by race and percentages we're talking tens of thousands of interracial marriage newlywed per race.
Overall,
Marriage looks a lot different today in many ways than in years past. As our nation becomes more racially and ethnically diverse, so are married couples.
The percentage of married-couple households that are interracial or interethnic grew across the United States from 7.4 to 10.2 percent from 2000 to 2012-2016. This change varied across states and counties and for specific interracial/interethnic combinations
Growth in Interracial and Interethnic Married-Couple Households
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70% of black women don't wanna be married is more ancedotal as that's the divorce rate for black women and also only about 25% of black women are married.
Krisrunner2049
Pretty boi CFO Squirrels Burgers KillaKwuads
KS is still around? Dumbass old nikka
Nigerianwonder
Superstar
Most women do overestimate their SMV. BUT most guys over estimate their value as a provider. Just look at all the guys in this thread that were patting themselves on the back cause they make 60k which is top 15 - 20% of black males like that means anything to women. While that's a great personal accomplishment it doesn't increase your value to women as a provider. Your wife would still need to work full time so you can have a basic middle class family lifestyle. You are not the prize or catch you think you are.
Cause from a woman's stand point you are not any better than a breh making 30 to 40k. She would still have to work full time if she dated a guy making that as well and the lifestyle from combined income would be the same as if she married a 60k breh. You can't expect a women to kiss your ass and worship the ground you walk on when she is working full time and just as hard as you. That treatment is for HVM and those can provide a middle class lifestyle on 1 income.
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
You just keep lying.....
TheOptimisticCynikal
All Star
Dudes will be better off to get in where they fit in, but at the same time, women gotta concede that it won't be many of them will get a second look by a HVM let alone cuffed. KS really be trying to communicate that to them, but they genuinely be asking him advice on how these men can accept their averageness
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
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And here ls the problem.Most think they deserve the top guy. And while that happens the guy that in their range doesnt stand a chance. Even if she gets with the average guy, she will make him suffer for what he is not.
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TheOptimisticCynikal
All Star
This is why I think KS is important for the overall discussion of relationships in the black community. I've literally seen dude ask countless times 'Whats so wrong with someone at your level' and they have no answer other than they feel they deserve more, and can't even explain why they feel they 'deserve' that
Edit: this is why I said in my earlier post he should bring more women on the show that are past that stage of expectancy and let women hear from fellow women why it's delusional.
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
And as long as they feel they deserve more it will never change.
This last episode
Lady: I’m a size 6
Kevin: how much did you weigh the last time you weighed yourself
Lady:160 pounds
*Oompa Loompa music plays*
lady: stop that Kevin lol
Kevin: I will do no such thing
Lady: I’m a size 6
Kevin: how much did you weigh the last time you weighed yourself
Lady:160 pounds
*Oompa Loompa music plays*
lady: stop that Kevin lol
Kevin: I will do no such thing
The 60k comes from the scenario I posted in here earlier where I asked dude what he would tell his son/nephew to do if he was making that and couldn't find a black woman to start a family with. Nobody answered the question an instead just started picking apart 60k and saying it wasn't enough to date average women blah blah blah etc...
People started adding all types of extras that weren't there until we got to the point where 60k is broke and you gotta holla at washed up single moms.
If a black man is making 60k and can’t find a black woman who has kept her weight in check and doesn’t have kids, he’s usually not going to fare better by branching out. No group desires black men more than black women.
But if your hypothetical situation was reality and not the typical case of a dude lowering his standards for a non black woman, then yes of course he should explore his options.
people should explore their options regardless. let’s just stop pretending “there ain’t no good black women out here” just so dudes can justify getting a non black woman.
No one is promoting anything.
If you think he should expand his options than that's all that has to be said.
it’s not all that has to be said
y’all are creating this alternate reality where black men can’t find black women so they HAVE to look elsewhere
that’s some stupid shyt and it’s just flat out false