Monday night show was great, just catching up. Women are scared to get married. They scream to the top of their lungs about marriage, saying that they want to be married but their action says different. Mindset is fukked up.
If you're dealing with a chick that you somewhat feel or don't feel maybe, just give her the run down on marriage and what you want if you're looking for that at the stage of your life, watch they freeze up and what I mean, ask them the time-frame that she needs to have in order for her to wanna get married. fukk with her head a bit. See how she looks at shyt from a 'practical stance' use logic, many don't, many live in a made-up Disney world.
Be direct. ask, how much time does she need or any woman needs to marry someone, if she is crushing on the man hard, falling in love with him. What is the proper time frame, that is needed before she or any woman decides to say I DO. In my talk I had with one, she said 18 months, 2 years.
I would have agreed with her back in my day, but now, after understanding how shyt work and how shyt was back in the day and how dating for 18 month -2 years is a waste of time if that woman is not following your program, (to me) I'm like, man that shyt is too long to be waiting to get married if things are in place with the right woman. It's too long to be in a situation where the woman is not on your program if we keeping it 100, 8 days should be the exit lol, smash and dash. Things that need to be in place for a 6-9 month proposal, should be, the woman mindset being involved with her dude is on some, submissive I'm everything that you will need and I'm going to give you everything that you want, or at least dayum near die trying to, with a smile, she's on HIS program, she listens, she's FIT, Kind, non-combative, etc, a woman who knows their place, 2 years? Nah a woman of this caliber is a 6-9 months snatch up if the woman is built like this. Of course you do your research on her and shyt, asked the right questions.
And what KS spoke in his monologue about these 'modern' women, these women are scared shytless of marriage, shyt is so true. They are scared to be married and have to live 'average' like how most of their parents and grandparents lived. They all believe that their husband is going to be some 6 figure husband. shyt is insane.
There's not too many 6 figure dudes accepting that mess. My barber's little brother made along with me, make good money, let his wife run him and their household.
My barber put him onto KS shows about 4 months ago, the lil brother started watching it, and then he started to put his foot down in his marriage, wasn't taking the goofy shyt that his wife was throwing at him.
shyt went left in his marriage. He was so deep into allowing his wife to do the little snarly shyt that she's been doing, with his sudden change, she started to rebel and shyt got crazy, to the point she went upside his head with a pot because he wouldn't do something she 'told' him to do, it really wasn't that, it was the built up anger that she had because of his sudden change in behavior from watching KS. She stole money out of his business bank account. She's doing all types of fukked up shyt as I am telling this story now, because the dude decided to be a dayum man and lay down law. She treated that dude like a teenage son of hers smh. Dude was miserable my barber said, now my barber said, even though he's going through what he's going through, he's still watching KS, said that he knows where he fukked up at and how the marriage that he dreamed of having turned into a nightmare. shyt started off fukked up.
He's in the process of getting out of the situation, my barber told me that they didn't come from that 'soft' shyt. Their dad, uncles all ran a tight ship in their household and their wives followed their lead, my barber said that these men told them this same shyt that KS is saying, my barber took in the information from his daddy and peoples, he's a big fan of KS, but the brother would always look at the shyt as some 'cave-man' shyt or immorally wrong. Lol smh. Bet his ass wish he can't take back those thoughts.
Barber said his little brother was in tears because he wasn't happy with how his marriage was going and he himself was the reason for it because he was letting his wife run the show. Dude was/is clearly the bread winner, started off as a 5 figure dude and became a 6 figure dude, that works at Exxon, wife was controlling him smh and she's a teacher making 31k a year Sad
Either you get with my program to be the wife that I want and need, or we just fukking until I get tired of you and your time, I'm not really taking you serious if you don't align with what I want, which I am getting to the point to not even entertaining these chicks that are not what I want, I'm not looking at being a boyfriend for 2 years, that just me. Been doing that shyt since I've been 19, after 2 years, shyt, aint no future of a marriage if I'm a bf for 2-5 years, we're either on borrowed time or you are the best that I got going on at the moment until I find something better, which is why I'm still here and it's an on and off situation maybe.
KS spoke on it, these chicks don't want marriage with an average life. Scared to death, Many are selfish as the
@Nigerianwonder posted. That selfish shyt is getting played out. Selfish chicks are meant to be fukked and thrown to the bushes. If she's not putting you first ALL the time, She aint the one.
That's what you reply with? We have the "option" of not accepting that. And second, do you really think they want that or are they just saying "fukk it" and taking what they can get? That's pretty much Kevin's whole point. Both sexes have the ability to set the standard they're willing to accept; but you need to accept the responsibility and have enough discipline to enforce that standard. If Black men wholly swore off overweight Black women, gym memberships would skyrocket. And if Black women were only offering the box to marriage minded men, Black men would improve themselves in kind. It's not a complicated formula, but people want to keep making excuses so they can be lazy. Kevin pointed this out last night and you just proved it along with a lot of these other posters over the past several pages.
You must be a troll. It can’t be half our fault.
this man streamed yesterday for almost 4 hours?