Leading by example.
Most women again naturally submit to a man who's courting them and dating with a purpose.
When you doing right, handling your business as to see a future and she follows your cues, she's already submitted.
You typically don't have to ask them.
I disagree with the idea that women will naturally submit, most women in our community are not going to
naturally submit, especially when you take
class background into consideration.
And the most important influence regarding a woman's belief system regarding relationship roles comes from what she learned from her parents, specifically her mother. The most
prevalent and
counterproductive daughter/mother dynamic in the community is the one between Black Baby Boomer mothers and their Gen-X/Millennial daughters, and these mothers often downplayed the value of relationships, cooperation, and engaged in self deprecation (if they were married).
Thus, implicitly or explicitly undermining their daughters ability to be lead by any man, even one who has the relative characteristics of being above average.
Further, Its one of the reasons Kevin brings up Mexican gender roles, to show that submission is etched in culture. As someone whose family comes from Latin America I know that female cooperation varies from country to country, an example would be the different gender roles prevalent among Dominicans vs Puerto Ricans here in NYC.
