richaveli83
Veteran
They think it's going to end up like a Tyler Perry movie where some man of means/high value man/etc is going to swoop in and save her and her children. Doesn't even have to be a man making 100k+ a year. Could be a brother who drives trucks for UPS or FedEx, a mail carrier with USPS, construction worker, or any brother who makes a average income or above average income or whatever that they think we'll come save them.I'll speak more on this tomorrow, but just a quick sentence.
It's prevalent that women STILL choose the wrong men and look for stable men as they approach 40 these days. old gens this was 25-30. dudes still simp but typically draw the line at kids....ESPECIALLY if it's more than one.
women leave relationships/marriages more than men because men quickly see the horrible options out there, along with their personal social standing and know what we qualify for.
just think (hypothetical) a 28 year old dude making 85k is not going to be interested in a girl that's 25 with 3 kids. not past fukking. that's what women don't get. if you have several kids, and you show literally none of the things touched on in this thread....today's men will only want to fukk you.
if you tryna get a dude and you got 2-3 kids you better have an amazing ass job to go along with it. because what the fukk does the dude get? headaches, stress, less time for himself. so today's men are saying no, overwhelmingly. especially dudes under 30.