Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

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I'll speak more on this tomorrow, but just a quick sentence.

It's prevalent that women STILL choose the wrong men and look for stable men as they approach 40 these days. old gens this was 25-30. dudes still simp but typically draw the line at kids....ESPECIALLY if it's more than one.

women leave relationships/marriages more than men because men quickly see the horrible options out there, along with their personal social standing and know what we qualify for.

just think (hypothetical) a 28 year old dude making 85k is not going to be interested in a girl that's 25 with 3 kids. not past fukking. that's what women don't get. if you have several kids, and you show literally none of the things touched on in this thread....today's men will only want to fukk you.

if you tryna get a dude and you got 2-3 kids you better have an amazing ass job to go along with it. because what the fukk does the dude get? headaches, stress, less time for himself. so today's men are saying no, overwhelmingly. especially dudes under 30.
They think it's going to end up like a Tyler Perry movie where some man of means/high value man/etc is going to swoop in and save her and her children. Doesn't even have to be a man making 100k+ a year. Could be a brother who drives trucks for UPS or FedEx, a mail carrier with USPS, construction worker, or any brother who makes a average income or above average income or whatever that they think we'll come save them.
 

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He's exercising so much patience here. Jesus Christ.


That's the hood broads though, they get love due to the thirsty cats in the street..

I can see why she thinks that way, the street dudes wanna smash and will literally praise her for p*ssy but they don't have the money to provide.

They switch up with age and look for a good man but by then it's too late and alot of dudes with money want women on their level.

Black men and women for the most part don't really believe in patriarchy we're so used to be equal, everything gotta be equal now.

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I take that back some women have good men who do everything for them but most likely they been together for years and she's cool and down to earth and men see her differently.
 

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Im watching Kevin and minister jap (never watched him before). Anyway, KS just let it slip that he fukked Cindy from en vogue, @min 29 ish. :skip:


….ain’t no way he can be lying the way he talkin in this video. This nikka is recalling with the memory, tone and mannerisms of a nikka who actually did that shyt.
 

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I take that back some women have good men who do everything for them but most likely they been together for years and she's cool and down to earth and men see her differently.
KS said that part of the reason young women are more likely to get that SAH set up is bc men don't generally take a woman who's succeeding in the work force and sit her down. She's proven, likely has some professional cred she'd like to maintain, and is used to living on that salary.

Imo, as an addendum, if you wife a careerist, thats bc you like it and don't want to change that feature of her. So, just based on how the economy works, if you wait too long, the same potential sahw is forced to focus on her career, just to live.
 

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KS said that part of the reason young women are more likely to get that SAH set up is bc men don't generally take a woman who's succeeding in the work force and sit her down. She's proven, likely has some professional cred she'd like to maintain, and is used to living on that salary.

Imo, as an addendum, if you wife a careerist, thats bc you like it and don't want to change that feature of her. So, just based on how the economy works, if you wait too long, the same potential sahw is forced to focus on her career, just to live.

Men don't even like dating if we keep it 100, IMO we'd love to all go back to high school and just have fun and let the chips fall where they may. Dudes don't wanna deal with that careerist mentality girl so they love them regular everyday women, but you gotta jump in that early. Part of the reason men kinda dig them hoodrats a bit, they act like they never grew up and refuse to be a part of society structure.
 

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Some of these situations are genuinely heart breaking. 30, 9th grade edu, 4 kids...mentioned perversion with one of the BDs....

"I Cry for a great husband..." I genuinely feel for her kids. she is just floating through life....she's not taking life seriously. she's going to be 35, then 40....then what? Who would want to take on that responsibility? Because if someone actually did, he would be wholly responsible for taking care of her and 4 kids and that is an insane ask. That requires an income of 300-400k, and that type of man will never notice her. Even an average breh will run from her. not even for sex...

Yeah I can't lie, that video was heart wrenching. Her parents failed her.
 

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That's the hood broads though, they get love due to the thirsty cats in the street..

I can see why she thinks that way, the street dudes wanna smash and will literally praise her for p*ssy but they don't have the money to provide.

They switch up with age and look for a good man but by then it's too late and alot of dudes with money want women on their level.

Black men and women for the most part don't really believe in patriarchy we're so used to be equal, everything gotta be equal now.

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I take that back some women have good men who do everything for them but most likely they been together for years and she's cool and down to earth and men see her differently.
I tend to tune out any woman or man who starts talking that patriarch shyt. You hit it on the head with us being more egalitarian than anything, and with more kids being raised by single mothers, one could argue we lean towards a matriarch. Women control much of the black community here in the US.

When black women start talking that patriarch stuff, it lets me know that they aren’t in tune with the community like that. That’s some stuff that plays out in white communities.
 

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He's exercising so much patience here. Jesus Christ.


man what?

when she said she don’t feel like she has time to finish her ged or work on her education but then admitted to being addicted to social media. I would have hung up on her, called back then hung up again for emphasis. She need a whole lot more than a 20 minute advice online. She needs to cut off everyone around her and start over her friends and family failed her. She can’t teach her kids nothing cause she don’t know nothing.
 
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