Kevin Samuels Discussion Thread

[Two Stacks]

If you want to step into the CURRENT Western dating/culture, you will have to make concessions somewhere and you will probably have to teach

And that's it. Concessions. looking for 70-80% of what you want as far as preferences instead of 100%.

Whether it's

Weight
Kids
Masculine traits
Excessive Tattoos
Doesn't cook much or at all
Not always running the streets

Those things can all be controlled. Discipline is something lacking today. No one has discipline. No one plays the long game, everyone thinks they deserve everything yesterday.

You'd be lucky to find HALF of the 6 things I listed. Education is the biggest thing BW harp on, the area where they have the most discipline. All I need in that area is a HS education. If you tried college, or you got a BS....that's nice. Most women end up going further because the BS doesn't produce a good paying job or a job at all.

Where as if you focused dually on a man AND education, you could put your 35-40k with his 50-80k and live a decent/good life. These women today want the lifestyle afforded by 300-500k income.

 

[Two Stacks]

My other post can apply to men too.

Weight
Kids
Excessive tattoos
Follower mentality
Street running
drugs/alcohol
Can't cook

All the above is controllable. We have no discipline.

End up 40 years old just wandering....talking about the old days. Work towards financial stability. if you gonna have kids have them with a woman who has her head on straight. What's your end goal? What's your career field? Can you actually take care of yourself? No? Fix it.

Give women an option to where they don't feel they have to carry everything. Dudes today want the celeb/athlete lifestyle...but generally don't want to put in work to become even an above average normal citizen.

 

[Busted_Toes]

This should be good

this that hot fiyah

 

[saturn7]

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Brehs.

Help us Father GOD

Is It Always Men's Fault? - YouTube

 

[Two Stacks]

He's exercising so much patience here. Jesus Christ.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Kevin asked her at the beginning, "How are you making ends meet?" And she immediately went into some social media influenced babble .... We've all seen these before:

I'm blessed...
I get mines...
I'm doing me...
Don't worry bout it, you ain't paying my bills...
I take care of my kids...

Later in the conversation she says, "oh yeah I get that" in reference to government assistance. It's like my dad always says, it starts with being honest with yourself, and if you can't be honest with yourself, you can't be honest with your loves ones.

 

[Two Stacks]

Kevin asked her at the beginning, "How are you making ends meet?" And she immediately went into some social media influenced babble .... We've all seen these before:

I'm blessed...
I get mines...
I'm doing me...
Don't worry bout it, you ain't paying my bills...
I take care of my kids...

Later in the conversation she says, "oh yeah I get that" in reference to government assistance. It's like my dad always says, it starts with being honest with yourself, and if you can't be honest with yourself, you can't be honest with your loves ones.

Some of these situations are genuinely heart breaking. 30, 9th grade edu, 4 kids...mentioned perversion with one of the BDs....

"I Cry for a great husband..." I genuinely feel for her kids. she is just floating through life....she's not taking life seriously. she's going to be 35, then 40....then what? Who would want to take on that responsibility? Because if someone actually did, he would be wholly responsible for taking care of her and 4 kids and that is an insane ask. That requires an income of 300-400k, and that type of man will never notice her. Even an average breh will run from her. not even for sex...

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Some of these situations are genuinely heart breaking. 30, 9th grade edu, 4 kids...mentioned perversion with one of the BDs....

"I Cry for a great husband..." I genuinely feel for her kids. she is just floating through life....she's not taking life seriously. she's going to be 35, then 40....then what? Who would want to take on that responsibility? Because if someone actually did, he would be wholly responsible for taking care of her and 4 kids and that is an insane ask. That requires an income of 300-400k, and that type of man will never notice her. Even an average breh will run from her. not even for sex...

It goes back to the creators: the mom and the baby daddies. Unfortunately they all sound like they ain't shyt. I pray for the children who didn't ask for anything of this. But I feel what you saying all the way.

 

[Easy-E]

He's exercising so much patience here. Jesus Christ.

Watch this almost 2 hours ago and it's still disturbing.

I'll reference what he said on Lapeef's (I think that's his name) pod; If not Kevin, why aren't women having these convos with each other?

This can easily be looked at as exploiting down bad people's fukked up situations, but, it's killing me that all a woman would do is call her queen, God's got it, etc, etc like she's not completely fukked.

Like she get can on good terms with ONE of her children's fathers.

That's too much. I lowkey think she was alluding to scamming or something--def illegal.

That's a tough situation.

 

[richaveli83]

Im watching Kevin and minister jap (never watched him before). Anyway, KS just let it slip that he fukked Cindy from en vogue, @min 29 ish.

I haven't finished watching the video but the switch up from when he's doing his shows on his YouTube channel versus this is funny. Dude was sounding like dudes I know around his age (mid to late 40s-early 50s) who ran the streets in the 90s.

 

[Two Stacks]

I'll speak more on this tomorrow, but just a quick sentence.

It's prevalent that women STILL choose the wrong men and look for stable men as they approach 40 these days. old gens this was 25-30. dudes still simp but typically draw the line at kids....ESPECIALLY if it's more than one.

women leave relationships/marriages more than men because men quickly see the horrible options out there, along with their personal social standing and know what we qualify for.

just think (hypothetical) a 28 year old dude making 85k is not going to be interested in a girl that's 25 with 3 kids. not past fukking. that's what women don't get. if you have several kids, and you show literally none of the things touched on in this thread....today's men will only want to fukk you.

if you tryna get a dude and you got 2-3 kids you better have an amazing ass job to go along with it. because what the fukk does the dude get? headaches, stress, less time for himself. so today's men are saying no, overwhelmingly. especially dudes under 30.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

These women who call up in dire situations need to swallow their pride and go back and make amends with their baby daddies. Kevin stay preaching that to women but so many of them don't wanna hear it because of ego. And you know a good portion of the time they break up the family over petty shyt that can be fixed with communication/therapy.

Edit: and one more thing, women need to throw the play book of --have several kids between 18-26 then look for a man to settle with at 35-- in the fire pit. That play hasn't worked in decades and only leads to broken homes.

 

[richaveli83]

They ban because he was giving off sus whiteboy responses

Banned?! I just thought he was bushed for awhile.

 

[mamba]

I haven't finished watching the video but the switch up from when he's doing his shows on his YouTube channel versus this is funny. Dude was sounding like dudes I know around his age (mid to late 40s) who ran the streets in the 90s.

Ultimately, Kev is a great salesman. And great salesmen know their customer and how to morph to meet a need.

Black men need to pay attention to the master class he is putting on.