that’s completely true. Before I ever knew and heard of KS, I heard of Sotomayor, and Tariq but never listened to them. The avg at best video reeled me in to KS.
My personal opinion when it comes to successful relationships (can’t speak on marriage) is as a man you gotta have a woman who will listen to you. Who likes/loves you more than you do her, and is physically attracted to you again more so than you are to her. That opens up you leading and her following.
if a woman won’t let me lead financially then the rest of it won’t work. in that arena I know wtf I’m doing. Simple example, she needs to understand that if she grosses 40k, she can’t buy a $1000 bag. She can’t pay for that little Benz SUV. And if I tell her no she’s not doing that she has to be able to accept that no and not go do it anyway. If she does, she’ll do worse. Can’t tell women what to do because they’re grown, and you certainly can’t force them.
Big issue is today’s black women don’t want structure from a man (because she’s a strong black woman who dont need no man) and don’t usually have real hobbies that are their own not influenced by friends/family/the guy they’re with.
