The main thing is that these guys are enabling it. He picked her, he's got to own that he's interview system for women is trash. These women aint turning down a free check or gifts?
In my experience women follow a man's energy. Women try the guys that look and act like they come off money anf gifts easily. It doesn't help that some guys are so basic that all the bring to the table is their wallet. Women don't ask me for shxt like that because they know i'll quit talking to them and keep it moving because that's the energy I give off. If you're getting treated like a trick it's because you act like one.
If women control access to sex and men control access to relationships, then who's fault is it these guys are getting played in their relationships?
that’s completely true. Before I ever knew and heard of KS, I heard of Sotomayor, and Tariq but never listened to them. The avg at best video reeled me in to KS.
My personal opinion when it comes to successful relationships (can’t speak on marriage) is as a man you gotta have a woman who will listen to you. Who likes/loves you more than you do her, and is physically attracted to you again more so than you are to her. That opens up you leading and her following.
if a woman won’t let me lead financially then the rest of it won’t work. in that arena I know wtf I’m doing. Simple example, she needs to understand that if she grosses 40k, she can’t buy a $1000 bag. She can’t pay for that little Benz SUV. And if I tell her no she’s not doing that she has to be able to accept that no and not go do it anyway. If she does, she’ll do worse. Can’t tell women what to do because they’re grown, and you certainly can’t force them.
Big issue is today’s black women don’t want structure from a man (because she’s a strong black woman who dont need no man) and don’t usually have real hobbies that are their own not influenced by friends/family/the guy they’re with.
by Coli standards, so lets move that out the way....
