She works as a cardiac nurse. She grew attached to a certain lifestyle, her children were raised in a certain lifestyle. Is that a bad thing?
In this country, marriage is a joke. You know why? Because most of the women who file for divorce women never remarry after taking their soul mates to the cleaners.
Honestly, until they change the laws, it's only gonna get worse and worse IMHO. There's not much incentive for a woman to stay in a marriage unless she will never get that caliber of man again (e.g. Kobe & Vanessa Bryant) So as a man, you either have to marry down, or marry someone who's already been through divorce. If you have a bish who's able to get better dudes than you, and she will be paid if she leaves you, the only thing that's gonna save you from divorce is God my nikkaz. It's better to marry a 6 who lets you have chicks on the side than marry a 8.5 who's gonna take you for half and leave you for another baller just because you didn't feel like takin' out the trash.Nikkaz stay wifin their sexual fantasies and be like
ten years later
I always wondered why some of the most powerful men in the world were married to some really average looking women when they could easily bag some young supermodel, but of course now I know. They fukk the supermodels on the side since sex is all they're good for and keep the homely ones who know their place.
Breh, you're reaching. Let it go. Stacey is one in a million
Not to mention they have the same complexion.
A women with true respect for herself and respect for God doesn't give a boyfriend husband benefits. It is he who finds a wife, not she3) Never marry a woman, let the woman marry you. She should already be showing wifey qualities and actin' like one way before you ever pop the question. Cooking, cleaning, nagging why you ain't at the crib, texting/calling you when she's not with you at night, the signs should be there. You should never marry a bish because she's a hot f*ck.
She works as a cardiac nurse. She grew attached to a certain lifestyle, her children were raised in a certain lifestyle. Is that a bad thing?
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And what happens if you holler at a chick while you have a wife who's down?
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....y'all work it out because she knows you know where home is at
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That's why it's tough wifing dimes in their prime, they can still get any man they want, and unless you're at the top of the food chain, you gotta be handcuffing the bish. That's why the golden rules of marriage for a man is:
1) Always marry at the same level or up financially. Never ever marry a woman significantly poorer than you unless you're like in your 50s or something.
2) Never marry a woman on the scene. A woman who is always surrounded by GQ azz nikkas and getting invited to all the top parties is gonna be tough to turn into a housewife/homebody. That's unfortunately when it comes to a woman who's a 9+, she's gotta be a little bit older/with kids/ran through in order to be ready to settle down.
3) Never marry a woman, let the woman marry you. She should already be showing wifey qualities and actin' like one way before you ever pop the question. Cooking, cleaning, nagging why you ain't at the crib, texting/calling you when she's not with you at night, the signs should be there. You should never marry a bish because she's a hot f*ck.
There's nothing wrong with marriage, but these days too many nikkaz fall for the wrong chick, we keep talking about sh*t about black women who want 2Pac in a business suit, but we act like we don't want Assata Shakur with the face of Halle Berry, and the body of Bria Myles and the freakiness of Adina Howard#decisions, make the wise one upfront and you won't be
ten years later (talkin' from personal experience passin' up good women for hot pieces of azz
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I've said it before my uncle always had bad chicks all his life but when he married he married some average looking chick and i couldn't understand i tat the time but as years go on I can see it, she's a amazing woman he knew exactly what he was doing.
Looks fade, but personality doesn't. I guarantee you ever chick you posted is loyal as hell and will be with their man till he dies
However not every gorgeous women falls into the attention whoring 20 dudes orbiting, have to screen and screen, I've been with some beautiful women in my life and they had great hearts and i've also been with some who were poisoned
There's always an exception to the rule breh, that wasn't the point, I was speaking in generalizations. George Clooney and Matt Damon could literally have 90% of the non-Islamic women on the planet, but they chose some average run of the mill bishes. The point is one should marry smart. I know too many dudes who wifed up a chick just because she had a nice smile, the azz was phat, the p*ss was wet, and she convinced him to nut without a condom. The woman should show you it's a no-brainer to wife her.
There is a gang of bad of bad advice and horrible information in this thread. Some of yall nikkaz sound alimony and child support free![]()
I agree breh I agree
well they ain't average women to them, a loyal woman beats a beautiful woman that will cheat on you and leave whenever.