I feel ya...I think its a reaction to the rejection. White men feel they are superior in the dating scene too but get mad if a fine white girl rejects them for a black man.
She is entitled to date who she wants. I think the problem comes in when you talk down on your own race when you are talking to someone of another race.
I was out last night at a club in Houston for New Years and overheard two black girls talking to a Latino about how they don't like black men. They didn't know that me and homeboy who is black could hear them. The Latino noticed and got very uncomfortable when I looked their way. They then got very quiet. These girls were dark skin and about 7-7.5 in looks. The club we went to was very mixed. Half the black dudes were in their with an Asian, Latina, or white girl...no lie.
I think that these girls said that because they felt rejected by the way the dating game is going for black women, especially dark skinned ones. Its part of the insecurity of their statement.
Did I feel rejected as a black man? To a certain extent but only because they were voicing their opinions it to an outsider. Other than that, I wouldn't talk to them anyways.
I date all races of women, but one thing I will never do is talk down on black women to other races as a way of making them feel good about themselves.
I think that the animosity between black men and black women is fostering interracial dating among black men.
Yesterday, I respectfully approached a few black women and was given the
After being rejected by one of them a fine white girl approached me and complemented my style and I asked her for a dance and she was game. Of course, you know how the sistas reacted as I was dancing with her.
I think that some black women have a defense mechanism that does not allow them to be gentle to men on first approach. It is huge turn off for me, but I still approach a them, if I am interested.
I think that black men should be okay with Kerry Washington dating white men. You can always remind a sista about her whenever she complains about succesful black men dating outside their race. Its 2013, she wasn't the first and won't be the last. Remember Dorothy Dandridge was the first popular black actress and she only was with white men too. It is part of the of the Hollywood culture. Halle Berry, Paula Patton, Lynn Whitfield, Rashida Jones, Robin Givens. its been going on for a long time.