darealvelle
Real Talk
I get what she trying to say, the problem is that the put a ring on it gang want this magical switch that turns on and everybody instantly cuffed locked down and secure.
And it just don’t work like that....that master lock had to be crafted, maintained and strengthened to become the secure foundation she looking for. And if she did her part trying to be a ride or die girlfriend looking to be a wife, either she ain’t material or she wasting her time with a nikka who don’t cuff in the first place
Dudes who looking for stability and long lasting almost always make that clear from jump, ain’t no guessing what someone’s intention is
This right here is the TRUTH!! Goes both ways as well. Anybody that says they not looking for anything serious at the jump, you already know what time they on.