Keep bein scared to talk to women, brehs

Malcolmxxx_23

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There is this one chick i see whos pretty sexy that comes through where i work to go to adult school or sum shyt
The first few times i seen her she would walk in front of me but i guess being a p*ssy afraid to gas her up i never would say anything jus stare at her ass as she passed by
But latly i noticed her walkin across the street now. Do u think she wanted me to say sumthin to her?
its too late..she already thinks your a puss for not even attempting breh
save face..only so long can one girl send out hints

what you can do is holla at chicks infront of her
 

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There is this one chick i see whos pretty sexy that comes through where i work to go to adult school or sum shyt
The first few times i seen her she would walk in front of me but i guess being a p*ssy afraid to gas her up i never would say anything jus stare at her ass as she passed by
But latly i noticed her walkin across the street now. Do u think she wanted me to say sumthin to her?

That happened between me and my last girl. We worked the same shift at neighboring businesses so I would see her on the walk there. She'd stare a lot and walk in my general area. She would come into my work and order coffee (she hates coffee lol). All of that was an attempt to create interest. I was generally oblivious until I was talking with one of her coworkers and he mentioned she thought I was attractive. Game over.

I'd say go for it if you see her again.
 

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but what if you ain't got no game and you live out of a car?
It aint game to say the truth: you find her interesting/attractive and I'm giving you the chance to know me. Go to her place.

Sumtimes i hesitate to chop sum females down because u can look at them and tell they get gased up a lot and i just dont wanna add to that
Preach. I feel that. If nikkas get shot down there are mechanisms such as "well maybe shes got the herp so she said no" or "maybe shes insecure inside", etc.

I think I've just got in my head that it would be her loss. You gotta exude that confidence. And you should, cuz real talk, as much as I hate some of you nikkas, :beli:if you're engaging on a hip hop board you're likely cool enough or at least smart enough to put your bid in.
 

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I disagree. They ARE being approached, even the ugly ones. The thirst nowadays is at epidemic levels, that's why chicks who look like the back end of a bus still have a stuck up attitude despite having nothing really going for them. I see that all the time.
i ment to say dimes(8 and above )
 

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There is this one chick i see whos pretty sexy that comes through where i work to go to adult school or sum shyt
The first few times i seen her she would walk in front of me but i guess being a p*ssy afraid to gas her up i never would say anything jus stare at her ass as she passed by
But latly i noticed her walkin across the street now. Do u think she wanted me to say sumthin to her?

She could have said something to YOU. That's why I say if chicks are so 'equal' nowadays, then they can just as much break the ice instead of dropping 'hints' all the time.

A lot of times they just want their ego boosted anyway, even if it's by a guy they have no interest in. I refuse to pander to that.
 

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She could have said something to YOU. That's why I say if chicks are so 'equal' nowadays, then they can just as much break the ice instead of dropping 'hints' all the time.

A lot of times they just want their ego boosted anyway, even if it's by a guy they don't have any interest in. I refuse to pander to that.

Nah man, I truly believe girls are even more anxious and doubt themselves more than guys, even the dimes. My ex did EVERYTHING except simply talk to me. As soon as I went into her job and chatted her up, she lit up as if she was waiting for me to do that all along. Everyone gets ego boost from validation.
 

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Nah man, I truly believe girls are even more anxious and doubt themselves more than guys, even the dimes. My ex did EVERYTHING except simply talk to me. As soon as I went into her job and chatted her up, she lit up as if she was waiting for me to do that all along. Everyone gets ego boost from validation.

If that worked for you cool, but personally I don't buy into this notion that the man has to do all the work.

I'm not even saying females have to approach a guy on some "hey you look good, gimme ya number" type shyt. All they have to do is strike a simple conversation with us and if we're game, then we'll run with it. But you got those broads who are interested in a particular guy but think all they have to do is just sit there or be in the vicinity, then they get mad when the dude doesn't respond or is completely oblivious. I don't play games. You have to meet me halfway and put in some effort too. It's not my job to validate anybody. If I'm the one that's interested, then I'll approach and set things off.

Like I mentioned in the thread, the chick that I spoke to earlier today was clearly interested and although she was too young for me, to her credit she at least struck up some convo after the sales talk and wanted to take things further, but I don't mess with teens so I had to decline. Older women can take a leaf out of her book.
 
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