Nah man, I truly believe girls are even more anxious and doubt themselves more than guys, even the dimes. My ex did EVERYTHING except simply talk to me. As soon as I went into her job and chatted her up, she lit up as if she was waiting for me to do that all along. Everyone gets ego boost from validation.
If that worked for you cool, but personally I don't buy into this notion that the man has to do all the work.
I'm not even saying females have to approach a guy on some "hey you look good, gimme ya number" type shyt. All they have to do is strike a simple conversation with us and if we're game, then we'll run with it. But you got those broads who are interested in a particular guy but think all they have to do is just sit there or be in the vicinity, then they get mad when the dude doesn't respond or is completely oblivious. I don't play games. You have to meet me halfway and put in some effort too. It's not my job to validate anybody. If
I'm the one that's interested, then I'll approach and set things off.
Like I mentioned in the thread, the chick that I spoke to earlier today was clearly interested and although she was too young for me, to her credit she at least struck up some convo after the sales talk and wanted to take things further, but I don't mess with teens so I had to decline. Older women can take a leaf out of her book.