Just tossed my Momma in the bushes.

[Coco Loco]

Well... If this is the best option for your mental and or physical health, good for you.


Toxic people can be parents too. People love telling people to excuse toxicity because it's a parent. Some parents rightfully earn their spot in the bushes. With that said, I'm glad I don't know what that feels like.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Be happy you threw your own mama out of your life brehs.

We don't know the story..

Just because they're family..don't mean they ain't toxic

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

She was real toxic and verbally abusive brehs. She was also physically abusive when I was a youngin’ But that’s most black moms. She never changed as I grew older as far as narcissism and arrogance. She did something today that cost me a lot(and I mean ALOT) of bread then blamed me like I’m the one who fukked up. I said something like “see that’s why I don’t come around often. When you gonna grow up and learn how to speak to people”. She started going off with the insults and shyt talk and told me she never wants to hear from me again. I said “bet”. Numbers blocked and everything.

I have to say some shyt like that to my mom every now and then when she wonders why my sister and all my siblings don't like talking to her.

She doesn't see how her actions have hurt others..refuses to accept accountability and then hurls insults back like a schoolgirl when you try to criticize her.

With me I see why she acts like this..her mom died, and her dad was abusive...however i realized only God can make her change her ways..

Meanwhile i'm out this bytch tommorow and ain't looking back

 

[Strapped]

Come on op , you gotta tell yo boys so they can move better op . Spill the beans mayne

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Dam I miss my momma

 

[fukkyalifestyle]

you only get one mom and she gave birth to you but at same time if she's gonna act a certain way and not change thats her fault. you still gotta check in cause its mom but maybe just call instead of stopping by.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She was real toxic and verbally abusive brehs. She was also physically abusive when I was a youngin’ But that’s most black moms. She never changed as I grew older as far as narcissism and arrogance. She did something today that cost me a lot(and I mean ALOT) of bread then blamed me like I’m the one who fukked up. I said something like “see that’s why I don’t come around often. When you gonna grow up and learn how to speak to people”. She started going off with the insults and shyt talk and told me she never wants to hear from me again. I said “bet”. Numbers blocked and everything.

I was waiting for more context before i dapped you

This was it...

My mom isn’t toxic but I understand because I’ve seen it and when i was a jit I’ve bushed my moms and other ppl in my family before over a lack of respect and overall toxicity. Not permanently Ofcourse, but i rather be alone than to be with someone who didn’t give me the same respect.

Usually thats all it took to get my mom to get her shyt together though... knowing her only son and probably the most responsible person in her entire life was fed up made her look at her own shortcomings (which wasn’t much, only thing we ever argued about really as an adult was money but growing up her choices of men was enough to make me hit the peace sign on her and bring my sister with me)..

So i get it. You still got a spot in your heart for her but if she can’t change her demoralizing ways then you have to do what you can for your own sanity and peace of mind. Always remember, your upbringing reflects on you so don’t bring that type of toxicity to your own child in the future.. Most people forget this

Don’t ever disrespect her but if you got to leave then it is what it is

 

[TRY GOD]

She was real toxic and verbally abusive brehs. She was also physically abusive when I was a youngin’ But that’s most black moms. She never changed as I grew older as far as narcissism and arrogance. She did something today that cost me a lot(and I mean ALOT) of bread then blamed me like I’m the one who fukked up. I said something like “see that’s why I don’t come around often. When you gonna grow up and learn how to speak to people”. She started going off with the insults and shyt talk and told me she never wants to hear from me again. I said “bet”. Numbers blocked and everything.

 

[Paper Boi]

sucks it has to come to that.

as someone who has had issues with family in the past, i'm not one of those people who thinks you should always cherish parents. they aren't always right and aren't always looking out for your best interest. you are not required to stand by ANY bullshyt just because they gave birth to you.

hopefully by cutting her out she can change and yall can have a relationship in the future though.

 

[1970s HeRon Flow]

My momma a saint to me so idk about that feeling personally

But her momma? My nana? Pssht classic narcissist, manipulative pitting family against each other, cant never do anything wrong in life and is perpetual victim while also being neglectful and spiteful to the point she cost my mom her marriage to my father and then kicked us out her house after we had no where to go. Along with other unspeakable things. Did I also mention shes a color struck high yella Jezebel super kewn?

fukk them hoes breh do you

My great grandma is 90+ and still able to make my grandma, mom and aunt cry with a few words. And they bend over backwards to try n make her happy
she aint shyt to me tho, I'm always telling my mom "fukk that bytch" " she need to drop dead already". She raised all of em strict and showed em no love, and I know that's the reason why my mom wasn't always able to be as affectionate as u expect mom's to be

 

[LurkMoar]

Crying on Reedit about your mother is so mainly.

Reddit posters



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[pcg]

my cousin's mother died when a hot-air balloon fell on her twice.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

This is going to be a thread full of fakkits who don’t have toxic moms chatising OP for not dealing with his most likely toxic moms bullshyt

OP Post on the raisedbynarcissists sub on Reddit. Posting this here is just going to get you piled on by male feminists and there’s no point in even going back and forth with them. It’s like trying to explain racism to white people. It’s like talking to a brick wall

This some real cac shyt rih here

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

cherish your mother brehs, my cousin's mother died when a hot-air balloon fell on her twice.

On some real shyt u should publish a book of haikus


Deep thoughts with Jack Handy ass nikka

 

[AZBeauty]

Hope it was to benefit your mental health and wealth.