Judge orders former black Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay to pay ex husband $13,257 in spousal support. The Qweens are MAAADDDDDD!

[Wiseborn]

Yeeeeep lol


That’s why I said, if you’re going to step outside, DO IT RIGHT.


She was more than accomplished in her own right, but she literally married into a damn legacy.


Like, her bloodline is set for life. Her kids will be Hollywood royalty even if they never enter the industry.


I be joking around with the female celebs I post here when it comes to maintaining our looks and all that, but Mellody Hobson (marriage aside) is an actual example and role model for Black women. She’s an inspiration.

Well I'd say you're putting a little too much dip on the preverbial wench chip.

But she married well and unlike all these divestors don't bring her relationship into the group chat.

She's an inspiration for her own accomplishments and I guess if we had to give her props for her relationship at least she didn't marry some bum that she has to take care of.

You could put EVE in the Divesting done right category as well.

 

[Wiseborn]

He had at one kid with Mellody via surrogate. His other kids are in their 30s and 40s but all adopted. I assume Mellody's child is his only biological kid but the others are surely accounted for.

Well Melody's not dumb, Just in case he bushes her she got the child support check

But Im sure as a high powered CEO she probably wanted to chill an be a mommy too.

 

[Wiseborn]

I am happy for her but hope her kids don't get downgraded in his trust. He has adult kids and I remember the Murdoch shyt and how the older kids tried to shaft Wendi Deng's kids. Even if they only split 10% though they will be set. They will get 100% of her Ariel money too which isn't chump change.

Now the chess move is to have them marry Black

That would be nice but once they grow up in those lunar elite illuminati circles they're gone.

That generational wealth is unlikely to be transferred to Black Hands.

Robert Smith almost had his share of BET money sent to a cac due to his daughter marrying and quickly divorcing a cac.

I think he bushed her.

Shorty grew up in horse country and doing dressage tournaments hardly any brehs there.

 

[DrBanneker]

That generational wealth is unlikely to be transferred to Black Hands.

Honestly not getting the Lucas wealth isn't a huge deal bc I never expected it. If all that money she made at Ariel leaves though I will be kinda sad. I have seen this happen too much to successful Black folks.

 

[Wiseborn]

Honestly not getting the Lucas wealth isn't a huge deal bc I never expected it. If all that money she made at Ariel leaves though I will be kinda sad. I have seen this happen too much to successful Black folks.

Man have you read the Book Black Fortune



All that generated Black wealth dissapated by the 3rd generation.

usually it was due to intergration but also it was Affuenza by the 3rdgen and or failing to marry anyone.

Some of the Black Undertakers kept wealth but they weren't rich but very few of the Boule class kept their money unless they were somehow politically connected.

It's wild that Affuenza hasn't crushed the Rothschild's or the Warburgs like that.

It seems like even very wealthy Black families didn't try to set up an empire.

 

[Rell84shots]

Well I'd say you're putting a little too much dip on the preverbial wench chip.

But she married well and unlike all these divestors don't bring her relationship into the group chat.

She's an inspiration for her own accomplishments and I guess if we had to give her props for her relationship at least she didn't marry some bum that she has to take care of.

You could put EVE in the Divesting done right category as well.

Eve fukked up when she revealed that her husband wasn't a billionaire.

 

[Wiseborn]

Eve fukked up when she revealed that her husband wasn't a billionaire.

Yeah but he's still up by several million.

Remember she was dealing with Stevie J. and had Sleesy's girl tatted on her.

Frankly considering that she had an amazing come up/

 

[Sk3ptical]

#GMB pay that man #equality

 

[Gloxina]

Well I'd say you're putting a little too much dip on the preverbial wench chip.

But she married well and unlike all these divestors don't bring her relationship into the group chat.

She's an inspiration for her own accomplishments and I guess if we had to give her props for her relationship at least she didn't marry some bum that she has to take care of.

You could put EVE in the Divesting done right category as well.

I wasn’t saying she was an inspiration because of who she married LOL I mean, Michelle Obama was an amazingly accomplished woman before marrying Barack as well.
I was just saying that she had her own amazing accomplishments as a single woman.


But yes, the fact that she did not step outside of the race to marry a bummy white dude should also be noted for the Black women who didn’t get the memo

 

[Gloxina]

She couldn't marry someone in her own age group. George Lucas is 80 years old and she's only 55. Men never have to worry about that . He was in his late 60s and bagged a women in her late 30s. He was clearly the winner in that arrangement. But women don't want to hear that truth.

He won in a way and she won in a way.


All y’all do is talk about how men like younger women. Ok, what’s the trade off if a younger woman gets with an older man?

$$$


And in this case he’s far from the average or successful older man. That’s where the trade off comes in.


Now. I’m not saying a man 20+ years older is…attractive whatever, but if a woman is going to do that, his status and ability to provide are the reasons why.
Obviously she isn’t with him because he was the finest dude she encountered just like he obviously isn’t with her because of her money. There’s a middle ground. I’m sure she didn’t find him ugly and I’m sure he valued her intelligence and success, but doesn’t actually need anything from her.

 

[Wiseborn]

I wasn’t saying she was an inspiration because of who she married LOL I mean, Michelle Obama was an amazingly accomplished woman before marrying Barack as well.
I was just saying that she had her own amazing accomplishments as a single woman.


But yes, the fact that she did not step outside of the race to marry a bummy white dude should also be noted for the Black women who didn’t get the memo

I get it but all the divestors use her and EVE as examples of Divesting done right as if they aren't the exceptions that prove the rule.

Besides there's never a generational wealth transfer white bed bucks always have white kids that get the bulk of money passed down to their full white heirs.

 

[Wiseborn]

He won in a way and she won in a way.


All y’all do is talk about how men like younger women. Ok, what’s the trade off if a younger woman gets with an older man?

$$$


And in this case he’s far from the average or successful older man. That’s where the trade off comes in.


Now. I’m not saying a man 20+ years older is…attractive whatever, but if a woman is going to do that, his status and ability to provide are the reasons why.
Obviously she isn’t with him because he was the finest dude she encountered just like he obviously isn’t with her because of her money. There’s a middle ground. I’m sure she didn’t find him ugly and I’m sure he valued her intelligence and success, but doesn’t actually need anything from her.

yeah the ill thing is that Black women when gender warring front like they can't settle.
We all settle at some point.

Melody is a beautiful chick there's no one on her level thats single at her level so it was either marry a pretty bum and set herself up for paying alimony or marry a dude with way more money than her she legit had no choice/

Again wierd gender war shyt is wierd. You 40 you settle or you get got. Tyrese married his lighskinned Black queen and went to jail trying to avoid paying for the next Man that fukks her that she will have to settle for.

You a flabbyhead Man or woman you pay like you weigh.

 

[Gloxina]

yeah the ill thing is that Black women when gender warring front like they can't settle.
We all settle at some point.

Melody is a beautiful chick there's no one on her level thats single at her level so it was either marry a pretty bum and set herself up for paying alimony or marry a dude with way more money than her she legit had no choice/

Again wierd gender war shyt is wierd. You 40 you settle or you get got. Tyrese married his lighskinned Black queen and went to jail trying to avoid paying for the next Man that fukks her that she will have to settle for.

You a flabbyhead Man or woman you pay like you weigh.

Pretty much this

 

[Gloxina]

I get it but all the divestors use her and EVE as examples of Divesting done right as if they aren't the exceptions that prove the rule.

Besides there's never a generational wealth transfer white bed bucks always have white kids that get the bulk of money passed down to their full white heirs.

True.


I mean, someone mentioned Robert Smith earlier. He had a Black wife and kids and dropped her for a white playboy bunny and had a kid with her. Did the white chick decide not to marry him because his Black children might get the bulk of the inheritance?


At some point it just is what it is. If someone thinks it’s love, or it’s a good deal, whatever

 

[Luke Cage]

He won in a way and she won in a way.


All y’all do is talk about how men like younger women. Ok, what’s the trade off if a younger woman gets with an older man?

$$$


And in this case he’s far from the average or successful older man. That’s where the trade off comes in.


Now. I’m not saying a man 20+ years older is…attractive whatever, but if a woman is going to do that, his status and ability to provide are the reasons why.
Obviously she isn’t with him because he was the finest dude she encountered just like he obviously isn’t with her because of her money. There’s a middle ground. I’m sure she didn’t find him ugly and I’m sure he valued her intelligence and success, but doesn’t actually need anything from her.

a lot of younger women be on some anna nicole smith type shyt preying on older men, can't automatically treat the old man like the predatory in these relationships