Dirty_Jerz
Ethiop
I'm willing to bet 90% of the men that posted in this thread and have a kid/s are dead beat dads not stepping up to responsibility
well i bet you're wrong
how about that smarty pants?
I'm willing to bet 90% of the men that posted in this thread and have a kid/s are dead beat dads not stepping up to responsibility
Someone would have to believe 30-40% of black men are thug degenerates to make that argument. Nah, it's a very wide variety of black men who just don't care about their children. Whether they're college graduates, hard workers, church folk, etc.
We're not raising our children brehs. I'm not absolving women of giving these sorry men the opportunity to nut in them but think about it: these chicks grew up without men in their lives too. Is it surprising that so many can be tricked into thinking some deadbeat is going to take care of them? They WANT to believe that. And these dudes are taking advantage of it.
My best friend's dad is a lawyer, successful, physically fit, etc. 5 kids, 3 women, doesn't give a fukk about them. Dude is winning community awards while his kids struggle in different states.
No
What kind of silly question is that?
go gay then nikka, it already sounds like thats where ya headedI've come to the conclusion that most women don't deserve a good man. They aren't mentally prepared for one because it would require them to operate at a standard they couldn't maintain.
go gay then nikka, it already sounds like thats where ya headed
Breh you of all people should know this. Yes there are some fathers who do not care........
But you of all people should know the big elephant in the room......of the war on drugs and how they are barred from life permanently because of "felonies", and people like Jill Scott NEVER EVER bring this up and act like there are never outside factors.
Men and not just black men are too far gone but let's keep it micro and say yes. Know why!? Because the black males are sexualized by their own mothers. "You gon' be a heartbreaker," "My baby got swag," or "My 4 year old gotta GF"... I grew up witnessing it. It is messy. Black females are raised a lot tougher with a tad bit more morals just doesn't go across correctly like "Don't be a hoe out here sucking these lil boys dikk. At least for free" Yes, mothers talk to daughters so gracefully. Daughters get put out of homes before sons! I am deviating off subject. lol. However, a woman should be repellant against sexual advances despite attraction and know the risks and negative consequences of laying down with those choice men.
Man, y'all just don't know. Topics like this get me heated!
I hate to hear stuff like Ms. Scott is saying.
I IMPLORE you ALL to read (if you haven't already) the Willie Lynch letter. Everything he is saying in there is STILL TRUE TO THIS DAY!!!!
to keep your "slaves" in check (yes I'm paraphrasing) you take their differences and pit em against each other...Light vs. Dark, Young vs. Old, Male vs. Female
and I'm POSITIVE almost everyone on here can find an example of each of those. Jay Z and Harry Belafonte, how people treat darker skinned people (especially women) vs how they treat fairer skinned AA's...and what Ms Scott said could be the example of our females vs our males...
I said that to say this...Willie Lynch or whoever, they got it right. He was EXACTLY right and they have run his "plan" to perfection. We're still "slaves" to them, only thing is, we CHOOSE to keep the chains on this time...