I've decided I'm not signing the birth certificate. (UPDATE: I WON!!!)

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:gucci: this bout the kid, not the bish. Who side you on?


50/50 legal. Child with her mom for now til I move back to town. Transferring my job with a decent salary, plus my comedy gigs are on the up.

Y'all might look at me like a sucker, but I settled on a child support amount, so I can move freely. it's a reasonable amount.

And the baby healthy and happy to see me and her mama.

But legally, again, I can do whatever. So i get to be here for my girl.

Never been happier. It's been almost 3 years of BS.

And what's best is our kid has still had great things the whole time. Despite beef, she's at a great daycare (which I picked before she was even born :aicmon: ). Bonnets, jackets, designer here and there we frugal and bougie lol.

Only thing her mama lacks on is potty training cuz she still a goof. But now she got daddy to deal with.
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I know it's whatever for some dudes but I'm glad I fought hard, changed my standing, and started to build a life for my daughter; despite all odds.u encourage everyone that truly wants to be there to do the same! But if they don't, I understand. ..

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It's over tho. I finally get to give it my all before my daughter realizes that she is her own person. All this for someone with no autonomy.

I wouldn't change a thing

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Congrats breh
Girls need their dads :salute:
 

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Congratulations, bro...but talking from experience, DO NOT FCK HER ANYMORE! ever again!

Iont care HOW good she looking when yall exchanging the baby ..or how horny y'all are ... Feelings get involved and shyt get messy..keep that shyt cordial and everything will go smooth the rest of yall life

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Oh you gotta maybe read this thread. I choked her bf and switched states at one point.
 

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I didn't sign my daughter's birth certificate and none of my friends did either. We all left the room when they came with the paperwork (we all had our first kid around when we were 21-22).

I had no idea my baby mama would become a useless alcoholic. She hasn't been involved in my daughter's life AT ALL. If I signed that certificate, she coulda been in my pockets with child support ONLY to support her habit. I would be pissed off if that was the case.

did u get custody?
 

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Yeah. She goes back and forth from my house to her grandma's (baby mamas mother).

My BM is literally like a corner store drug addict. No goals or no desire to do anything but drink and smoke. Loser ass bytch.
Nygga...why didn't you just go for the full custody? They would've gave it to you...

I understand we be wanting our time to ourselves...but I'd would be to worried about my ex bringing shady nyggas around my daughter.

I personally know a woman who used to make her little girls go sit in the car with the drug dealer as payment for crack...shyt scared the shyt outta me.

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:aicmon: I got the desired outcome.

Lol.
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Nice try nikka......:mjgrin:
 
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