Well you need to make a will in the event you do have something you want to give to your children. Don't give your money to the state even if it's a couple dollars.nah,I'm good on that front. I just had to face the harsh reality of getting it off the ground while having a baby. I'm not giving up on fatherhood, I'm just giving up on arguing and trying to communicate with her mom without a legal mandate.
I'm starting a second job and I got gigs coming up. Organized video chats most days with my kid. Its getting better so no, suicide ain't really the answer.
Some people just have to go through stuff and folks who don't like to criticize or act weird because they not thorough enough to bounce back. Life just be fukked up sometimes for some people.
I've decided I'm not signing the birth certificate. (UPDATE: I WON!!!)
- Thread starter Fiji Water
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He made that clear when he described his ex. Just has to be mature and make better decisions with whoever he deals with in the future. If you do not use discernment with the woman/women you are fooling around with, you will wind up creating hell for yourself.
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
Got my court date! Finna figure out the child support amount and everything finna be official. I also got more video visitation. Per the mother. It's looking up, brehs.
My current job is okay enough that I can start booking gigs again and I'm basically a shoe in for something on my day job pay grade (~30/hr).
We gon make it. We gon make, we gon make it.
fukk the frail shiiiiit....
My current job is okay enough that I can start booking gigs again and I'm basically a shoe in for something on my day job pay grade (~30/hr).
We gon make it. We gon make, we gon make it.
fukk the frail shiiiiit....
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
after all this, this ho didn't even show up to court. And it was virtual.I pretty much got this in the bag.
But here's what is wild. She called me two hours after court and asked me to give up my rights to the child on some coercion shyt. I was cool with partial custody but this is insanity. Like, what the hell is going on in this person's head?
Mike Nasty
Superstar
Damn breh, who are you setting up?
I pretty much got this in the bag.
But here's what is wild. She called me two hours after court and asked me to give up my rights to the child on some coercion shyt. I was cool with partial custody but this is insanity. Like, what the hell is going on in this person's head?
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
I take the L but she's a serious serial liar and manipulator. I got a plan tho. My job ain't too tier, which is whatever because I really make the most money from stand up comedy. I'm just doing it for stability then I'ma transfer back to Vegas and just stay in my kids face. Her mom is wilding. And I feel it's only gonna get worse.Luckily, the kid is at daycare a lot. There's pros and cons but I'm glad she's not solely around her mother all the time anymore.
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
I fukking won.
so you bytch was 2 timing you, congratsI fukking won.
Primary custody?I fukking won.
Fiji Water
Every moment is an opportunity
so you bytch was 2 timing you, congrats
this bout the kid, not the bish. Who side you on?50/50 legal. Child with her mom for now til I move back to town. Transferring my job with a decent salary, plus my comedy gigs are on the up.
Y'all might look at me like a sucker, but I settled on a child support amount, so I can move freely. it's a reasonable amount.
And the baby healthy and happy to see me and her mama.
But legally, again, I can do whatever. So i get to be here for my girl.
Never been happier. It's been almost 3 years of BS.
And what's best is our kid has still had great things the whole time. Despite beef, she's at a great daycare (which I picked before she was even born
). Bonnets, jackets, designer here and there we frugal and bougie lol.Only thing her mama lacks on is potty training cuz she still a goof. But now she got daddy to deal with.
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I know it's whatever for some dudes but I'm glad I fought hard, changed my standing, and started to build a life for my daughter; despite all odds.u encourage everyone that truly wants to be there to do the same! But if they don't, I understand. ..
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It's over tho. I finally get to give it my all before my daughter realizes that she is her own person. All this for someone with no autonomy.
I wouldn't change a thing
It's a win. You get access to your child! Congratulations.
50/50 legal. Child with her mom for now til I move back to town. Transferring my job with a decent salary, plus my comedy gigs are on the up.
Y'all might look at me like a sucker, but I settled on a child support amount, so I can move freely. it's a reasonable amount.
And the baby healthy and happy to see me and her mama.
But legally, again, I can do whatever. So i get to be here for my girl.
Never been happier. It's been almost 3 years of BS.
And what's best is our kid has still had great things the whole time. Despite beef, she's at a great daycare (which I picked before she was even born
Only thing her mama lacks on is potty training cuz she still a goof. But now she got daddy to deal with.
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I know it's whatever for some dudes but I'm glad I fought hard, changed my standing, and started to build a life for my daughter; despite all odds.u encourage everyone that truly wants to be there to do the same! But if they don't, I understand. ..
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It's over tho. I finally get to give it my all before my daughter realizes that she is her own person. All this for someone with no autonomy.
I wouldn't change a thing
Blackrogue
Superstar
Congratulations. Wish you and the baby the best
DetroitEWarren
Veteran
I didn't sign my daughter's birth certificate and none of my friends did either. We all left the room when they came with the paperwork (we all had our first kid around when we were 21-22).
I had no idea my baby mama would become a useless alcoholic. She hasn't been involved in my daughter's life AT ALL. If I signed that certificate, she coulda been in my pockets with child support ONLY to support her habit. I would be pissed off if that was the case.
I had no idea my baby mama would become a useless alcoholic. She hasn't been involved in my daughter's life AT ALL. If I signed that certificate, she coulda been in my pockets with child support ONLY to support her habit. I would be pissed off if that was the case.
Yaboysix
That nikka
Congratulations, bro...but talking from experience, DO NOT FCK HER ANYMORE! ever again!
Iont care HOW good she looking when yall exchanging the baby ..or how horny y'all are ... Feelings get involved and shyt get messy..keep that shyt cordial and everything will go smooth the rest of yall life
Iont care HOW good she looking when yall exchanging the baby ..or how horny y'all are ... Feelings get involved and shyt get messy..keep that shyt cordial and everything will go smooth the rest of yall life