Fat broads marry nikkas in their league, as they should (like most the fat broads at my old job ).
As to the bolded I guarantee you those broads don't know how to pick a dude and has fukked up expectations of how a relationship should go. I've talked to broads like you described and the first thing they come off with is a long ass laundry list of requirements of the nikka they want. And not a single time have I heard them list a man of honor or character.
They think a fat ass and a degree is what nikkas is looking for in a wife. shyt you try to put some of these broads on game and they still don't wanna listen. I remember I was in this club talking to this one chick and she said unless her man is 6'3, dark skin, with a 6 pack and 6 figures she won't even fukk with him because that's what she deserves. I asked her what about his character and she was like "Oh yeah that too"
Yea, that's true. I've heard chicks say shyt like look like shemar Moore, body like Bo jackson, 6 figures, and swag and I be like and they bad brehs, but not THAT bad. These chicks late 30s early 40s on that shyt! If they was younger I'd wife em up. No need for the gay dude sperm I'd be volunteering but they older and I know their expectations were even more insane when in their 20s, early 30s.
All that said, that's part of the difficulty. All chicks are conditioned to marry up. Men that isn't the case. It's harder for women, particularly bw, to marry up so they end up not marrying at all alot of the times or at least going for an equal after many years of failure. Or, just being like fukk it and going for fun dude with felonies.
But really stable guys got their pick. Some of these high standard chicks might never be within reach but there are plenty decent chicks for you that's not going to go against your conditioning as a guy or have you dating some loser